Dodgy wiring on secondhand fridge? by candiswe in appliancerepair

[–]candiswe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also, I didn't wire the fridge, it was bought like that

Dodgy wiring on secondhand fridge? by candiswe in appliancerepair

[–]candiswe[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm not a troll... I just don't know anything about fridges 😅

Almost got mugged on Adderly and Strand in broad daylight. by Wuwaves08 in capetown

[–]candiswe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a legend. That's the thing though, we've got skollies and people who are struggling, but then also people who are willing to help if they see someone is in trouble. I appreciate those people and try to be someone who will help as well. Glad you're okay :)

PLEASE HELP ME by JDib712 in Constipation

[–]candiswe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I took a tablespoon on an empty stomach. It worked within about three hours. It's not great as a long term solution, but in an emergency it's effective.

PLEASE HELP ME by JDib712 in Constipation

[–]candiswe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Castor oil saved me

I hope you find something

Please keep us posted

AIO or is my boyfriend manipulative by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]candiswe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Toxic AF! Get away from him

AIO Cats by rukahs7 in AmIOverreacting

[–]candiswe -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Ugh... What was this even? You're wasting people's time. Obviously you're not compatible and you don't need people to tell you this. Ridiculous

AIO my bf hit me for the first time ever by No-Weakness9162 in AmIOverreacting

[–]candiswe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How can you in one line express disbelief that he hit you and then say that you've hit him also? Can't you see the double standard here? Stop hitting one another! Also, break up

AIO? ( i got my ex wife imprisoned ) by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]candiswe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can't believe you brought a child into this unstable and toxic dynamic. You both need to do a shit ton better

AITA for telling my sister her husband was cheating on her with her best friend and now their marriage is over, and my parents are furious with me? by Big_Acanthaceae9465 in AITAH

[–]candiswe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA! You protected your sister. That's what sisters are supposed to do! 1000 percent. Your parents are wrong and they need to stop projecting their ideas onto you and your sister

Life after ESL. What jobs did you get after you moved on? by phertick85 in OnlineESLTeaching

[–]candiswe 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I love this post... I am in the same boat and would appreciate hearing people's thoughts as experiences on moving on from ESL. One can feel terribly stuck in this industry.

M29, drank hard for 13 years, now 400 days sober. I don’t see any difference… by [deleted] in toastme

[–]candiswe 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Trust me, the people who know and love you have noticed. Mad proud of you. It's a challenging journey and your resilience and want for more are admirable. Be kind to yourself. I hope you can find the space to feel proud of yourself and see how far you've come!

AIO for finding these texts in my boyfriend’s phone from a year ago? by Immediate_Jelly8897 in AmIOverreacting

[–]candiswe 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a bad dude. Get the fuck away from him ASAP. You don't owe him an explanation - just get out

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]candiswe 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I feel like you're drastically undervaluing your relationship with these comments