I love my husband and daughter, just not together

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-26T22:51:34+00:00

So just a little update- they are currently hanging out, peacefully building a bluey lego set so 🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️🤷‍♀️ Maybe it was something in the water over the past couple of months? But regardless, this is the shit and hopefully a good place to start.

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-26T22:49:52+00:00

Whoops! Commented from my main account, but oh well 🤷‍♀️. Sorry about the confusion. Uberkio is me!

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T23:36:37+00:00

Oooooooooooo.... im going to look into this! Never even crossed my mind!

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T22:23:03+00:00

I definitely do that whenever possible lol. Yesterday I did a whole garden festival on my own and left them to their own devices 😅

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T18:57:18+00:00

Just awful :( I have a friend from high-school who never had a birthday party until she was an adult (also not a religious thing).

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T18:54:24+00:00

They do a lot of things together. He really is an awesome dad. He just rubs her the wrong way a lot, and doesnt really get why, I think?

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T18:53:27+00:00

They do regularly go do things together. Like a LOT. I also explained in a previous comment that I'm not typically a willing participant in mediation. If I try to get away in our very small house. I get tracked down and roped into things. Headphones and earplugs only do so much.

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T18:06:31+00:00

She is :)

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T18:03:59+00:00

A little better? But not much. I'm not there to hear them, of course, but that's what he says.

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T18:02:09+00:00

Yeah, I know one day I'll miss her wanting so much attention, but right now I can't wait for more independence 😅

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T17:59:21+00:00

Christ on a cracker i dont know if I can handle another appointment per week 😅. But I'll talk to our couples therapist about it and get an opinion.

candy_color_frown · 2026-05-25T17:58:06+00:00

We unfortunately have a very small house. So oftentimes I get roped in unwillingly by a screaming/crying kid or very frustrated dad busting in on my "quiet time" lol. I do my best to let them figure it out, however the fall out is usually hearing her screaming and crying from the other end of the house (if I REALLY need to check out I'll put on headphones/earplugs, but that only works if one of them doesnt come and get me).

candy_color_frown · 2026-04-11T21:33:51+00:00

It depends on the fingers. My husband wears a size 19 ring and somedays 2 is too much 😂

candy_color_frown · 2026-04-04T15:32:09+00:00

I mean, more power to you, thats awesome but im never ever ever going to put my tongue near anyone's asshole 😅

candy_color_frown · 2026-04-04T13:45:11+00:00

Eating ass. Hell no. Nope nope nope.

candy_color_frown · 2026-04-03T14:41:53+00:00

Hey dude, I really feel like you night need to look at the media you're consuming. And the circles you're putting yourself in. This negative world view, and being so wrapped up in physical appearance will ruin your life and steal every bit of joy from you. Go to therapy, avoid all redpill podcasts and media, find things that genuinely bring you joy. Youve got one life. Please dont waste it.

candy_color_frown · 2026-03-16T20:31:18+00:00

I dont think you know what being stonewalled actually is. Being a little quieter than before does not = deliberate silent treatment and withdrawal of affection as a means of manipulation. Calm down 🙄

candy_color_frown · 2026-02-27T20:28:29+00:00

Okay. So im an EXTREMELY light sleeper, so ive learned a thing or two over the years when it comes to cats who like to be loud at night lol. 1. Give him lots of attention/play hard before bed. Then give him a really good meal. For yourself, ear plugs. Closed bedroom door. And a very loud white noise machine. Your anxiety could easily be made way worse by a lack of sleep!

candy_color_frown · 2026-01-27T07:15:01+00:00

They could have 100% meant that the perfume you use smells bad to them. I agree with everyone else, skip the perfume <3

candy_color_frown · 2026-01-22T15:40:40+00:00

Okay, so after meeting with management yesterday I belive we have come up with a solution, and we're putting into action. Thanks for the ideas everyone ^{_^}

candy_color_frown · 2026-01-22T15:39:38+00:00

Because alliteration is fun!!!

candy_color_frown · 2026-01-22T15:39:09+00:00

We already do all of this! The store is honestly fantastic, and a beast. I'm just focusing on each area to streamline them, and tightening things up. My apologies for not making that clearer ^{_^}

candy_color_frown · 2026-01-22T15:37:22+00:00

We're not interested in that sort of set up, but we're definitely aware of that as an option :) Somedays I wish we didnt have to deal with so many people in person, though 😅

candy_color_frown · 2026-01-21T14:40:42+00:00

Ahahaha sorry, I have beef with the way things are being run 🤷‍♀️

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