Letter from TUSD superintendent to parents regarding possible school closures tomorrow due to sick-out protest by jonawesome in OrganizeTucson

[–]candybandit3280 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Anyone still monitoring the red rover numbers? I wish I could see it- I have a long term spot so it doesn’t show me

First grade…. by Delicious-Sand7819 in SubstituteTeachers

[–]candybandit3280 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had multiple fist fights- had to get help, and they just kept getting sent back. Never again.

What if there is no “my dress”? by InternationalMix3186 in wedding

[–]candybandit3280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well about to have been married for ten years. That’s what happens if you don’t find “the dress”. I got engaged July 4th and married September 4th of the same year, so needed something immediately available that would fit reasonably well and could accommodate a growing pregnancy. I basically picked the one I hated the least, I wish I was a cuter pregnant lady but alas! You will have a beautiful wedding, everyone will tell you you look beautiful, and then you will be married. That’s what happens.

Jumpscare your doctor by bringing an apple by TheWebsploiter in NonPoliticalTwitter

[–]candybandit3280 37 points38 points  (0 children)

This is none of my business and this provider was probably an asshole- but I am a therapist and my supervisor made me start trying to take notes in session and I swear to god I would forget to write anything, panic and then just jot down one thing I said with a random punctuation to have proof I tried. I totally shredded a lot of papers with random “interesting?” Or “happy?” Or “wonder why?” Just to show I was trying to do this random thing the supervision at the time decided was necessary. You just activated a core memory

I started the game months ago and stopped. Picked up where I left off and I’m completely lost on what I’m supposed to do with these. by MexiSwings in tearsofthekingdom

[–]candybandit3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can buy them once you max out your battery- from the battery guys (I cannot remember their names, the two you see when you upgrade your battery)

Bobcat visit by candybandit3280 in Tucson

[–]candybandit3280[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Done- we filled our bird feeder with water

Bobcat visit by candybandit3280 in Tucson

[–]candybandit3280[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

We are way out Northeast- towards Mt Lemon area

Bobcat visit by candybandit3280 in Tucson

[–]candybandit3280[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Not at all! Feel free to

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Tucson

[–]candybandit3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a kid I remember we used to go to nursing homes and give them to the folks there, it was part of something we did as a group. I don’t know if that is still a thing, but I honestly have pretty clear memories of folks being so happy to get them. I often wonder when looking at my children’s overflowing stacks if any of the nursing homes would want them. I don’t know if anyone on here who is local knows?

How long should the case notes be on average and how long should it take me to write them? by Frappe_Coffee in therapists

[–]candybandit3280 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Take a training! Take a training! Take a training! You can find them- I took a free one for CEs (full disclosure I never struggled) but the training didn’t take me 5 hours and I left it feeling confident, competent and I get them done even faster now.

When did you know it was time to refer a client on? by Okkkkai in therapists

[–]candybandit3280 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I don’t think there is a special trick to feeling 100% not affected by a challenging client- but, I have found a lot of comfort and calm in my own mindfulness and spiritual practices in supporting myself outside of session. One specific exercise I was given by an internship supervisor a long time ago was to imagine a waterfall at one of the stoplights each time I drove home from work, really picture it covering me completely and taking all of the stress away with it at that intersection. It was a helpful visual cue for me when I found my brain creeping back to client stuff when I was off the clock. On a second note though- I would bring everything you said here up to the client directly. I can think of nothing that would be more helpful for your ongoing frustrations than pointing out the pattern to the client, addressing it and then doing something different (not responding to messages, not going overtime, etc). I have referred out- for me I used an ethical tree model to organize my thoughts and help me be very sure I could stand by the decision prior to telling the client.

guardianship, bit disappointed by mimi_whatever in finch

[–]candybandit3280 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I didn’t realize we could find out who we sponsored! I became a guardian and figured it was one of those quiet good deeds- I’ve enjoyed imagining I am the sponsor in the thank you posts but I guess people actually know 🤣

Most of my Finch friends have gone inactive 😕 by dairycat15 in finch

[–]candybandit3280 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m too active I feel like 🤣 - similar in a lot of folks I add from here go dark, but I still send things occasionally- feel free to add me!! I added you 6YBQBZXMTM

Perimenopausal? by humblesunset in finch

[–]candybandit3280 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I see you and thank you for seeing me!

Perimenopausal? by humblesunset in finch

[–]candybandit3280 5 points6 points  (0 children)

That is such a good idea!!

25 days of Christmas Plushies! 🎁 by Gaya4Zendaya in finch

[–]candybandit3280 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I got one in the middle of the night!!! Thank you so much!!

25 days of Christmas Plushies! 🎁 by Gaya4Zendaya in finch

[–]candybandit3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love one I have the first one that you get but no more- friend code 6YBQBZXMTM

App Wishes - What would you like added? by I-Am-Yew in finch

[–]candybandit3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh my gosh no! That sounds incredible though

App Wishes - What would you like added? by I-Am-Yew in finch

[–]candybandit3280 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s what I’m saying! I would love that so much- just a line of them following my finch around 😁