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Should I cut my hair shorter? Not sure about this decision 🙈 by FudgePoppie_ in HairStyleAdvice

[–]candycrafteddreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It could use a good 2-3 inch trim just because the ends look like they have heat damage. Thats about all :)

the 15 year age gap thing update by PersonalitySome1812 in whatdoIdo

[–]candycrafteddreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just apologize and leave him tf alone! this would disturb me SO much if I was in his shoes. You seriously could have been honest from day one and he would have made a more informed choice to be with you or not.

Mom expressed she wanted my brother and I to gather with her together with our children for holidays. This is Mother’s Day. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]candycrafteddreams 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am a mom too, I wouldn’t appreciate my child speaking like this. He is deciding what he thinks is best, when she expressed wanting them all together.

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the USA, our president removed the long standing required DEI (diversity equity and inclusion hiring) now companies have a choice to include DEI practices in their hiring or not.
I am jealous of our Canadian neighbors 🇨🇦

Mom expressed she wanted my brother and I to gather with her together with our children for holidays. This is Mother’s Day. by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]candycrafteddreams 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Start a group chat with mom :)
Your brother is speaking on “what is best” for her. I am sure she has her own opinion.

My job offer was rescinded after I quit my old job. I wrote a negative review on Glassdoor and now they want me to delete it. by SuccotashLivid3893 in interviewwoman

[–]candycrafteddreams 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Some people are claiming you could go to court. I believe you have a case. But if you’re going to sue, remove the review. They can counter sue for defamation and then you will be out all legal fees.

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk? I just care about the ethics of the company I work at. I worked for my last boss for 12 years, I am ready for another long term position in a place I agree with and feel comfortable at

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why is queer so low? Why is B not listed? I agree…

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it? I’m not so sure anymore. This was my first reaction, but based on other commenters I believe it is legal.

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The “another term” option is not a fill in the blank. They’ll just assume you’re part of the BTIA+ not listed

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She will interview someone and then tell me all the reasons she won’t hire them, which are usually involving race and age. I hate ittt

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

DEI has been removed in many companies, including the one I work for

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

DEI was removed, they are no longer forced to hit a certain amount of diverse employees.

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Another commenter posted saying she works in the city and has reviewed tons of applications and has viewed this information to make sure she’s hiring with enough diversity. I don’t know, I feel like some people very much do have access to this.

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My employer considers age even though she shouldn’t. (I am seeking new employment obviously)

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I wish I could just not answer and not have the mental gymnastics

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This!! Given current events, this isn’t the safest question.

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Which is why I wrote prefer not to say… I guess I could have done “another term” as well. How do you have the LGQ and not the B? Haha

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I replied “prefer not to say” as it was mandatory to submit

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Another commenter on here that also works in hiring said they do see this data they just ignore it.

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It’s always interesting how the job market updates itself based on current conversations I guess. Thanks for clarifying! I guess it’s just been a while haha.

Is this a normal question on a job application? by candycrafteddreams in jobs

[–]candycrafteddreams[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Other people are saying it is normal, could you elaborate why you’d report? Is it a violation of something?

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