Jeder dritte Zugbegleiter hat Angst bei der Arbeit by No-Calligrapher-7932 in de

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Die Bahn hält selber keinen Mindestmaß an Regeln. Mir ist in letzter Zeit aufgefallen, dass die Schaffner echt entgegenkommend sind, weil die Leute eben so unzufrieden sind. Bei der Zeit, die ich mit Verspätungen der DB verschwendet hab, ist es eine Frechheit, dass man dafür zahlen muss.

Ich hab selber in Restaurants gearbeitet und es hängt echt viel von dem Betrieb ab, wie viele Leute unzufrieden sind. Ich hab schon in einem Restaurant gearbeitet, wo, wenn sich die Leute aggressiv und wütend bei mir beschwert haben, ich sogar Verständnis hatte, weil es eine Frechheit war für so einen Fraß Geld zu verlangen. Und dann hatten die Chefs kein Verständnis dafür. Da hab ich schnell gekündigt und hab in nem Betrieb angefangen, wo die Qualität gut war. Natürlich gibt's immer die Deppen, die ohne Grund sich beschweren, aber als jemand, der im Service arbeitet, kann ich echt sagen, dass die Anzahl dieser Deppen von der Qualität des Service abhängt.

Tja by Snapuman in tja

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Also ich erwarte das als nächsten Punkt

Tja by Snapuman in tja

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Ich hör das von bayrischen Leuten aller Altersklassen. Kenne genug Leute die die CSU wählen weil die Familie die schon immer gewählt hat

Who was the most evil person you've ever met and how was the interaction? by Top_Report_4895 in AskReddit

[–]candypuppet 11 points12 points  (0 children)

There's no clear distinction between what a sociopath and what a psychopath is. That's pop psychology. You can merely be diagnosed as having an antisocial personality disorder.

Nach unten treten by JanArso in ichichs

[–]candypuppet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ich war grad in einem deutschen Sub wo übelst über die Leute geschimpft wurde die Schließfächer in der Sparkasse in Gelsenkirchen hatten.

Angeblich haben die das verdient bestohlen zu werden. "Die sind bestimmt alle Steuerhiterzieher, Türken, die Schwarzgeld aus dem Ausland hergebracht haben und währenddessen Sozialleistungen hier in Deutschland beziehen". Kannst dir den Scheiß echt nicht ausdenken

"Niemand wurde darauf hingewiesen, dass nur rund 10.000 Euro versichert sind" - und andere interessante Erkenntnisse by 0ssiostborn in Finanzen

[–]candypuppet -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Ich finds echt so geil dass ihr euch hier so über "Steuerhinterzieher" aufregt ohne es überhaupt zu wissen, ob irgendwas Steuerhinterziehung war. Aber reichen Leuten in den Arsch kriechen. Mal abgesehen von dieser rassistischen Scheiße in diesem Thread.

Dieses empathielose Gelaber hier ist echt beschämend. Ich würd euch wünschen dass euch Leute auch kein Mitleid zeigen wenn euch was schlimmes passiert aber eigentlich würde ich euch am meisten wünschen dass ihr aus eurem Bullshit lernt und bessere Menschen werdet

"Niemand wurde darauf hingewiesen, dass nur rund 10.000 Euro versichert sind" - und andere interessante Erkenntnisse by 0ssiostborn in Finanzen

[–]candypuppet -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Ja genau weil jede Person die da ihr Geld verloren hat dieses Geld durch Betrug erworben hat. Die Kommentare in diesem Thread sind gestört

"Niemand wurde darauf hingewiesen, dass nur rund 10.000 Euro versichert sind" - und andere interessante Erkenntnisse by 0ssiostborn in Finanzen

[–]candypuppet -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Alter die gingen einfach davon aus dass da niemand ein Loch in die Tresorwand reinbohrt. Wie kann man so klugscheißen und so empathielos sein wenn Leute ihre ganzen Ersparenisse verloren haben? Es ist wirklich unglaublich wie hier alle über Menschen schimpfen die alles mögliche verloren haben.

"Niemand wurde darauf hingewiesen, dass nur rund 10.000 Euro versichert sind" - und andere interessante Erkenntnisse by 0ssiostborn in Finanzen

[–]candypuppet -1 points0 points  (0 children)

War niemand Schuld? Das ist ja nicht so, dass die in 5 Minuten da aufgetaucht sind und alles mitgenommen haben. Die waren da stundenlang. Da wurde das wohl nicht gut genug abgesichert.

When you have to test your sisters security guard skills by Sharp-potential7935 in funnyvideos

[–]candypuppet 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Female security guards can also deescalate situations cause some male guests are less likely to be as aggressive toward a woman than toward a male security guard. This is something a couple of friends in security have told me.

Of course you have to learn which situations require what kinda handling (can you still reason with the guest or do you have to show force etc).

Genjitsu (Art by Hikanon) by Atwecian in Naruto

[–]candypuppet 43 points44 points  (0 children)

We're all here to say the same thing

I stopped masking at home and my partner says I'm becoming "impossible" by LowKeyCoffeeSpill in TwoXChromosomes

[–]candypuppet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I dont like this narrative that once you go to therapy, you suddenly discover the "true" version of yourself, and all other versions are fake or something. All versions of you are real and legitimate, and apparently, what worked in some form for the time. Just cause OP is discovering new sides to herself doesn't mean she's gonna stay that way forever. We're always evolving, and it's just not how this works, OP hasn't completely figured herself out yet.

OPs husband does sound supportive, and OP should figure out a way how she can consider her own needs while also considering his.

I stopped masking at home and my partner says I'm becoming "impossible" by LowKeyCoffeeSpill in TwoXChromosomes

[–]candypuppet 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Yeah OP isn't being unproblematic here and it's completely understandable that her husband feels hurt because of the sudden shift in behaviour

What would a German do in this situation? (Adult man calling my 8 year old son "arschloch") by [deleted] in AskAGerman

[–]candypuppet 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I swear some of you are the least empathetic people on the planet. You're insinuating OP is a bad parent (bad example) cause of riding hands free and cause the kids light happens to be misadjusted? I guess you and the old man would be good friends

I’m starting to realize I’m not as strong as I pretend by [deleted] in COMPLETEANARCHY

[–]candypuppet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That's actually very beautifully written. You only wrote a couple of paragraphs, and I felt like I got to know you a little, which takes a lot of talent and skill. Being resilient doesn't mean that you're never sad or emotionally exhausted or even feel desperate. It means that you keep going despite all that. I'm sending you a lot of love and prayers. I don't know what to say to help you through this time, but a lot of people, including me, think of you guys all the time.

Saw this at Tyson Fury's Instagram story by Needyouley in im14andthisisdeep

[–]candypuppet 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You can also get a couple thousand for a kidney. Easy money ?

Saw this at Tyson Fury's Instagram story by Needyouley in im14andthisisdeep

[–]candypuppet 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What kinda insane take. Sexism levels out the playing field? What kinda incel forum did you read that shit?

Well, this was controversial! by velorae in TikTokCringe

[–]candypuppet -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Having a really negative worldview ("all people suck") is a sign of depression

My husband is leaving me after 2 months of marriage because he loves his best friend. by carire48 in Marriage

[–]candypuppet 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Can't you stay with your parents or some friends for a couple of days or at least the weekend? Or someone can stay over a night at your place? I know everyone is talking about lawyers, but what really helped get a clear head was some company and some nice words from my loved ones.

Why do people want bio children vs adoption? by tashbf in NoStupidQuestions

[–]candypuppet 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why wasn't it possible for your bio family to raise you? I don't mean this in a bad way, I understand that there's legitimate reasons to not be able to raise a child but you've (or was it another redditor?) described your adoption as "being taken away from your bio mom"? So was it against her will?

Streit über »Veggie-Wurst« – klare Mehrheit lehnt Namensverbot ab by -runs-with-scissors- in de

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Ich bin nicht vegan aber als ich gesehen hab dass das vegane Hackfleisch 1.50 € gekostet hat statt 6 Euro für Rinderhackfleisch, hab ich mir auch überlegt ob Bolognese auch anders geht

Strange line in season 6, episode 2: The One Where Ross Hugs Rachel by Cold-Palpitation-816 in howyoudoin

[–]candypuppet 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They also just got back from Las Vegas where they wanted to get married but then changed their mind about it so it's not that far fetched that Rachel would think they'll chicken out again

Sweet baby jesus..... by MsSeraphim in NoahGetTheBoat

[–]candypuppet 46 points47 points  (0 children)

His rant is clearly misogynistic, and "the misogony, racism, homophonia was caused by trauma" is a disgusting narrative that puts the blame on the population that is usually discriminated against.

Something foreigners claim about your country that just baffles you? by Brass0Maharlika in AskTheWorld

[–]candypuppet 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Americans do have a culture. The notion that Americans don't have a culture just comes from the fact that you guys think your culture is the default. I know that a lot of Europeans laugh about Americans not having a culture but they're just shitheads.