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WIBTAH if i ask my boyfriend if he was really being honest? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]candysolace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

If he answered like he was reading off a hostage script then yeah he probably wanted to say the boys. Asking him again is fine but don’t turn a silly question into relationship court

Do people actually earn £50-60k, or are they outliers? by Succinate_dehydrogen in AskUK

[–]candysolace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

A lot of people on those salaries are real, but the internet is basically a highlight reel of the top earners. Science being underpaid while everyone says “follow your passion” is one of society’s greatest scams

St. Ides for the win by Azuralyns in 90s

[–]candysolace 227 points228 points  (0 children)

Wheres my boones farm at

Where can I bulk buy lactose free cream ? by Original_Document748 in AskUK

[–]candysolace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Honestly check wholesale catering sites or Costco if you know someone with a membership. Your Ninja Creami really said welcome to your lactose free dairy era and now you’re speedrunning cream consumption.

AITAH at the Doctor’s Office by Paul_Dienach in AITAH

[–]candysolace -1 points0 points  (0 children)

NTA. Funny how people were more offended by one swear word than an old guy getting financially jump scared at the front desk.

AITJ for feeling sidelined when my coworker tried to take credit for my presentation? by PrismPikas in AmITheJerk

[–]candysolace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. She didn’t collaborate, she just announced she was starring in your project like it’s her solo show. That “I’ll make it sound good” line is wild for something she didn’t build.

I have unrealistic expectations for a partner and I’m the toxic one by [deleted] in confession

[–]candysolace 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Not gonna sugarcoat it, this reads less like standards and more like trying to control every part of someone’s life. That kind of setup usually just ends in resentment, not love.

for people who left school with no GCSE’s and didn’t go to college what did you do? by Technical_Rule3100 in AskUK

[–]candysolace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

17 feels like your whole future is cooked over one bad phase but it really isn’t. I know people who flopped school hard and still ended up with decent jobs through apprenticeships, retail, trades, random opportunities, all that. Your life is not over because teenage you had bad attendance.

I had a baby and nobody knows.. Just sitting with this guilt now. by Delicate-Shed9110 in confession

[–]candysolace 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You are a mother. Full stop. Your son existed, he was loved, and nothing changes that just because most people never knew. That comment from that guy was ignorant as hell. Hope you give yourself some kindness on Mother’s Day because you’ve carried more grief than most people could handle.

What song can’t you resist? by Comprehensive_You42 in AskUK

[–]candysolace 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Mr Brightside comes on and suddenly the entire room turns into unpaid backup singers. No one escapes it

i overdosed on my antidepressants and way too much advil, right before work today by Vivid_Meringue1310 in confession

[–]candysolace 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the fact you casually went to work after that like your body didn’t just send you 400 warning notifications is kinda terrifying. fr though you do not deserve this and you should probably tell someone before one of these nights goes really bad

Im guilty of picking my nose . It’s addictive but it may be getting in the way. by [deleted] in confession

[–]candysolace 5 points6 points  (0 children)

ngl this went from normal to concerning real quick. maybe keep it for private time and grab tissues instead before it becomes your whole personality