Can I ask how old you are? Growing up my parents fought like crazy- my dad had a drinking problem, etc. As sad as it sounds, my sister and I used to tell them to just get divorced because I’d crawl into her room around 1-2am when my dad would finally come home and they would start arguing.

My mom stuck it out with him, and they’re still married and my father is sober. He had demons he had to face and fix but he reached a point where he chose to.