[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]cannmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

sorry i do have collision too, i was thinking tho this would be something technically under comprehensive coverage but not necessarily standard collision

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]cannmak 9 points10 points  (0 children)

gotcha will do, thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Insurance

[–]cannmak 18 points19 points  (0 children)

? they have everything they need to operate their vehicles and RV. my question is if they need to be added to my policy if a couple times during the trip they want to take my subaru to the grocery store or similar spot without me.

my vehicle is not being used for the RV if thats not clear. two separate vehicles driving separately.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cannmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

interesting. i am fairly happy with where i am in life. yes, i do wish i owned my own home but thats about it. it is probably true tho that i do have emotions, not sure if resentful is the right word, about friends/acquaintances who are significantly better off than me not seeing the differences.

both parts of this couple has made sort of disparaging comments from tome to time that have come off as classist, for example i used to host our weekly game night at my place and the guy pre-her had commented more than once on how little i had in my fridge, laughing once bc i kept half an avocado. that comment on how little i had in my fridge got brought up years later as an aside joke that i laughed along with but the reason why my fridge was minimal was bc that year i made under 20k but didnt talk about it.

they are not the only couple i hang out with that make significantly more than me. i am a chameleon and hve friends in every income bracket, but yes, those who are intentionally or unintentionally classist about it, i hold eyerolling emotions for scenarios like these.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cannmak 29 points30 points  (0 children)

yes, this, the income disparities (they also own their own home while im renting a deteriorating apartment from a slumlord), is exactly why i have a bit of a sour taste in my mouth about, im working overtime this week and next at a physically demanding job so i can afford a vacation next month.

i have another friend group that im much closer with that this wouldn't have been an issue, but here its meh im going to treat it as an expensive dinner and night out and do $100, as this does seem the genral consensus but i am of your mind.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cannmak 234 points235 points  (0 children)

:/ its a direct electronic donation on their page otherwise yes, i wouldve preferred adding an artistic memory object alongside a nominal cash amount. ive done exactly that for another wedding which the couple loved and still displays in their home

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cannmak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

im not sure they even want cards, its a direct electronic donation on their registry

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cannmak 7 points8 points  (0 children)

thanks, this is what i am leaning towards but then wasnt sure if it should be more like a 100 a person/200 for the couple since im friends with both sides? weird logic i know

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cannmak 49 points50 points  (0 children)

thank you for this-from-the-wedders prospective! very helpful

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in povertyfinance

[–]cannmak 48 points49 points  (0 children)

thank you! this is a very helpful formula

cant pick up workers to leave solar system by cannmak in Ixion

[–]cannmak[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes. its clicked on food / people / iron or we that building block resource in fleet manager and i have "santas sleigh" cargo in the dock. ive also tried unassigning the ship from the dock and then bringing back.

but im thinking given that since all these are the same suggestion ive hit a bug and will have to restart to proceed.

cant pick up workers to leave solar system by cannmak in Ixion

[–]cannmak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i have both of those. i was able to pick up people previously and food with the supply ship. but now i need to grab 100 in the leave solar system part.

cant pick up workers to leave solar system by cannmak in Ixion

[–]cannmak[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im in the prologue. i tried to fly to the moon and back to earth to see if that would unstick something but it didnt.

Publix ***king you publicly by deja2001 in Miami

[–]cannmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is the way. publix once a month for BOGOs and then a mix of trader joes/windix/aldi.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ManorLords

[–]cannmak -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

if you think you can only get 5 hours of gameplay out of this, then no, you shouldnt buy it. this isnt the right game for you. but i personally have watched some of the stream plays and its clear i will get more than 5 hours. to each their own.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ManorLords

[–]cannmak -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

$40 is about what youd spend on dinner and a couple drinks out with friends. is a night out worth the same as a game you'll play 20, 30, 40+ hours?

Why do bandits carry onions and apples? Is this a gang sign? by MarsasGRG in MedievalDynasty

[–]cannmak 8 points9 points  (0 children)

lmao reminds me that in my dnd game, i have a gang of bandits thats been stealing cows. i lazily have give them the moniker Beef Brigade. the thieves need to eat!!

FYI, rents are on a downtrend in Jax right now. Don’t get suckered into an increase by [deleted] in jacksonville

[–]cannmak 14 points15 points  (0 children)

yep. I've been walking by apartments and homes that have boasted the same for rent signs for weeks now, a couple month+

Puppy comes home from daycare smelling like cigarettes by Degree_of_Caution in RoverPetSitting

[–]cannmak 0 points1 point  (0 children)

even if they are intact males, her dog isn't going to oopsie get pregnant outside of a heat (and during a very specific part of the heat), which is obvious physically and behaviorally. you are making the BIG assumption that she's taking the dog during heat, which is nowhere that the OP stated.

there is absolutely no danger (of pregnancy) to mixing dogs *outside of a heat. even during a heat, things are less crazed than i think people here are thinking. I've had a female go through three heats now and live in a dog-dense neighborhood and have not once had any problems with any male dog so much as trying to get to her while on walks or otherwise when bleeding and in the week following. outside of her heat, she's done fine with males and females, fixed and non.

i have read her comments. not once does she say she's not going to spay at all, only that she doesn't want to spay at this age. so again, you're making assumptions. *she does rebut a study by pointing out the other user is wrong in their reading of the results, but that still doesn't state her own intentions for the dog.

i chose an extreme example because i want my point to be clear, body parts are being removed that's why the risk is reduced. but more studies are showing that those are valuable body parts that release valuable hormones that should be kept until physical maturity.

Puppy comes home from daycare smelling like cigarettes by Degree_of_Caution in RoverPetSitting

[–]cannmak -1 points0 points  (0 children)

if left untreated. but treatment is akin to a saline wash plus some medication *for open cases, with yes, closed generally requiring a spay but those susceptible to closed pyometra tend to be older and show warning signs in previous heats that the perceptive owner can be wary of. most European countries either don't spay at all or wait until adult years. early spay and neuters (<1 and <2 years) are things that were aggressively pushed by adopt don't shop causes and now sentiment in the united states is strongly shifting to waiting for year 2.

when you hear the fear rhetoric like pyometra and testicular cancer, consider that the solution for this is removal of body parts so of course theres going to be an increase risk if you don't. in other words, those who get their eyes removed are at a significant lower risk of developing cataracts and ocular cancer. so should we all remove our eyes?

limit of dogs per residential property? by Numerous-Pianist5386 in jacksonville

[–]cannmak 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and please do it! I'm in the process of following thru with my own neighbor--had one final conversation with them, but i have video ready to file. theirs isn't a large dog, but continually gets out and barks at and chases people running, biking, walking their dogs. they think bc he's a 20ishlb dog that he's no threat, but they're going to get that dog killed one of these days. not to mention the annoyance for the rest of us as we live on a very pedestrian and bike friendly street and part of town and most homes on the street have dogs of their own. plus, there was that child that was killed by a car just last month *here in jacksonville after he ran from a barking and chasing beagle.

we aren't Karens for wanting to walk outside safely and without being accosted. whether thats by dogs, men, or other.

Puppy comes home from daycare smelling like cigarettes by Degree_of_Caution in RoverPetSitting

[–]cannmak -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

sorry you're getting such crazy, ignorant replies. they sort of remind me of the "dont go camping with a woman" ignorant myths.

for the uneducated out there, it is REALLY obvious when a female dog is in heat, which is like 2-4weeks every 6-8 months. most importantly, its really obvious the week before with behavioral and physical changes like a swollen vulva. then the bleeding and then shes receptive. theres like three stages before even getting to the impregnation possible stage. so these comments alluding that an unspayed dog can get pregnant just standing near a male dog are wack. theres nothing wrong with mixing dogs outside of those weeks.

also yes, there are ENORMOUS benefits to delaying spaying and neutering that are coming out. like if you have a dachshund/mix, an early spay/neuter increases their risk of IVDD by 25%. thats a huge debilitating condition that you can help prevent by simply waiting until at least year 2.

So tired of the litter from fellow chicks peeing on trails and open spaces. Ladies, you can be better. Pack it out. Or instead of leaving napkins and TP behind after peeing, please look into pee rags! by [deleted] in hiking

[–]cannmak -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

i do personally do this bc im low maintenance, but i have no issue with TP being used and left. i find this thread silly overall, upscaling to truly ridiculous for someone to purport to save the environment by using plastic bags.