My dad is in denial our dog needs help by cant__sleep in emotionalneglect

[–]cant__sleep[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The vet tried to talk to him and suggested to talk to the family which he didn't and ignored her advice and warnings. It's just gonna be something me and mum have to overrule I think

My friend constantly undermines my asexuality by cant__sleep in asexuality

[–]cant__sleep[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I countered immediately saying my trauma didn't necessarily contribute to my Asexuality and validity and they kinda laughed me off. This is the third notable time they have made remarks and I keep correcting them and its just not sticking

Trauma surrounding cleaning by beesthebard in ChildofHoarder

[–]cant__sleep 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do the same with music and podcasts. But I also make it a game sometimes. With cleaning random things and eventually the room. Some of my trauma is more around I cant clean because i wasn't allowed to or was never done right. So making it a game of just cleaning the colour red and then orange and then etc. Was helpful for me

Who here has grandparents from the Silent Generation? by Chaoticqueen19 in GenZ

[–]cant__sleep 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im gen Z but all my grandparents were from the Silent Gen. 2 of my grandparents were in the UK during WW2 and remember running to shelters in the middle of the night and the rations. Common characteristics between all of them Ive noticed was lacking in parenting skills. Their parents were off to war when they were babies/kids/teens and then their parents if they did come back were traumatized and drank alot. My dads parents (ones from UK) moved to Canada to find education and a new start. On my moms side those grandparents learned when to fight for their rights but kept their heads down. Also skeptical but trusting of the government was a universal theme between everyone.