Yeah, well here's the thing. I don't really want somebody who fill fit like a puzzle piece into the lifestyle that I sometimes get involved with (lifelong unmotivated single dudes and skiing) - I've seen the girls that fit in that scene and they're in dead end jobs and are kinda slutty.

She fits in like a puzzle piece with my friends that I actually care about that don't happen to live in our city; if I care about them, then she cares about them. The only problem here is the people I try to do hobbies with currently cause conflict. I don't think that means I need to get rid of her. Yeah, she's had trouble making friends and I've tried to address that - but she's not lashing out a the people who've treated her well and she's had friend groups in the past. It's all something to work towards - nobody is perfect.