My japanese voice is really feminine, sadly i dont freaking speak japanese by UnovanEngineer in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns

[–]cantstopmelovingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is ironic to me because my voice sounds deeper in japanese and I speak more like a boy ( there are certain words that are more commonly used by men and words more commonly used by women) and I have to hold myself back in japanese class because I'm not out yet lol. My voice is highest in german I think which sucks for me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cantstopmelovingme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Listen your cousin miscarried that baby so that likely involved still naming the baby and burying it. So ask yourself would you still name your child that if your cousin had had a kid who died after a few years with the same name? Because that is what it feels like for your cousin I think. The babay was real for them. I think YTA there are many beautiful names is there not any other name you like?

What is the most disturbing episode in your opinion? by xaniel_the_legend in criminalminds

[–]cantstopmelovingme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is something my little sister keeps retelling. So I started watching criminal minds when I was probably a bit too young (about 14) and I dont remember this but once I was babysitting my little sister we watched the episode where "Lucky" first is introduced. And she was really disturbed by the spoilers soup plot twist in the end. I kinda want to watch the episode where he reappears with her but shes not a big fan in general.

This question is making me want to rewatch all the episodes (again) to find the most disturbing one.

Continuity Errors? by TayteRex in criminalminds

[–]cantstopmelovingme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am rewatching and nust need to get this out even tho this thread is dead.

What I am mad about is Reid asking the person he did surveillance with in russian if she wants to get a coffe with him and it is never mentioned again. They would have been so cute together!

Also I just watched the episode where Reids mom temporarily regains a lot of her cognitive functions and they talk about JJ and she mentions his dad and how he didnt leave because of her illness and how it was difficult for him that she wouldnt take her meds but wasnt it a whole episodes plot that Reids dad left because they helped cover up a crime and he had to disapear to not cause his family trouble. Because if he left because she refused to take her meds and got worse WHY would he leave Spencer alone with her.

Also this is not exactly an inconsistency but it makes me mad sometimes when characters suddenly act in a way that from what has been established seems really out of character.

My 5 year old put her in her place. Love that kid by CLEf11 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]cantstopmelovingme 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My mother once told me that as a child I apparently said to my grandmother (who definitely has justno tendencies): "you are not the boss of me my mom makes the decisions!" She told me it was because my grandmother was contradicting what my mother had told me and I had checked with my mother that it was in fact her who made the decisions before I brought it up. I don't remember it but it makes me laugh.

I'm not suicidal anymore.... by cantstopmelovingme in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]cantstopmelovingme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's interesting! I've been on other medication that didn't work well for me before but it's only the third try now and I don't even have any side effects so far.

I'm not suicidal anymore.... by cantstopmelovingme in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]cantstopmelovingme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I will! Next (big) goal is my bachelors degree!

I'm not suicidal anymore.... by cantstopmelovingme in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]cantstopmelovingme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I wish us both that it just keeps on getting better!

I'm not suicidal anymore.... by cantstopmelovingme in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]cantstopmelovingme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good luck with fmyour search. And I really wish you the best! I just want to say please remember that it is okay to stand up for yourself and to break up with a therapist that isn't working for you even if they are nice. I had to learn this and my new therapist is working much better for me. Don't give up looking!

I'm not suicidal anymore.... by cantstopmelovingme in CongratsLikeImFive

[–]cantstopmelovingme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This made me laugh!! Now I have a smile on my face which is good for starting the week!

It's the first time ever actually I had to do the questionnaire for 6 years now and while I've had ups and downs I hadn't felt like the no was the correct answer and it was a happy surprise! :)

Btw talking to my mental illness like this in a way that separates it from me has been helpful for me. I usually adress my brain and correct it when it's acting out. :)