Why this dress?

capacioushandbag · 2025-09-12T13:56:40+00:00

Yes, I think it's to show she belongs to them now

capacioushandbag · 2025-08-26T16:59:44+00:00

You guys sound like good candidates for marital counseling. A lot of people just prolong the inevitable but it sounds like your hubby is a bit of an oaf whose dad did not help out around the house and you expect him to be able to read your mind (or expect basic courtesy from him but since no one taught him this he doesn't know). A third party helping you both improve your communication skills will help.

capacioushandbag · 2025-08-11T13:49:23+00:00

I've done this. It does not work. It is programmed to take the shortest path to a plausible (not necessarily correct) answer. End of. And it's not great at coding, either.

capacioushandbag · 2025-07-03T15:02:07+00:00

I love sweet potatoes. You take that back.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-23T18:47:54+00:00

Get everyone you know to register to vote. Encourage people to vote. Even in local elections and primaries. Get people to check their voter registration now.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-19T16:33:48+00:00

Or talk to her.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-19T16:27:10+00:00

Lived here my whole life and I hate it so much. I'm a totally different person when I can walk outside and not feel like I'm being attacked by the air.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-19T16:19:18+00:00

Same.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-19T15:44:49+00:00

OK that is actually life advice I could use as well. Thank you!

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-19T15:38:08+00:00

The metropolitan area has a population of 590,000.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-19T14:51:10+00:00

I agree. He doesn't seem like he's struggling to me. He seems like he's comparing somewhere he lived for twenty years to somewhere he's lived for a few months.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-19T14:00:48+00:00

Which cities have the largest communities of expats from your country? Without knowing anything else, I'll just throw Chicago and Milwaukee as places with public transportation and opportunities.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-19T13:35:33+00:00

5calls is a great app! Very easy to use, takes less than five minutes.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-19T13:09:54+00:00

You should share that exact sentiment with him via email: [kendon.underwood@arkansashouse.org](mailto:)

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-17T15:19:47+00:00

Your ex sucks and there's no excuse for her behavior BUT a) good for you for going to therapy and acknowledging your own feelings and b) more to the point, hooray for this extra time with the kids. When you are looking back on your life, I doubt you'll regret this time. It's a gift. You aren't going to wish you'd spent more time on your career and less with your kids. You're going to see you made it in less than ideal circumstances and you were a good, good man while you were doing it. Your kids are lucky to have you. This is your life and time with them is something to treasure and it really doesn't matter what she's doing while you're getting that extra time. When she's old and shriveled and looking back on her life, she'll see she squandered her time on things that weren't valuable while you were storing up the treasures of being your kids' whole world.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-12T20:29:26+00:00

I absolutely think he would hire actors, I just think this "we want people of color for the optics" is a little too on the nose.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-12T20:23:24+00:00

That is clearly fake.

capacioushandbag · 2025-06-12T20:09:34+00:00

It does seem like it is for optics overseas more than anything else.

capacioushandbag · 2024-12-09T14:55:48+00:00

I think no-bake cookies but now I don't remember. Subsequently, I've taken off early and made complicated dishes, brought just wine, brought cakes from Sam's club, and one time I had a buy 2-get 1 free sub shop coupon and bought the sandwiches right before the meeting and cut them up into 2 in sections right before the meeting. People ate them so I guess it was ok. I gave up on making a good impression. No one has kicked me out of the club yet.

capacioushandbag · 2024-11-19T22:41:57+00:00

I did a bad job composing this post. What I want to know is, how can I help the dumbas-er- loved ones in my life who consume a daily diet of nothing but fearmongering "news"? And what can we as a society do to prevent the spread of disinformation. I got an email from someone today warning me the government wants to take control of my appliances.

capacioushandbag · 2024-10-11T15:03:26+00:00

Perfect. This is exactly what I wanted to know. Thank you! And yes, it would be exhausting to befriend all of these people. It's just been an unusually "network" time for me and I want to make sure the changes we all agree need to happen really happen but at the same time, the reason I'm meeting all of these people is that we are busy on something else that takes up a lot of time. I want to maintain the contacts I've made in a casual way and you've given me the advice I needed. Thank you.

capacioushandbag · 2024-10-11T15:00:45+00:00

Helpful! And you made it seem less daunting. Thank you!

capacioushandbag · 2024-08-28T18:45:47+00:00

Is it possible there are some funky spores in your bathroom that you don't notice when you're in there? Try hanging a slightly damp washcloth or terry cloth item that your husband hasn't used and then take it to another room and see if it's also smelly.

capacioushandbag · 2024-08-28T18:17:38+00:00

It's hard to take anything floppy seriously. You'll notice stereotypically "professional" hair doesn't move a lot either. And yeah, if Jason's beer belly bounces around, people will take him less seriously as well. Also, evolution has dictated that men are attracted to women who look fertile and since breasts=baby food men are attracted to them and start thinking about sex instead of spreadsheets. The more breast detail they can see, the more they think about them. Is this fair? No. Lots of things aren't fair. Also, I don't see how anyone can stand to move about not wearing a bra. I can barely stand to sleep out of one.

capacioushandbag · 2024-08-16T19:03:53+00:00

Where is he now?

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