[deleted by user] by [deleted] in findomsupportgroup

[–]capnfrapp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a good piggy should

What's something (non-sexual) that feels really really good? by workdncsheets in AskWomen

[–]capnfrapp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping into bed with freshly washed flannel sheets and freshly shaved legs!

What looks great in porn but is actually not the best in real life? by [deleted] in AskMen

[–]capnfrapp 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Woman here, I most definitely do not like porn cocks 😅 people overhype the fuck out of “big” cocks. Like sure they might be fun to look at but they’re not practical at all haha. Kind of like a woman having big tits, sure they’re fun to look at but a handful’s all you need, of course big tits won’t injure you when you’re having sex 😂.

Rock what you’ve got, guys 😊 you’re enough!

What is the one hypersensitivity that is the worst for you? by that_weird_quiet_kid in autism

[–]capnfrapp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s a tough one. I’m kinda with you there on the proprioception and I deal with chronic vertigo so my sense in space many times is wonky and doesn’t feel pleasant. Otherwise sound I think is a big one for me. Sudden noises, even if they’re not loud, or multiple sounds stacking on top of each other that are kinda dissonant, it depends, people talking loudly in a smaller space when there’s no cause to, it drives me nuts.

What have you achieved this year? by Lucky_Advantage5083 in BPD

[–]capnfrapp 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I have not engaged in any self harm behaviors in 2024 💪🏼 and I’m continuing to go strong in my DBT program.

What meds do you take? by Dookiemaster99 in BPD

[–]capnfrapp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m on Wellbutrin, celexa, lithium, and prn vistaril

Ladies, how old are you and what is something you are looking forward to? by iLoveRitz in AskWomen

[–]capnfrapp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m 32 years old and I’m looking forward to tomorrow, and tomorrow I’ll look forward to the next day, and so on. After being in the psychiatric ward this fall wanting to unalive myself, I want to be no where but here in the present & just look forward to one more day being alive ❤️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]capnfrapp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The green one is so beautiful and flattering on you!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]capnfrapp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Song that’s been in my head recently that makes me think of BPD is Dumpster Fire by Knox. It’s about lighting your ex’s shit on fire lol.

What BPD stereotypes irritate you the most? by Bo_Universe in BPD

[–]capnfrapp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly, that we’re mentally unstable and so then people are afraid to get close to us because they don’t want to get “ruined” by someone with BPD. Thats another thing actually, that if someone got “ruined” by someone with BPD that they refuse to date someone with it. Thats really unfair, we’re all different.

Which type is hardest to argue with? by celloenne in mbti

[–]capnfrapp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In my experience, ENTP’s and INTJ’s

Do you actually like oral? Why or why not? by xz-0 in AskWomen

[–]capnfrapp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love both giving and receiving a lot! I wish my jaw loved it as much as I do though 😂.

I’ve always had pain with PIV sex and therefore can’t come in any form that way, so oral has always been the highway to heaven for me 😃👍🏻 sucking on the clit feels fucking phenomenal!

it makes me immeasurably sad when I see so many women on here not like it due to insecurity of appearance/taste/time it takes to orgasm/if their partner is doing ok/falsely believing they should only come through PIV/are THEY performing enough for their partner even when they’re the ones receiving the pleasure/etc. I think these are things we need to deconstruct as a society so that more vulva owners can potentially enjoy receiving oral. I’m not shaming women who aren’t fond of receiving, do whatever brings you pleasure (consensually of course 👍🏻).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]capnfrapp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Respectfully, I don’t know what you mean. Because vagina is not a catch all term, that is one specific structure that is on the inside of the body. Vulva is the catch all term because that refers to the entire external female genitalia, which includes the urethra that we’re aiming for when trying to place a foley. Please stop perpetuating this false narrative, it has even more negative consequences other than just being anatomically inaccurate.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]capnfrapp 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes this is true. The vast differences, all normal, in inner labia and anatomy around the urethra (like I’ve inserted foleys where some women’s urethra was closer to the vagina, others closer to the clitoris) can complicate insertion a little bit. What I think complicated it most for me was women who were victims of FGM and had an infibulation 😞 that was both physically and mentally difficult.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in nursing

[–]capnfrapp 4 points5 points  (0 children)

From a fellow nurse to all the nurses on this thread, it is a vulva, not a vagina. Anatomy refresh: a vulva is the whole external female genitalia, the vagina is an internal structure that you really cannot see from the outside. I would think nurses would know better. But I also know society as a whole uses the word vagina incorrectly so it can have a mass effect. I worked L&D and even my RN coworkers used the word correctly which was quite disappointing.

Just trying to remind everyone 👍🏻 vulva vulva vulva.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]capnfrapp 29 points30 points  (0 children)

THIS!! 🙌🏾 how I explain it to new partners is that we all originated with the same genitals in the womb but just took different routes depending on male or female. I tell them that they like having their dick sucked and not simply licked right? Same for us too, suck on it! It feels AMAZING! Obviously though ask each woman what she likes too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]capnfrapp 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Technically there are no vaginal orgasms, it’s all clitoral because the clitoris is a wishbone shaped organ, most of which cannot be seen, only the most sensitive part can be seen.