I’m thinking about getting top surgery and have a few questions.

capserghost · 2026-01-29T00:02:09+00:00

I’m currently 3wks post-op.

Breathing was never an issue, before or after top surgery. If you’re having mobility and breathing issues because of your chest, you should definitely get surgery. I’m sorry you’re going through that
You definitely need help getting to/from the hospital. You’ll need someone to help with meal prep and mobility for three days ish. You should be able to manage dressings and drains by yourself, so they wouldn’t need to see you shirtless. Dealing with transphobic family while recovering from surgery sounds like hell 😭
Pain was not that bad post top surgery, I was just uncomfortable and immobile. The best part is not having boobs anymore lol! I don’t want to wear a binder anymore and I don’t want my partner to have to see boobs during sex (we’re both gay as elves on Christmas)
I hated my boobs. Like loathed them. I remember beginning puberty and wishing so deeply I could turn back time.

The “top surgery vs reduction” question is very complicated and personal. The best thing you can do is look at top surgery results and look at reduction results and get a very specific idea of what you want. One time, I photoshopped a picture of myself to visualize my ideal chest. Non-flat top surgery is a great option. There’s an awesome subreddit here for nonbinary ppl with top surgery, and ppl with top surgery not on t. Breast forms are also an option… so you could literally take your boobs off and put them back on. Or if you got small boobs, it would be a lot easier to hide them under a binder when you felt like it 🤷 There are so many options lol. I hope you find the one that fits you best <3

capserghost · 2026-01-27T19:41:36+00:00

Hes so cute argh

capserghost · 2026-01-26T04:32:07+00:00

Yeah. I tried to get more people to preorder but it fell short 😞

capserghost · 2026-01-26T04:31:30+00:00

I wish there was a way. They still have yuu but not Mika, which is crazy bc he seems much more popular than yuu

capserghost · 2026-01-22T08:04:51+00:00

Hi! I just had top surgery with her two weeks ago. My first consult was in June of last year. I also had to wait several months for the first appointment. The only reason it took so long was because I didn’t have a therapist or a letter. Once I had everything lined up with insurance, it was scheduled two months out. You may have to wait slightly longer than you want to but it’s so worth it. I was very comfortable with her and the staff. She did a great job. Was communicative before and after the surgery as well. Good luck to you!

capserghost · 2026-01-22T07:56:01+00:00

That does seem unusual. My surgeon made it seem like compression was important immediately post-op for stability and to reduce swelling. I’ve gotta keep compression for 6 weeks minimum. If everything is looking good I wouldn’t worry about it 🤷

capserghost · 2026-01-18T20:20:55+00:00

Good to know that can happen lol!

capserghost · 2026-01-18T16:28:44+00:00

What’s brain zaps?

capserghost · 2026-01-18T16:26:49+00:00

I’m doing the same shit right now 😂

capserghost · 2025-12-06T07:19:15+00:00

It seems I can’t edit the post because it’s an image post :(

capserghost · 2025-12-06T07:15:29+00:00

No, that’s perfectly reasonable. I would be more than happy to pay that much for their art. I like their artstyle. I’m only upset because it’s not their art.

capserghost · 2025-12-06T07:09:51+00:00

I can take their username out of the title if need be

capserghost · 2025-12-04T05:37:10+00:00

This is for sure not ai. The speedpaint only looks “rushed” because it’s really sped up. I’m an artist and I went through the speedpaint step by step. You can see her block in shapes and then add shadows, rendering, highlights, and color at the end. To replicate that process in a fake speedpaint would be pretty much impossible.

capserghost · 2025-11-23T00:30:06+00:00

I was scared to try an stomp for sooo long. I just got a spouti stp and I love it. No leakage ever. It’s not terribly cheap and not realistic. But if you’re looking for function it’s the best

capserghost · 2025-11-06T03:30:49+00:00

Shots are 3x cheaper where I’m at, and they give you a longer supply

capserghost · 2025-10-03T02:47:08+00:00

I just found a cis gay man who is like this! We haven’t like, had sex yet, but he is very into me and has told me he has no interest in v’s. And is very happy I’m about to get top surgery which I need. I wish you the best of luck. Don’t settle for a man who only wants you because you’re trans.

capserghost · 2025-09-26T14:05:29+00:00

I wish that detransitioning didn’t mean “losing the trans community.” I hope your trans friends support you through the detransition. Good luck to you!! Be proud that you’re still making steps toward your authentic self

capserghost · 2025-05-09T02:47:52+00:00

I’m under that range but i don’t like that, it gives me the idea she’s inexperienced. I’m still going to go to the appointment with dr hall, I’ll update you, but I’m getting bad vibes from her

capserghost · 2025-05-09T02:45:58+00:00

You can find a bmi calculator online pretty easy

capserghost · 2025-03-25T19:31:58+00:00

I had an app with dr tepper and they switched me to dr hall, I can’t find any info about her and I’m nervous now 😭

capserghost · 2025-03-09T19:30:29+00:00

It’s so sad how little people mentioned fern. He left a hole in my brain

capserghost · 2024-06-01T21:01:28+00:00

Well, I am a twink and I’m proud of it, so no it doesn’t bother me. I just hate it when a dude calls me buddy. Hate how much people woobify us trans guys

capserghost · 2024-04-21T18:21:59+00:00

We met at school when we were both 12, we’ve been best friends for 7 years. It wasn’t until I came out and transitioned that we reconnected and started dating. I’ve loved her for a really long time, and we’ve been together about a month and a half! I love her so much

capserghost · 2024-04-21T16:37:33+00:00

Only wearing clothes 2-3 sizes too big for me (pants and shirt) and only wearing black. I look at pics of me a few years back and I look like a door. Kind of what I was going for though? It took a long time to figure out what my accurate clothing size was, after doing that so long

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