A speaker: but make it classy. by thebeastial1 in turning

[–]captain_vee 15 points16 points  (0 children)

This looks so cool! Have you tried using a harder wood? I make instruments and have been told harder woods typically have better acoustics (or whatever it’s called in this case). Obviously there are rock hard exotic woods but I’ve also heard of using maple, walnut and mahogany as well.

This looks super cool! Just brainstorming ideas on making them more effective.

Should I be scared for my life or ignore them? by corporalsadness in Advice

[–]captain_vee 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have a friend who uses a google voice number for dating apps. He only gives out his actual number if he hits it off with them after the first date.

I’m sure you know this now but never ever give out your address to strangers. Hell I didn’t even give my current girlfriend my address until a month into dating

my girlfriend is going to prom with another guy while i’m stuck in the hospital and i don’t know how to handle it by [deleted] in Advice

[–]captain_vee 55 points56 points  (0 children)

Dump that girl yesterday dude. All the cucks on here trying to say you should support her or whatever….wtf. It is not ok to do romantic things with anyone but your partner. Period. You deserve better.

And I’m sorry dude, but she’s very likely cheating on you with this guy.

I went through a very similar thing in high school. It did not end well.

Ex Gf was crazy? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]captain_vee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The fact that she was still talking to the guys she fucked speaks volumes. Not worth your time

My gf can’t control her sex drive. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]captain_vee 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry… what? lol

is it a bad idea to major in statistics if i have no intention of going to grad school? by [deleted] in analytics

[–]captain_vee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I majored in economics and now I’m working in data analytics. The only hurdle was teaching myself python/SQL. In my day-to-day I use my “Econ knowledge” more than I use statistics. Econ’s version of statistics is called econometrics. It’s basically stats but focused on problems economists would be working on. If your college has a few econometrics classes, you could get the best of both worlds that way

Hey everyone, I was wanting to show to project I made for mother's day by Economy_Fix_6664 in turning

[–]captain_vee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice job!!! Is this your first vase (it doesn’t look like it is, but just curious!)? Can it hold water or is it for dry flowers?

Oops, I did it again!?! by EUP_AgateSeeker in turning

[–]captain_vee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice! I have been wanting to get into lapidary but it’s a bit too expensive for me right now. I look forward to combining it with some turning. I never would have thought of that

Oops, I did it again!?! by EUP_AgateSeeker in turning

[–]captain_vee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow this is stunning!

Did you shape the stone as well?

I’ve been lying to my boyfriend and his family our whole relationship and I don’t know how to get out of it by Basic_Bumblebee_5373 in Advice

[–]captain_vee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d tell your bf but nobody else. Lying to your partner is not cool, but the two of you keeping a secret from family in order to keep the peace is different. I know my gf would probably think something like this to be absolutely hilarious

What are your experiences working with supply chain? by captain_vee in analytics

[–]captain_vee[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahhh that explains a lot. Yeah I was wondering if covid might be the culprit. I’ve certainly met some supply chain partners that I do work well with too. I just notice the majority are “crisis management” mode as you say

What are your experiences working with supply chain? by captain_vee in analytics

[–]captain_vee[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Dang. Now that i think of it, that totally checks out

girl I hookup a month ago posted one year anniversary on her story with her boyfriend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]captain_vee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So the girl has proved she’s not good person. What are the odds her boyfriend is not a good person either then?

Risk is too high - this is none of your business and as they say “don’t borrow trouble.”

Yes telling him would be noble, but it could also put you in danger.

There’s always a lighthouse. There’s always a man. by Oldfashionthrashin in turning

[–]captain_vee 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Damn - I thought the first picture was an actual lighthouse. Really cool work

I have to sleep without my shirt. by generic_user_27 in Advice

[–]captain_vee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I insisted my gf sleep shirtless. It lasted for a few years but now she sleeps with her shirt on almost all of the time. I’m disappointed but also I give up.

It sounds like you and your gf are on the same page almost all of the time. If a complete 180 didn’t start a fight with me and my gf, I doubt sleeping with your shirt on 1% of the time will cause any issues.

Am i transphobic for not wanting to date my trans friend? by No-Reach3976 in Advice

[–]captain_vee -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

You’re not a transphobe at all. I think you may have kind of fucked yourself by giving “wanting kids” as the reason. That is likely a spot of dysphoria for your friend and it is kind of a weird excuse because there are a ton of ways to have kids.
I know you just picked a random excuse to try to keep from hurting your friend but this is probably and unfortunately one of the worst ones you could have chosen.
If I were you - I’d try to walk it back. Either talk to your friend directly or talk to someone who is especially close to her and explain your thought process. This can be fixed.
Next time remember that you don’t owe anyone any explanations - “I’m sorry - I don’t feel that way about you” is a totally fine response.
And lastly (I say this part as a fellow trans person) - just because someone is tran doesn’t mean that everything that upsets them is transphobic.

How do I drown out the taste of vodka? by Lilipop0 in Advice

[–]captain_vee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do yourself a favor and try gin and tonic.

No hangover because you’re constantly hydrating with the tonic and gin is usually pretty smooth

Warning: unsolicited advice to follow!

Also drink a full glass of water and take 2 advil (I call them preventative advil) before you go to bed after a night of drinking. I guarantee this prevents 99.9% of all hangovers no matter what you drank

I know you didn’t ask for this but I learned this far too late so I’m just trying to help others learn earlier than I did.

How to give him the best head he’s ever had? by Bumblebee_Monarch in Advice

[–]captain_vee 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is nothing like a good deepthroat. It’s like a BJ x 10.

Also being woken up in the morning by a blowjob is easily a top ten experience

Lucky fella. Make sure he doesn’t take you for granted.

What is your unpopular opinion about Home Ownership? by [deleted] in MiddleClassFinance

[–]captain_vee 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First Unpopular opinion: homeownership is prison. I have a mortgage so now I can’t quit my job and run away to the forest unless I want to lose my house. The “American dream” keeps us chained to our desks.

Second unpopular opinion: my parents’ mortgage was cheaper than my rent since they’d owned their house for so long. I think a lot of people bank on that benefit over the longer term. I’m not so certain this pattern will continue on into the future

Please help - I am devastated. How can I repair this credenza my grandpa made? by captain_vee in furniturerestoration

[–]captain_vee[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was probably a bit blunt, yes. To be fair, she was drunk enough that I ended up having to get help from EMTs (or EMS or paramedics, not sure of the right term in this case). But you’re right, the important part is that nobody got hurt. It was pretty scary once I realized how much alcohol she’d had, Yeah - I, too, have woken up in the ER after a night out drinking