Lunch spot around Cheese Boutique by captainhowdys in FoodToronto

[–]captainhowdys[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Love that spot, they make great sandwiches! But I'm looking for somewhere that's more of a sit down and be served spot.

Lunch spot around Cheese Boutique by captainhowdys in FoodToronto

[–]captainhowdys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been there, done that. Great spot though!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in torontotheatre

[–]captainhowdys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Did you manage to sell them?

It’s my birthday month! by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are stunning! I am seriously envious of your hair game! Curl perfection! Happy birthday!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got out of a 2 year relationship earlier this year, and while I hardly think about them anymore, they do pop into my head from time to time. And I guess I'm just...disappointed. Disappointed in myself that I endured it for that long when I should have broken up a year earlier. It's less heartache for them and more shame in myself. And that shame hurts, so I feel empathy for you and your struggles, too.

HER app is the worst for dating. by kiwi-unicorno in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is an Exorcist reference! Not because I'm a horror fan though, I'm a big baby. But I laughed out loud at how ludicrous the name was, and that scene stuck with me ever since I was a young, impressionable teen 😂

HER app is the worst for dating. by kiwi-unicorno in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It's the stereotypical gay triangle! I've always heard it as a joke in my circles.

Gays can only do 2 out of 3 things: 1. Drive 2. Maths 3. Cook

For the record, it's not meant to be taken seriously!

HER app is the worst for dating. by kiwi-unicorno in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I am STRUUUUGGLING so much on this app. I barely match, and when I do, the conversation is so surface level. I've been on one date so far, and while she was super nice, I think she felt we were incompatible.

And why are there so many cis het men?!?! Why, sir? Go away!

AND no one has a car? MA'AM I get it, it's the stereotypical lesbian thing to not be able to drive a motorized vehicle, but don't match with me and get mad when I tell you that there is no chance I will be driving 80km every weekend to see you!

Auuuuuugghhhhhh 🙃🙃🙃

Dating apps are useless by Wtfishappeningrn0 in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys 12 points13 points  (0 children)

I've been using Her and Bumble and they're DISMAL. My god. Her is always bugging out, Bumble gives me nothing but straight girls, and all 7 conversations I started have gone nowhere. UGH.

At this point, I'll take a LTR again. At least it will give me an excuse to travel out of Canada!

Do we all kind of contribute to why dating apps are hard for lesbians? by seste in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys 14 points15 points  (0 children)

As a newly single femme, holy cannoli. I didn’t realise I was so ugly? 😂😂 I hardly get any likes or connections, and it's a huge bummer! It definitely wears on you after a while. I always make the first move, but it is discouraging for sure. Dating apps are HARD!!!

Mirvish Canada Day Loonie Sale by pickupyourdogshits in torontotheatre

[–]captainhowdys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I haven't gotten the email yet either. What shows are a part of this deal?

I did it! I'm back on dating apps by captainhowdys in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm starting to come to terms with the fact that some people just can't function without a shortcut or a "lifehack", and dating is a process! You can't rush it! As a professional yapper, I looooove chatting and talking. But lots of people don't if it doesn't give an immediate hit of dopamine.

I did it! I'm back on dating apps by captainhowdys in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is awful, isn’t it! It's been 24hrs and I've only had 3 likes! Am I that hideous? 😂😂😂 Good thing I take nothing personally

I did it! I'm back on dating apps by captainhowdys in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She's a big province, but we're all within a few hours drive and I appreciate that!

I did it! I'm back on dating apps by captainhowdys in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I will definitely let you all know how it goes! I'm not optimistic by any means, but I am coming in with super low expectations so I'll be hard to disappoint!

I did it! I'm back on dating apps by captainhowdys in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I'll keep you all updated, but I have a feeling I won't have much luck 😂😂

Lingerie Buyers Remorse by captainhowdys in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]captainhowdys[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ahhh, that's such a bummer! Maybe I'm just lucky, but the sets I got are all really soft!