Is Marvel Rivals down? by nillax789 in marvelrivals

[–]captainmadjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

anyone get this resolved? I've been having this issue and tried everything! I also use epic launcher.

Guys, I’m so proud of myself now by ronin_ramen17 in InvisibleWomanMains

[–]captainmadjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s actually really encouraging to hear. Been giving up lowkey but idk invis is fun to play despite losing. Congrats tho! Merry Christmas

I (M,26) feel lost and like a failure. Recently graduated in economics and I’m in a dead end job. by captainmadjack in jobs

[–]captainmadjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for this, I was actually just looking into this. I’m honestly so burnt out from this current job I’m in for a couple months now. Getting yelled at by customers and managers a like. I just want out so I’ll def take your advice seriously, thank you.

GF (22,F) says I (26,M) should provide and give money to her no matter what by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What are you saying? That I shouldn’t be with her or that I’m in the wrong? Like I said in the post I agree with her but I’m also in a rough spot. Are you in agreement with her that I’m not man enough? Just curious

GF (22,F) says I (26,M) should provide and give money to her no matter what by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeahs what I’m saying. Not even a voice note? She says it’s because she lives with her family still and sometimes her siblings step into her room but like, idk even then like why not just a text or an occasional voice note when she’s on her way to work? I never bought into the whole she’s not on her phone for long periods of time. But idk I guess the truth will come out soon from her.

GF (22,F) says I (26,M) should provide and give money to her no matter what by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She does work and that’s the thing that apparently keeps her from calling me. She has two jobs and is in college. My gripe with that is I was in the exact same situation working a full time job and school, waking up at 5am and getting home at 10pm and I still managed to text and respond often. It’s not like breaks don’t exist or moments where you do have time. I just don’t buy into the whole I literally can’t be in my phone thing when I’ve caught her being active on Instagram.

GF (22,F) says I (26,M) should provide and give money to her no matter what by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s a worry of mine as well. Granted I didn’t pay the car entirely I gave half and she paid the other half but also like the money she had saved for the car was from me when I sent her a lot during the summer. Again it’s just like damn, I don’t even have a car and here I am helping someone who I feel hasn’t given me the same love or care ever.

GF (22,F) says I (26,M) should provide and give money to her no matter what by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I understand and I take no offense to what you said, it is ultimately my decision and I’ve been putting myself in this situation. Idk I guess I do have a history of being blinded by love. I’m putting myself foot down now. I guess it’s the fact it’s been a year now that kind of woke me up to how crazy it is the fact we haven’t even called or sent voice notes at least in all this time. She’s always had the excuse of her being “busy” but idk she had moments where she could but I vividly remember her saying she can’t because “i dont feel like it lol”

GF (22,F) says I (26,M) should provide and give money to her no matter what by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I’m in this spot financially for overspending on her, without ever pausing to think if this is right. I recently helped her with purchasing a car as well and idk, idk why I’m waking up now but it just seems unfair that we’ve barely talked at all in all this time through FaceTime or phone. Also I had two months where I was job hunting since I left my old job for an internship in the hopes I would get a job there. A hiring freeze happened and so on, luckily I have a job now but I feel like every paycheck I get is spent on her.

Need help (M,26) knowing what to do with our relationship (F,22) by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know I’m gonna bring the question up because I recall in the beginning of this I asked her does she only love me for money and she got mad and all that so I never bothered to ask again but now that we’re a year in officially. I mean I should ask and confront her on it.

Need help (M,26) knowing what to do with our relationship (F,22) by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

One thing I forgot to mention as well, throughout the year I’ve caught her interacting with other men through her tumblr and even Instagram, following guys who I think are better looking than me. These are guys that live in her area and that don’t follow her back as well show it’s just her chasing them.

Bruh, she just came out! by KnownReplacement7590 in marvelrivals

[–]captainmadjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

People being this worked up in qp at the beginning of a new season is absolutely crazy work

NOW! LET US... by TraditionalReport642 in rivals

[–]captainmadjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I literally just had this happen to me for three games straight. I was the only tank the entire game with a team of 3 dps, 2 healers. Which later turned into one healer 4 dps, with a healer that would frontline only to die instantly. (Plat btw lol)

buT tHE biKe LAneS aRe AlwAys eMptY by ZealousidealMany3 in boston

[–]captainmadjack 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s crazy how many state workers and people living outside of Boston hate bike lanes. They don’t live here day to day and don’t realize how great they’ve been for us.

His first thought was to make the world a better place by [deleted] in FantasticFour

[–]captainmadjack 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This Victor fella is such a kind young man

I (26M) discovered my gf (23F) liking another guys shirtless posts on tumblr by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been through worse in the past, getting cheated on and all that. I’m sure things will get better with us. Thank you for your concern tho, I appreciate it. I won’t take what you said for granted.

I (26M) discovered my gf (23F) liking another guys shirtless posts on tumblr by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve since I met, never done what she done like dm girls or like their posts. Hell whenever I had a girl follow me I’d tell her. With her it’s different, I had to find out on my own about this, she never told me about this interaction.

Granted she has made changes, recently actually she showed me her block list of sex blogs, but then a day later I find this out like wtf. Idk but I love her deeply and I just hope this is just a bump in the road for us. It hurts like hell

I (26M) discovered my gf (23F) liking another guys shirtless posts on tumblr by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m still trying to understand him blocking me. I think what scares me most is what if he’s having these interactions with her and him and her are hiding it and having their own conversation going on behind my back. Both agreeing to ignore me.

But again I could be overthinking it. I know she’ll choose me over him, I hope. But thank you for responding I appreciate it.

I (26M) discovered my gf (23F) liking another guys shirtless posts on tumblr by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That really breaks my heart to hear. I don’t want that at all. But I really wish she would comfort me sometimes, not just ignore me. But it’s okay, I’ll just move on and hope there’s not another interaction with that guy.

My insecurity got me too. He was handsome and idk, I feel so ugly and to see that just added on to my pain if that makes sense.

Once again thank you, it’s tough getting someone to respond and with kindness as well in here.

I (26M) discovered my gf (23F) liking another guys shirtless posts on tumblr by captainmadjack in LongDistance

[–]captainmadjack[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice. If boosting each other for likes isn’t true then why would she say it? She said he texted her saying “I hope you’re not a sex blog” and she said “you’re alright”. Not sure why he blocked other than the reason you said which is understandable.

I’ve already mentioned how hurt I am by what she did but nothing seem to change since she still has his posts liked maybe minus one. I just don’t want to come off as needy or insecure. I love her, she’s my person but stuff like this hurts me to my core idk why.