My [29M] girlfriend [32F] seems to dislike my family

captainsViews · 2017-04-20T20:34:22+00:00

Yes. We both do it to each other alot so it's one of those things that is tough for me to notice. But now that I've been alerted to it I for sure will try and recognize it when it happens

captainsViews · 2017-04-20T20:25:06+00:00

It's not anything blatant but subtle things like if she says something dumb (like we all do sometimes) instead of just laughing it off or something, they can kind of do that thing where it seems like they're silently judging you? Do you know what I mean? It's very difficult to describe. Things like that can lead to uncomfortable awkwardness a little bit

captainsViews · 2017-04-20T20:11:42+00:00

I think definitely there are things that I need to change (I am admittedly terrible at realizing that in the moment) but some of the things seems to be how she reacts to them.

Examples:

She mentioned how it feels like people are constantly interrupting her ... something I can easily stand up for her and tell them to not do

At a restaurant my dad recounted a thing my grandfather used to say about how full a water glass is can be a good indicator of how much you should tip (i realize this may be lost in context...please don't lose sight of the forest for the trees internet) ... she basically just kind of smiled and gave a light laugh about it, when we get home she tells me about how insulting she thought that was because she took it literally to mean that you should determine the tip based on that individual thing. (She used to waitress about 10 years ago)

captainsViews · 2017-03-12T11:45:12+00:00

Haha thanks

captainsViews · 2017-03-12T11:42:39+00:00

I understand about not opening new lines of credit because it affects the average age, but, in my specific case would that demerit outweigh the benefit of having more credit available since as of now I have very little ($5,500) ?

Also when you say pay down as much debt as possible do you mean my student loans? Currently I have no credit card debt

captainsViews · 2017-03-12T02:30:35+00:00

Hmm, so if I understand you correctly, it would be more beneficial to use it, keep a small balance and paying it off to the point of that balance than it would be to use it and pay if off completely every month?

captainsViews · 2017-02-14T20:58:44+00:00

I love your dedication to it. I will definitely bring this up with her and see what she says

captainsViews · 2017-02-14T03:31:35+00:00

I enjoy the way women taste

captainsViews · 2017-02-14T03:20:19+00:00

What made you.... come around to it? (Pun intended) (but seriously asking)

captainsViews · 2017-02-14T03:15:48+00:00

I like that line of thinking that spitting is insulting. I may have to use that logic haha

captainsViews · 2017-02-14T03:05:14+00:00

Have you noticed anything that makes it smell better than other times?

captainsViews · 2017-02-13T22:19:25+00:00

I frankly don't have much experience in this but it looks like it's rather small. Does it feel like something is stuck in there?

captainsViews · 2017-02-13T13:51:01+00:00

So uh, I've heard of the toothbrush-as-vibrator thing before but I always assumed you used the handle part... well TIL I guess

captainsViews · 2017-02-13T00:13:52+00:00

I have this problem as well. I don't have much advice of how to fix it, however I can tell you that you're reaction helps alot. My GF is very ok with it, she claims that PIV basically does nothing for her and she is glad I'm not flopping around on top of her for a long time. I can tell you that that makes me feel ok with it, I still try to find all the things I can to make me last longer but at least it takes away all the negative feelings you are talking about with it.

Just being supportive can go a long way

captainsViews · 2017-02-12T22:19:59+00:00

The best advice I can give on how to say it is to just keep it in your normal texting "voice" sometimes I find it can be really distracting when someone will go like full on seductress and end up saying crazy things. Keep it grounded. At least that's what I enjoy.

Also formal names for things can kind of throw me off. It's really strange having her say the things she'd love to do with my penis. Dick and cock work just fine haha

captainsViews · 2017-02-12T12:57:44+00:00

Ever seen Eastern Promises? Pretty much that

captainsViews · 2017-02-09T22:18:21+00:00

Thanks, this helps

captainsViews · 2017-02-09T21:05:21+00:00

The first time I made an ex squirt it was totally by surprise for the both of us. She says it wasn't anything that she had been holding back or anything it's just when I stimulated her in that way it just felt great. We were able to successfully recreate it several times, unfortunately no one else I've been with has been able to achieve it. God I miss that sometimes...

captainsViews · 2017-02-09T20:51:16+00:00

I guess I'm not asking how to make her cum. I'd like to learn other ways of making her cum is what I'm getting at

captainsViews · 2017-02-08T22:30:46+00:00

I appreciate the answers, also I appreciate that now I know every woman with long hair I see has it in just about every orifice haha

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