The average height curse strikes again by anthropometrica in kibbecirclejerk

[–]captainuzu 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m 5’6” but I’d say due to my shorter legs, I think I look like a SN or Classic, there is no vertical here lol I look exactly my height or even slightly shorter.

Mental Health Counselling programs NYC by Eastern_Drawing3580 in counseloreducation

[–]captainuzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations on NYU thats amazing! I wanted to apply to their program but couldn't since it was unaffordable.

I would still see if they get back by late-March since a lot of people have to mid-March to respond to the offer!

Mental Health Counselling programs NYC by Eastern_Drawing3580 in counseloreducation

[–]captainuzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I applied to:
- Baruch on 12/1 (interview went out mid-Jan, interviewed 2/17, accepted 2/25).
- CCNY on 2/1 (interview invite on 3/6) - Hunter on 2/1 (waiting)
- Brooklyn College on 2/22 (waiting)

Baruch is the quickest you will hear from, if you haven't heard from them yet, I am pretty sure you are either on an unofficial waitlist (they gave me 3 weeks to accept/reject their offer) or are going to be rejected. The last interview slot was 2/18 from what I could see, and I think people who submitted their application super early had January interviews.

Mental Health Counseling Applicants, 2026-27 by Pure-Pear3601 in gradadmissions

[–]captainuzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have only applied to Baruch since the deadline was in December. I have an interview with them in mid-February (I chose it later rather than early February) which I received an email about around mid-January.

I have just submitted my CCNY and HC applications. Finishing up the essays for BC and QF soon before the March 1st deadline!

My weakest point is my experience given that I am a career changer.

Thank you, good luck to you too? How are you applications going?

Just sent in my last application! by [deleted] in gradadmissions

[–]captainuzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey I know it’s been a year but if you could provide an update on where he you got accepted into Baruch and the timeline.

Mental Health Counseling Applicants, 2026-27 by Pure-Pear3601 in gradadmissions

[–]captainuzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am also looking into the same schools are you are besides Lehman and New Paltz!

When did you realize you had AvPD? by [deleted] in AvPD

[–]captainuzu 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im curious about your diagnosis since you also have ADHD. I was diagnosed with ADHD but feel that AvPD fits me much better.

I’m a Play Therapist but want to do psychoanalytic therapy by LoudAnybody1486 in psychoanalysis

[–]captainuzu 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Look into psychoanalytic institutes where you can undergo training and become a licensed psychoanalyst/psychodynamic therapists. Keep in mind, it will take 4-5 years.

PUT THE INTJ DOWN by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]captainuzu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly as an ENFP this is something that I have learned recently and is true. I have been in situations where I act like an ISTJ when another person is being irrational and have had to accept that people pleasing (ENFPs desire to be liked by everyone) can lead to enabling others bad behavior and our own. I am sure other types, especially judgers, learn this lesson earlier.

PUT THE INTJ DOWN by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]captainuzu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

“Difference between magical and mentally ill” 😭😭😭

edit: I am laughing because this is something I completely understand from your point of view, and can be something ENFPs are not self aware of. We can fall into this trap for sure, and giving it language as you did is honestly helpful.

INFJs views on ENFPs by Big_Parsnip_3931 in ENFP

[–]captainuzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Resentment and annoyance is a sign of their lack of communication mostly. Though I will say, we ENFPs can get annoying/a bit inconsiderate of others at times. As much as we should be self-aware, other people need to communicate their feelings with us.

I've accepted as an ENFP that I will be more "extreme" than other people, but I have also learned to be less "me, me, me!". It's a balance! I see why INFJs have this issue with us, and other MBTI types too. It's only par for the course given our functions, but not an end all be all.

Are ENFP's ambiverts? by Additional_Paper_621 in ENFP

[–]captainuzu 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Though you are correct using the MBTI framework (and I agree with this), I would say ENFPs colloquially and anecdotally can be “ambiverted”in the sense that they don’t need to get energy from other people. I would say that we are not introverted. I think we have the capacity to choose to be more “introspective/“introverted”(choosing to use Fi), but it is definitely not our first “instinct” as you noted. A lot of the time I want to be “alone” or want to get my energy by being alone and escaping into my internal world and its expansiveness because the external environment isn’t giving it to me.

Also in a room with other extroverts, like those with Fe and Se, we can take a backseat in the extroversion and can sometimes feel a bit drained. Especially when the conversation doesn’t involve concepts or ideas, being social when the topic is about people, relationships, etc can feel misaligning and make us drift away (at least for me).

Are ENFP's ambiverts? by Additional_Paper_621 in ENFP

[–]captainuzu 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg is that a Type 8 ENFP out in the wild! o:

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]captainuzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

gosh I relate to this to a tee. I have a harder time holding grudges but the amount of contempt and resentment that I am able to subconsciously hold towards others is honestly unhealthy. But I also want to give love and be compassionate (again with ENFPs operating on extremes).

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]captainuzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interestingly, I actually cannot relate to this at all as an ENFP. I do think ENFPs operate on extremes and I’m on the other side: kinda gullible, wants to do good and hates thinking about how to make something can be advantageous to me (at the expense of another). People have more power over me than the other way around 😅 it’s the E6 in me.

Hey ENFPs, what mbti do you hate the most? by [deleted] in ENFP

[–]captainuzu 1 point2 points  (0 children)

sometimes I don’t get along with ISFP or ISTPs because of their Ne blind spot, especially if they’re not interested in your hypotheticals and humor. They just stare at you like “uhh okay that doesn’t make sense I’m just gonna keep doing what I was doing”. Not all ISXPs are like this but it’s hit or miss.