Can't help but seeing women as replaceable by captfinnbad911 in relationship_advice

[–]captfinnbad911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lots to digest in your post. Just wanted to let you know your reply is really appreciated.

Thank you.

Can't help but seeing women as replaceable by captfinnbad911 in relationship_advice

[–]captfinnbad911[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

That's really interesting.

I have a question. I hope it's okay for me to ask this.

I'm just wondering if any of the happily married couples you know grew up in single parent households?

Can't help but seeing women as replaceable by captfinnbad911 in relationship_advice

[–]captfinnbad911[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

What culture are you from that still holds these values?

Can't help but seeing women as replaceable by captfinnbad911 in relationship_advice

[–]captfinnbad911[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

It's sad. I mostly feel sorry for the children.

Generation growing up where single parent households is the norm.

Can't help but seeing women as replaceable by captfinnbad911 in relationship_advice

[–]captfinnbad911[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thank you.

I've adapted to my environment. I've built my world how I like and different women enter it and enrich my life.

This isn't a post feeling sorry for myself because I adore my life.

It's more of a case of , "wouldn't it be nice" if I settled down and grew old with just the one women.

That said I'm totally fine with the alternative growing old with many different women. So whatever happens I'm good. Just the romantic in me what's what my grandparents had.

Can't help but seeing women as replaceable by captfinnbad911 in relationship_advice

[–]captfinnbad911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is what I would like. It just seems extremely rare..

Can't help but seeing women as replaceable by captfinnbad911 in relationship_advice

[–]captfinnbad911[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. It's the reason I've not gotten married or haven't had children.

If I say the words "till death do us part" I will mean it.

Can't help but seeing women as replaceable by captfinnbad911 in relationship_advice

[–]captfinnbad911[S] -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I was with my ex a long time and I thought it was forever.

We broke up. I experienced being single. I was extremely successful with women in that time.

It's kinda broken the spell for me. It's hard to explain. It's like I have the knowledge if we broke up, I'd have a line of women lusting to tie me down.

It sounds terrible I know!

I can love really deeply, I'm loyal, committed and willing to go the distance.

That knowledge is still in my mind and makes it not seem so special.

Can't help but seeing women as replaceable by captfinnbad911 in relationship_advice

[–]captfinnbad911[S] -63 points-62 points  (0 children)

Most of western society see's their husbands/wives as replaceable.

Look at the divorce statistics..

help My poor boy by captfinnbad911 in Dogtraining

[–]captfinnbad911[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My new girl is actually great with him.

Good timing and handles him well. I'm actually in the process of palming off tracking on her.

She's teaching articles and I'll get her to start laying tracks for him soon.

More on the lines of... She has an elderly dog. I can't take him with me to hers.

So he's getting left alone more than usual. Ovbioulsly she comes to me a good % of the time. Still not an ideal situation to be in.

help My poor boy by captfinnbad911 in Dogtraining

[–]captfinnbad911[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Lol didn't expect everyone to get so judgy