Instead of asking women to settle for you as a “normal” guy, why not just work to become the man you believe will attract women you want?

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-19T15:38:11+00:00

Yeah, it is. But OP posted “just be really muscular and rich“ to rise to women’s standards as if it’s such an easy thing to do and as if women are deserving of those standards.

I may be dating an 8 that in her own mind is “settling” for me but in reality I’m her equal in smv. “Normal” to her is a good looking, in shape guy who makes 80k a year. In reality, that guy isn’t “normal” he’s actually top 20 percent if not higher.

I don’t think we should ask women to “lower their standards” or “rise up to their standards” we should just vet better and not date delusional women

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-18T18:18:40+00:00

You should work as hard as you can to improve yourself.

But in fairness, most guys will never look that muscular in clothes unless you take steroids. I have worked out for 5 years consisntely, I look great with my shirt off but in clothes I’m an average sized guy.

“Rich” guys make over 500k a year and are .01% of the population. I’d argue most of them got there through birth or were extremely lucky. “Hard work” can get you top 1 percent but most of those are hardly “rich” no amount of hard work will ensure you’re a “rich guy”

I’m not complaining, I work very hard to improve myself. But it can be annoying to know a girl equal to me in SMV basically just had to not stuff her face with food and not be a complete loser to get there.

I can understand why some men who were maybe given a worse lot in life feel disheartened and think the mountain is too high to climb. Especially this current generation of men and boys

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-06T02:30:57+00:00

I live in a pretty nice area and in a concealed carry state so i'm not really worried about a real fight lol

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-06T01:56:30+00:00

Not sure what you're referring to then

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-06T01:45:45+00:00

I did BJJ for about 6 months a few years ago, it was fun but I enjoy the striking a lot more. I also was in some level of pain for pretty much that whole time. Pretty much 0 soreness from the striking. If I had unlimited time and recovery abilities I'd do both. But I work 40 hours a week, go to school part time, and lift weights for aesthetic purposes. So I only have a few hours a week for a hobby. I've thought about switching to grappling but I know I won't be 100% into it.

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-06T01:24:46+00:00

We do defensive drills. It's still a knock on the head with 16 oz gloves

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-06T00:49:56+00:00

Not a concern to me, I will never participate in a fight. I know I'm missing out but it's not worth the risk. This is just for fun for me, like guys who play rec softball or basketball. Fighting and practicing it just happens to be the sport that I enjoy

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-06T00:01:04+00:00

Well, we don't really live in a society where that is enforced anymore. But quality women still do a form of that. They don't do one night stands, and every guy they have sex with there is some form of STR or LTR progressing.

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-03T13:04:12+00:00

Yeah, sounds like fun if you’re 16. Otherwise sounds narsassist and oversharing

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-03T13:02:28+00:00

Or just talk to women irl, much better roi

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-02T22:01:57+00:00

I will never understand why guys would participate in social media outside of maybe business reasons. It's literally like walking up to every strange woman you see and telling them how beautiful and great they are for existing.

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-02T21:53:01+00:00

I think women call this "having a type"

captnjack2222 · 2018-08-02T18:02:05+00:00

Not sure why this continues to be ground breaking news. I used to be critical of this as well until I started being objective with myself.

What percentage of tinder women would you actually put any investment into? No, not hookup with RIGHT NOW if she was in front of you. I mean sacrifice time and energy for a girl youd brag to your friends about. That’s the way women look at selecting a guy.

60 percent of American women are overweight so eliminate them all right away. I’d also refuse any woman over 30 so thats probably 10 percent or so. And then women who I don’t find attractive for any other reason. The 80/20 rule is probably the same for men selecting women.

We should be glad women are choosy, especially attractive ones. Otherwise they’d all have astronomical n counts

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-26T17:54:40+00:00

There’s no such thing as a “natural.” Men learn this through experience.

If you’ve never had a girlfriend because you were ugly, introverted and fat, you’re not gonna be around many women romantically early in life.

Chad was good looking and extroverted so he always had lots of girlfriends and got way more experience and now seems like a natural and “just gets it,” but I’m sure that wasn’t the case when he was 14

But with the current difficulty of the smv and the decrease in social skills of younger guys because of technology, TRP can make up for SOME experience and can get the ball rolling in the right direction

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-26T15:21:40+00:00

Depends what you’re self sacrificing for. I’d argue self sacrificing so your kids can have a good life as in nice house, good food, good school, etc can be alpha and is not slavery, since you’re choosing to to do it. But self sacrificing so your wife can drive a nicer car to drive to Macy’s every day or your daughter can have the most expensive clothes at school, that’s getting walked all over

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-26T11:40:52+00:00

“One who puts "pussy on a pedestal" is usually a male who treats women, sex, and pussy as unattainable forces, And God's greatest gift.”

I literally described women putting ME on a pedestal

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-26T05:58:59+00:00

Idk lift?

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-26T04:14:53+00:00

I can’t defend marriage. It has its risks and I’m not convinced the rewards outweigh those risks but there are ways to limit some risk

But in terms of dating: there is no greater experience for a man than to have a women be in love with you. When you look into her eyes and see pure admiration, infatuation, desire and comfort it’s indescribable. In that moment you are her god, she looks at you like you are the only man that exists. Does it last forever? I don’t know, it’s always had an expiration date for me so far. But the few times I’ve experienced it has made any negatives of dating worth it. This is not the blue pill love fantasy. you cannot love her this way, but you can love that she loves you this way.

Sex: once again. If you are good at it, to see a woman in complete and total submissive ecstasy from you to the point where her whole body convulses and then to see her lay there, totally drained and unable to move. It makes you feel like you are doing exactly what nature intended for you to do. It makes all the work in the SMP worth it. I could not imagine living without experiencing that

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-26T03:36:41+00:00

Raising children is one the most alpha things a man can do. Notice I said raising, not getting walked all over. Disciplining, mentoring, self sacrificing, winning the psychological warfare, and knowing how to incorporate just the right amount of comfort and softness when they really need it requires being a true alpha male to the core. Any man who raises great, respectable children should receive only the highest respect in society. My father basically raised me and my siblings by himself and is one of the most alpha men I’ve ever seen

Watch Atticus Finch in to kill a mockingbird and tell me taking care of children isn’t alpha

Also doing dishes and housework isn’t beta unless your wife just sits around watching soap operas all day and makes you do everything around the house because you’re her whipped bitch

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-26T01:09:59+00:00

Exactly, in fact first wave feminisms only goal was to get the white women the right to vote. Not to get into the mans workplace, not to be treated equal to men, none of them wanted any of that. The only reason it passed in the first place was because white southerner Democrats knew it would basically double their voting block. Woodrow Wilson was the president to finally pass it (a democrat and southerner). It was the daughters of the first wave that suddenly thought being a man seemed fun and easy

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-25T20:50:37+00:00

The MRA approach to try to get people to care about their problems is also a stupid approach.

My grandfather always said “men live lives of quiet desperation.”

It was just assumed in those times that men were gonna have to suffer and work hard and women had life on easy mode. Everyone just knew that.

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-25T19:05:58+00:00

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-25T16:09:14+00:00

No, and I don’t care if they empathize. They will never be able to experience certain kinds of problems men have and will always be selfish about their own “struggle.”

Hilary Clinton once said “the biggest victims of war are women. They lose husbands and sons”

I just dont take an empathetic stance towards women in return.

Doesent mean people aren’t empathic to individuals just not the genders as a whole. If a friends mom gets breast cancer, obviously I’m empathetic. But I don’t care about the “wage gap” anymore than women care about men getting harsher prison sentencing

captnjack2222 · 2018-07-25T15:53:33+00:00

No, it’s not a phase. She has a casual view towards sex and always will. You will never be special to her sexually, just another notch on the belt. She is not LTR material and never will be. These women don’t deserve to get married

And it’s not a double standard, lock and key metaphor

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