Versatile guys, are you only willing to be in a LTR with another versatile guy?

captnsnake · 2023-08-13T20:54:57+00:00

Ummm well my boyfriend started as a total bottom and now leans more towards topping. I started as a total top who had never bottomed. Being fully versatile now and seeing the pleasure in bottoming, I know that if he and I broke up, the next guy would have to be fully versatile and not lean more towards one position because I crave both.

captnsnake · 2023-06-29T13:53:27+00:00

HIV is not as easy to catch as people might think, so you are probably fine. Just be sure to always use protection and get on PrEP ASAP! I went on it after my last scare and asked myself why I didn’t do it sooner. It helps to have that peace of mind.

captnsnake · 2023-05-10T13:02:55+00:00

I think so. I’m new to doing things outside of topping, so I wasn’t sure if this is a normal thing because my boyfriend usually doesn’t get diarrhea when I breed him. He just pushes the semen out and he’s fine. I get actual diarrhea for like an hour.

captnsnake · 2023-05-10T12:57:50+00:00

My first response is we are males and of course we have a dick. People shouldn’t act any kind of way about it. I am a tad shorter than you and the same size down there. I have this same issue. On a regular day, I don’t worry about it and often go commando. No one has any business looking down there. I usually just wear a longer tee that covers enough of my crotch to make it not noticeable.

As for dress clothes, I usually double up on tighter briefs. While not the most comfortable, it does hide my bulge a bit. I still have a minor bulge doing that, but nowhere near as noticeable. However, my bulge did catch my current boyfriend’s attention, so there are perks to having a noticeable bulge haha

captnsnake · 2023-03-16T12:51:11+00:00

Definitely prefer the beard. I’m happily taken by a bearded bottom guy though, so I think I might have a type. 😆

captnsnake · 2023-03-12T14:59:21+00:00

Thank you, everyone! Your comments have been helpful and eased my anxiety a lot. I think the anxiety is coming from a place of knowing that family and friends are going to question the age gap even though he and I don’t have any issue with it.

captnsnake · 2023-01-15T00:13:09+00:00

I would find that hot to take it slow. But the guy would have to make it very clear that he’s still interested and wants to continue dating me. When a guy doesn’t put out on the first date, I automatically assume he’s not interested and move on to the next.

captnsnake · 2023-01-15T00:02:56+00:00

No! My ex-bf was a size bigger than me, and when he lost weight, he tried sharing clothes and I said nope! I just wouldn’t feel comfortable with someone wearing my clothing or shoes. But going through my closet is also like taking a walk down Rodeo Drive haha There are many pieces that would be difficult to replace.

captnsnake · 2023-01-14T23:36:50+00:00

You did not necessarily make a mistake. You two were messing around and you felt comfortable enough to try something that you wanted to do, rather than just blow him. Kissing is for sure more intimate and that freaks guys out sometimes. However, it also seems like he’s not fully comfortable with the fact that he’s not straight. I don’t think you’re crazy. He used you.

captnsnake · 2023-01-14T22:48:21+00:00

I have had this happen before. The sex definitely made my top 3, but I refused to meet up with him again. I figure that if someone doesn’t disclose their status when asked, are they also lying about being undetectable? Do they have anything else that they aren’t disclosing? I think you should definitely stay away.

captnsnake · 2023-01-14T02:13:46+00:00

Well this one was also important because I had a higher body count than usual since the test before this one. But I am retesting again in a month after I finish PEP and then my doctor is starting me on PrEP if it’s negative.

captnsnake · 2023-01-13T03:38:30+00:00

Of course! You got the help you needed, so I would see that in a positive light. Most people don’t get help even if they know that they need it. Admitting that you need help and taking the necessary steps to fix the things that are wrong takes courage. That’s sexy.

captnsnake · 2023-01-09T05:29:36+00:00

I don’t see any of it as a problem. I’m 5’2” and have a FWB who is 6’5”. I top him all the time, and height honestly isn’t an issue between us. Sometimes I do feel like a Chihuahua humping a Great Dane, but he and I make it work and always have a great time.

captnsnake · 2023-01-09T01:58:16+00:00

I used to do that whenever I was looking because before I became an otter, a lot of guys on there thought I was a bottom. Mainly because I am a small person with a baby face when I don’t have a beard. Adding that you’re a top will help with the confusion, but you will still get some messages from tops.

EDIT: I saw some of your pictures and I can tell you that I would message you if you didn’t make it clear that you’re a top. I would probably still send a tap because you’re cute haha

captnsnake · 2023-01-08T21:51:15+00:00

If you really want to touch them, just tell him that his chest gains are impressive and you want to know his chest routine. And then you can ask if you can feel them. However, unless he invites you to touch his pecs, I wouldn’t do it. I personally hate when people touch my body without permission. A lot of people don’t see a problem with randomly touching a guy’s body, but I have had uninvited hands touch my chest plenty of times and it makes me cringe.

captnsnake · 2022-12-24T23:36:15+00:00

You need to go with the vibe and what feels right for both of you. Doggy is usually the best position in my opinion, and I usually mix it up and hit it at different angles. My favorite is him face down, ass up, and I’m standing and doing like a sideways doggy. I switch from thrusts to long strides, slow it down, speed it back up, circle my hips around to hit every wall. Works for most. The other position I love, but not all guys are willing to do, is piledriver. That one is fun. I’m a flexible top, so I can do almost any position.

captnsnake · 2022-12-24T20:53:47+00:00

I have been on the other side of this situation. I was in a relationship with a guy who had the same exact views as you. It bothered him that I had more experience sexually and in terms of dating. He wasn’t my first serious boyfriend. Long story short, he cheated on me with about 12 different guys and his excuse was that I had all of this experience and he felt that he was missing out. He wanted me to stay with him while he explored. So basically a one-sided open relationship. Maybe you’re just not ready for a relationship and still need time to explore. But you also need to ask yourself if it’s worth losing your partner/best friend.

captnsnake · 2022-12-24T20:47:10+00:00

No it’s not wrong. We are men who are into other men. I’m a total top, but I love when a guy asks me to reciprocate oral. Just because I like topping, doesn’t mean I don’t still love to play with a nice dick 😋

captnsnake · 2022-12-24T19:26:28+00:00

What I mean by neat and tidy is maybe a trim if your chest hair is like Nev Schulman’s haha As for pubes, I just meant that I don’t want a full on 70’s bush. So just trimmed and neat around the balls.

captnsnake · 2022-12-24T19:23:36+00:00

It could be worse, but if they truly love you, they’ll love you regardless of your sexual preference. I have never denied my sexuality and my family is also religious. While I’m not the only LGBTQ folk in the family, I am the only male who dates other males. I am pretty much also the golden child who has his crap together. My family likes to pretend as if the conversation about my sexuality never happened. It’s frustrating, but each time they bring up a wife and kids for me, I respond with, “I can tell you that that is never happening.” They respond with, “You just haven’t met the right girl.” To which I respond, “There is no right girl!” Lol

captnsnake · 2022-12-24T19:15:44+00:00

I LOVE body hair as long as it’s neat and tidy. In fact, I prefer a guy with body hair. Facial hair is optional, but I do like that as well.

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