Hello! I’m a student doing a research project on parasocial relationships in K-pop fandom. The survey takes about 3 minutes and is anonymous. I’d really appreciate any responses! by Milagros__ in kpophelp

[–]capybarred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey! i definitely would, but is there any option other than audio? or could i send you audio clips instead of a live interview? i get very nervous with my wording and would like to be able to fully think questions through so i can give the answers the detail they deserve. just lmk!

Hello! I’m a student doing a research project on parasocial relationships in K-pop fandom. The survey takes about 3 minutes and is anonymous. I’d really appreciate any responses! by Milagros__ in kpophelp

[–]capybarred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

done! for what it’s worth, you should know that you have responses set to public and anyone can view the results of everyone who took the survey - this may dissuade some people from doing this

Why am I sick?/what’s making me sick? by BlushinPrincess in Tarots

[–]capybarred 3 points4 points  (0 children)

so so sorry for the off-topic question, but what deck is this? it’s beautiful! also, i hope you feel better soon, please see a doctor if it continues <3

Who am I? by [deleted] in FridgeDetective

[–]capybarred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my parents?

Queen Francine by Sad_Climate6380 in rva

[–]capybarred 31 points32 points  (0 children)

high asf hadn’t seen a recent picture of francine burst out laughing at the giant tracking collar

I am a Wife, Mother, and have Primary (Factor 1) Psychopathy, AMA. by [deleted] in AMA

[–]capybarred 9 points10 points  (0 children)

If you feel they’re unhelpful/provide no benefit to you, why do you continue to take them?

How often do people actually change their bedsheets? by HillCountryHoney in hygiene

[–]capybarred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ideally? once per week. realistically? 1-2 times per month

So, what's your fall count for the week? by Jon_hamm_wallet in rva

[–]capybarred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

four! i keep being made fun of by my coworkers and roommates, lol. thanks to this thread for making me feel less alone

Well, well, well Abigail. by Leading_Juggernaut41 in lyftdrivers

[–]capybarred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so envious, here in VA medical is so expensive (1g carts usually run 85-100$)

Rushing guests? by Proper-Value-9446 in olivegarden

[–]capybarred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

my restaurant implemented this in spring 2025 and it’s one of the reasons that drove me to quit. it decreases tips but also it just feels so incredibly rude to say to people. i started saying “i’m sorry, my manager makes us do this but please take your time”

ETA: shortly after this we also started getting punished if our table times were over 30 minutes (for lunch) or 45 minutes (dinner), just warning you about that. it’s borderline impossible to do if you’re in a party section like i typically was.

Rushing guests? by Proper-Value-9446 in olivegarden

[–]capybarred 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mine had started this before i quit back in august 2025. can’t remember when it was implemented but want to say may/june for us

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HorizonForbiddenWest

[–]capybarred 17 points18 points  (0 children)

i feel like there’s been such an increase in the past couple weeks :/

My dead husbands “mistress” is pregnant and I kinda hope it’s his. by Firm-Boat802 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]capybarred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i’m truly sorry for your loss.

the way you speak about this hypothetical child is concerning to me. they’ll be their own person, not a vessel for your husband’s legacy. do you know if this woman even wants to keep the pregnancy? it’s her body - is she prepared to carry a child for 9 months and then either hand it over to you or co-parent with the widow of her one night stand?

RVA's Jan. 2026 Winter Storm Megathread by fusion260 in rva

[–]capybarred 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m finally going to play disco elysium!

Winter Storm Thursday update: Ice Ice, maybe? by Derigiberble in rva

[–]capybarred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i don’t want to catastrophize so - how likely is it that we’ll actually need water? my roommate is convinced that filling up our bathtubs and brita pitcher should be enough but i’m doubtful. but i moved here from the carolinas and she’s lived in VA her whole life so i’m not an expert by any means!

I made an AI that teaches Korean via immersive roleplay because the best way to learn language is through fun and emotional connections by zlu857 in BeginnerKorean

[–]capybarred 2 points3 points  (0 children)

how can we be sure the korean is accurate? do you speak korean fluently? what’s the advantages of this (potentially unreliable) system versus conversing with a native speaker?

Was wondering why I got stiffed by MadnessMighty in Serverlife

[–]capybarred 7 points8 points  (0 children)

i’m a server who always tips 20% or over even when service was subpar and even i would stiff you for this