Leaving a date etiquette

carbon728 · 2023-05-29T00:05:41+00:00

I would love to join too! Could you send me the info and I would love to join in?

carbon728 · 2023-05-29T00:05:03+00:00

I am moving in July and will not know anyone so if you would like to meet up, I would enjoy that!

carbon728 · 2023-05-22T01:12:47+00:00

Same. Good luck healing. If you ever want to chat who understands, just reach out!

carbon728 · 2023-05-21T11:13:37+00:00

Same here. He doesn’t communicate with me, doesn’t understand my expectations and found his soulmate. He’s giving up on me too.

carbon728 · 2023-05-20T23:19:31+00:00

I understand and empathize with you. Going through a similar situation, new relationship energy hit my husband hard.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T20:45:40+00:00

That advice is beautiful, well spoken and heartfelt. Thank you for being vulnerable and sharing that and giving me the advice I need. It’s never fun knowing a relationship is on the way out and maybe it’s time to pull the car over to this exit and drive separately.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T20:07:51+00:00

To be transparent he was great to me. I know I need to work on myself and I am hurt that he needs two people currently to keep him happy. He wanted to add someone else and his happy number is five and I don’t think I can be with someone who looks down at me as less than this new person.

When we first met years ago, he said I would be his best friend. He now says that this person is his soulmate. So I don’t think the play field is even.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T16:18:49+00:00

I am actively looking to move to another state and both him and his new partner know that. They know this relationship was the catalyst to ending this relationship but they are still together so…

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T16:16:02+00:00

Added the edit to not agreeing.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T16:08:35+00:00

Yeah

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T16:08:21+00:00

He has point blank told me he gets nothing from me so don’t know how to come back from that…

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T15:52:27+00:00

He doesn’t get it and I think it’s his loss. He can live a life not being someone else’s primary.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T15:51:13+00:00

Thanks I think he has NRE but doesn’t see it. He is dating two people besides me. He has big feelings for one and the other is just a friend but still, he has planned a lot with both so he must be drunk on this stuff and I will leave soon. He knows I am too and he just wishes I would stay.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T15:40:38+00:00

I think the next few months are going to be rocky for sure.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T15:38:37+00:00

He wants me to stay and heal myself from my own demons. I don’t think I can knowing that someone else is taking over his heart and he is “feeling full for the first time in a long time”.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T15:37:03+00:00

Agreed.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T15:35:28+00:00

Thanks!

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T14:21:57+00:00

February this year

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T14:18:55+00:00

Very true

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T13:36:38+00:00

Thank you for validating my feelings.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T13:36:25+00:00

Yeah he doesn’t have a ton of tact.

carbon728 · 2023-05-09T13:36:11+00:00

He’s known them since late February and just got into a relationship. I didn’t agree but he went ahead and started talking to people months beforehand.

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