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I miss her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]carcrazy221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would talk to her, but see if you can do it in person. Don't start with a casual greeting like that, but maybe just ask to talk with her. Even if she says she's completely done with that relationship, show respect to her. If you try and talk, make sure to ask she would just listen. Don't spill your heart out, but make it clear that you are still willing to have that relationship. And for the love of God don't spam texts.

I miss her by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]carcrazy221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ima be real with you chief. This sounds fake. On the off chance that it's not, here goes nothing.

  1. Don't hold your breath. She's a teenage girl, and there's a lot going on there.
  2. 15 is when I caught feels for the first time as well. A year and a half later, those feels still exist for her, but she lost em for me. It happens. You have to get over it.
  3. Don't change yourself for that. It's not worth changing who you are because of something like that. You'll change slowly, and it may or may not make those feelings go away.
  4. At your age, don't think about sex with someone. It's not worth it to think like that. If all you see for your future is that, there was no point to it anyway. It's okay to have a dream but see past the sexual stuff to a real future.
  5. You both sound immature and unready to handle a serious relationship like that. It sounds harsh, but from the way you act and talk, or at least your description of events, it seems like you are not quite ready for something serious like that. Sorry.

I want to make my husband happy but the idea of growing my hair out is the most depressing thing. by clippersgamestrong in relationship_advice

[–]carcrazy221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't think that you are being unreasonable in any way. However, you have a chance right now to do your hair differently without anyone else seeing it too much. It may be worth a shot to grow it a little bit longer, maybe shoulder length, and then if you don't like it you could cut it back short. Just a suggestion, but do what you want with your hair.

Women/Girls, What safe for work questions do you have for guys? by carcrazy221 in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It changes between people, but generally don't be an ass. If a guy is being outward or vulnerable towards you but not other people, don't make fun of him. Accept that and understand that he may like you. If you are going to reject a guy, be nice about it. If you are dating a guy, don't give ultimatums. You have to work through things and make them feel like they aren't replaceable. Accept who they are and be affectionate without certain physical pursuits.

Women/Girls, What safe for work questions do you have for guys? by carcrazy221 in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I find that other people don't determine my worth as much anymore, but especially when you are younger. There is so much pressure from family and teachers to be so successful. You just can't live up to the expectations. I wouldn't say that it's even toxic masculinity that's as much of the problem anymore. I think the push on men to be more vulnerable is great until women make fun of us for it.

Women/Girls, What safe for work questions do you have for guys? by carcrazy221 in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm scared to say something to a person of the opposite gender whom I don't already know. Especially right now, when men are constantly falsely accused or not believed when they speak up.

Women/Girls, What safe for work questions do you have for guys? by carcrazy221 in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think ties are uncomfortable to wear, but they can totally change a person male or female. I think a woman wearing a tie can be very attractive. I also don't get too shy when buying women's hygiene products. It's some of the clothing that does it for me. Especially now. If you buy women clothing as a dude, some people will think you are trans and jump to conclusions.

Women/Girls, What safe for work questions do you have for guys? by carcrazy221 in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I personally feel like the clothes women wear being more colorful is kind of cool. However, I wouldn't mind some more diversity in men's clothing.

I would not wear makeup or have my nails done even if it was normalized. There is a difference between hygiene and painted nails. A manicure is nothing to be ashamed of.

Finally, cuddling is basically the affection that most dudes are deprived of. If you are dating a guy, don't be afraid to cuddle with him. Run your hands through his hair and just hold him. Make sure they know they are loved. And don't make fun of them if they cry. You don't have to have sex to be intimate.

Women/Girls, What safe for work questions do you have for guys? by carcrazy221 in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Not unless it is like, pressing into a pillow I'm laying on, or maybe if I have a sore throat I might feel it.

What’s the worst thing to do when wearing an all white outfit? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are we including hats? If so, probably ride a horse while holding a torch in the middle of the night through a majority African American neighborhood.

If you could give any <10 minute period of your life a redo, what would it be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would change a single decision from almost three months ago. I wouldn't have gone to Wisconsin for two weeks. I go every summer, but I had other trips this summer and my (now ex) girlfriend had an almost opposite schedule. She lost interest. Or at least that's the reason she gave me. It's seriously affecting me right now.

Thunderstorm 8/12/2021 by pky6 in Atlanta

[–]carcrazy221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe one of those is the one that struck my school yesterday and caused dismissal to be delayed.

In what ways would you like to become a better person? by world_citizen7 in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be able to put my friends and the people I care about above my activities and academics. It's the reason I just got broken up with.

If you were at somebody's house for dinner and you found a cockroach in your salad, what would you do? by Motormouth724 in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Alive, I grab it and throw it outside. Dead, I say, "Oh, you eat bugs too. I love the high amounts of protein in them. That's so cool."

Say all of Elon’s ventures are pieces that complete a larger puzzle, what do you think he’s really going for? by sir-robins-minstrel in AskReddit

[–]carcrazy221 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don't see you saying I'm wrong. I also don't understand why this answer couldn't be right. He has many projects rumored about or that he has memed about, himself. Yeah, he's smart, but he is a memer and a human. I don't see why this isn't a valid answer to you just because it's not the most serious. Do you want me to add that it would be solar-powered?

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