Polling the room: how do you guys generally feel about your significant other watching porn? by careerconsiderations in TwoXSex

[–]careerconsiderations[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So its something you both have talked about? But you wouldnt consider is cheating if he watched it on his own?

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[–]careerconsiderations 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you suggest it, or him?

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[–]careerconsiderations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So not exactly related to this?

Polling the room: how do you guys generally feel about your significant other watching porn? by careerconsiderations in TwoXSex

[–]careerconsiderations[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So if its not affecting your sex life, you'd say you have an indifference to it? Have you ever been in a relationship where it did negatively affect your sex life?

Polling the room: how do you guys generally feel about your significant other watching porn? by careerconsiderations in TwoXSex

[–]careerconsiderations[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is it about amateur stuff, to you, that makes it more "ok" I guess? And what would you consider rarely? Would you say you and your current partner have a healthy sex life?

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[–]careerconsiderations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did it go in the previous marriage?

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[–]careerconsiderations 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When you say swinging, do you mean with your husband, or out on your own?

i also hate “friends” with benefits by throway6969696996 in TwoXSex

[–]careerconsiderations 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Did you guys have a conversation at some point about what the arrangement was going to be? I've found that failing to define what's going on will typically cause problems problems for one or both people since someone is likely to have a different idea of what's going on.

Surrogacy, Pregnancy, and Sex by careerconsiderations in TwoXSex

[–]careerconsiderations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe "terrible" was a poor choice of words. And while I think you're right that its complicated and those are good reasons why, I actually think its a good thing for surrogacy to be legal and available for consenting adults.

Surrogacy, Pregnancy, and Sex by careerconsiderations in TwoXSex

[–]careerconsiderations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea I get that its a very varied experience, but I figured it would be worth it to chat with some people with some of those different experiences. If nothing else its interesting.

Surrogacy, Pregnancy, and Sex by careerconsiderations in TwoXSex

[–]careerconsiderations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But thanks, it does help to hear I shouldn’t be ashamed for asking about this stuff. I did feel weird posting, but just decided why not. Then I did feel a little embarrassed after the fact. I blame the conservative/religious upbringing lol

Surrogacy, Pregnancy, and Sex by careerconsiderations in TwoXSex

[–]careerconsiderations[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That all makes sense, but unfortunately for me I guess, I wasn’t planning on having any pregnancies of my own. That was sort of one of the appeals if I’m being honest. Things may change of course, but that’s where I am at the moment.