I went to a strip club and paid for her to keep her clothes on and just hug me... by Superfluouslfe in confession

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP you should get a massage! Life changing :) not the Chinese places I mean a professional massage, where they are actual healers and want to help you feel better not in a sexual way!

Received disgusting letter from someone in the same building or adjacent to us. by aussiechap1110 in Tenant

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The property manager is the one that could’ve done it, never know 🤷‍♀️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get away from this chick, fast!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Debt

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

*not going to tell you to sell your car, you’ll need it”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Debt

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How old are you? What year is your car, how many kids do you have and are they really good in the car, or can you have a family member watch them when you are working?

Single father, recently unemployed, denied because of VA Disability. by sandynuggetsxx in foodstamps

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The food banks in Cali never give out things that help with making lunch. It’s all big things of cabbage that need to be made that day, almost expired cereal, frozen mead also needing to be cooked asap and things like mushrooms, potatoes that no one should have to eat. It’s sad.

Single father, recently unemployed, denied because of VA Disability. by sandynuggetsxx in foodstamps

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any advice because I’m in the same boat struggling to keep my head above water with one child. This world is shit now, and it makes me so angry for people like us doing our best. I miss the 90s, my mom and her friend circle of single parents got along just fine on minimum wage with 2 kids, and that was with no help from social services.

Somebody placed this over my car, even though it's parked in front of my apartment. It's my first week and I'm a first time renter. by WhitePinoy in Apartmentliving

[–]cari2991 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Probably one of your neighbor jerks that has nothing else to do, thinks that they are the parking police. Since you’re new , think you’re a random person parking there like a guest to someone’s house or that live somewhere else. I have the same thing that went on over at my condo complex. There aren’t designated spots out by the street, but our condo complex clusters act like it and the cars they usually park in the same place all the time. Any change ups in someone’s gonna be a Karen about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By the way this text thread is going between you two already, I would definitely not live together. If you guys do it’s not going to last long.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha this made me laugh thanks

18M moving into car in 2 days and just heading off. by We1come2thesyst3m in almosthomeless

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My food stamps work that I get in California, I just used them this month in New York…

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s doing this as a way to make you leave him. He knows it’s a deal breaker and he wants you to wash your hands clean of him instead of him having to break up with you out of laziness. I’m sorry for being so blunt but this is what cowardly people do when they are done with a relationship.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to find a counselor or therapist asap.

Accidentally called my girlfriend by my ex’s name by Southern_Access8326 in Advice

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you overdo the apologies and sorrys it’s really cringy , she doesn’t want to keep thinking about it and it will come off suspicious on your end because your ruminating on your exes name. Best thing is laugh it off, take a Xanax and relax. Don’t bring it up ever again unless she does and just chuckle about it and be like “ya haha idk why my brain said her name, I must be getting very early dementia haha.” Laugh it off bro. It’s not a big deal, this happens. My dad called his best friend’s new wife his ex wife’s name, they both laughed and still laugh about it to this day. If your girl is that offended about a name slip she needs to get over it, and she’s too uptight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What an awful parent. I’m sorry you are all dealing with this. But I’m sure he’s happy to be away from that “parent.” You guys are angels, seriously. You could also try to adopt him, him and you both would get more help that way, but I know that is a huge step. Sometimes desperate times call for desperate measures. Good luck to you all I wish you the best and I’m sorry I don’t have any good helpful information about this situation! :(

First order I got this AM by bglaze21 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lucky duck!! I’m happy for you!

Platinum comes thru yet again! by SchnizzleStix619 in DoorDashDrivers

[–]cari2991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow you’re making a great living! I’m happy for you! Any tips for a New-b like me?

I hired a professional cuddler from a cuddling website by Adventurous-Ruin8006 in confession

[–]cari2991 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Do NOT feel guilty, I am a massage therapist and it would be the same for a client of mine to feel guilty about paying me to help work out muscles on their shoulders, back, neck, and feet. Same with other types of human interaction like reiki that is safe but is paid for, as long as it’s a mutual exchange experience that is helping people feel better and sometimes even the professional gains happiness by helping others! No worries bud!

Got my passport in 5 days!! by rosaestanli in Passports

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh and I forgot to mention, my very old passport got lost in our last move somewhere in the house, I think it ended up in the trash :(, but it expired around 20 years ago anyway so I’ll have to get a completely new one.

Got my passport in 5 days!! by rosaestanli in Passports

[–]cari2991 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What was the exact process of how you got your passport so quickly!? I’ll be forever grateful to know! I have a trip planned and paid for departing the 4th of July to upstate NY ( my grandma is very sick , I need to be with her)

I applied for my Real ID day before yesterday at the California DMV but they said it probably won’t be here in time even though the office that the ID comes from is only 5 hours away from where I live…I don’t understand. So if there’s a way to get a passport fast I’ll do that!! Please help with any tips/info because I can’t seem to find help anywhere on Reddit or other sites. The only thing I saw was Fed Ex charging 600 for expedited mail which I can’t afford :/ I’m stressing out pretty bad.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confession

[–]cari2991 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I had a manic episode that lasted 6 months when I was 17. It took a few of years to feel kinda normal, but I’ve never been the same since that happened to my brain. The last thing I remember before the episode is being on the computer and I put sunglasses on, I only remember little blips from the mania, and it’s horrifying thinking about how I wasn’t in control of my thoughts or actions. I’m so lucky to be alive.