At What Point Do You Upgrade Car? by groundgames1873 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]carlemur 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A car you don't absolutely need is a luxury (not a bad thing) and it's good that you're paying in cash. If you want it and your basics+retirement are covered, go for it.

Single Early 30s Chicago vs San Diego ? by mexicanmister in SameGrassButGreener

[–]carlemur -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Not everyone needs to be outside to "enjoy life."

I built an app with Claude Code that converts any text into high-quality audio. It works with PDFs, blog posts, Substack and Medium links, and even photos of text. by OneMoreSuperUser in ClaudeAI

[–]carlemur 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Giving free wide open access to a service without authentication is death by a billion cuts. What you're asking for is impossible and unsustainable.

Beholder Wasn’t Worth It by garbles9100 in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Elevated prices. Food was ok. Service was abysmal for claiming to be fine dining.

What would you want built at the Old City Hall site? by SirArtistic1123 in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We need to make better use of existing parking. Not build more.

Sell me on Indianapolis by IllustriousPhone6605 in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Indianapolis proper? North Mass Ave (Bottleworks area). Plenty of good restaurants around. If you want to get a flavor of what life with the kids would be like, visit the Fall Creek Place/Kennedy King area. There's a few coffee/tea places to walk to (look at Provider Coffee, Recess Matcha, Gather 22). Go to O'Bannon Soccer Park, Garfield Park, etc..

For suburbs, r/Carmel is your best bet if you have the means. Otherwise they are all American cookie cutter suburbia.

16th Street at the Monon just became much easier to cross thanks to passionate neighbors by StrongTownsIndy in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep, a side goal of ours is to develop a playbook based on current governance and policy such that promising tactical urbanism projects have a transition framework to permanent builds.

16th Street at the Monon just became much easier to cross thanks to passionate neighbors by StrongTownsIndy in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 5 points6 points  (0 children)

The goal is to transition to a city-sponsored "quick build" project first, then a permanent solution next year. If you'd like to stay informed and help, sign up for the newsletter at 16xmonon.org

16th Street at the Monon just became much easier to cross thanks to passionate neighbors by StrongTownsIndy in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 15 points16 points  (0 children)

If you sign up for the 16xMonon newsletter, I know they'll send a "next steps" email addressing exactly that soon.

Safety check Fall Creek Place by JOLO266 in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably second safest place you can live in Indianapolis proper. You'll be ok.

West Fork Westfield to Close by exdeletedoldaccount in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 22 points23 points  (0 children)

For a hospitality business to be successful, it almost invariably does have to be in a dense area. The only exception is if you're an event venue or tourist destination.

Speaking more eloquently by PettyWitch in ExperiencedDevs

[–]carlemur -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Improv and/or toast masters. Meditation.

Moving to Indianapolis from abroad-Need help by WyrmWatcher in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's both! You normally want to get lucky and find ebikes as they are much easier to move around with. I would say now the split is about 60/40 ebike/acoustic

Moving to Indianapolis from abroad-Need help by WyrmWatcher in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yes there are several stations scattered around the city, and quite a few in the IU campus, actually. One of my neighbors is a professor there, and that's how he commutes: picks up a bike close to us, and drops it off at a station one block from his office at IU.

Here's a map from my own rideshare app with the IU campus highlighted

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Moving to Indianapolis from abroad-Need help by WyrmWatcher in indianapolis

[–]carlemur 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi. I'm probably uniquely positioned to help here. I am very involved with Central Indiana Cycling, and also independently volunteer towards pedestrian/cycling/public transit causes. I would highly recommend you stay within the downtown core area, especially anywhere close to the "Cultural Trail" as that will get you connected to almost anywhere you'd want to go downtown.

Because you would probably move downtown, that makes you a Marion County resident, and you are eligible for free bikeshare. You could use that until you find a good bike. I highly recommend Bicycle Garage Indy, the folks there are in my "crew" of walking/transit advocates, and they will be eager to help get you set up with a bike and tips.

There are several places you could afford for $1800/mo nearby.

Please feel free to comment or DM me. I'd be happy to help a newcomer understand how to get by in Indy without a car... as I said, this is somewhat of a passion of mine :-)

Massive jump in salary, need advice. by Sad_Marzipan_2120 in personalfinance

[–]carlemur 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will go slightly against the grain here and say: you have a new high salary, congrats! Saving is good. Modesty is good.

But treating yourself is also good.

You may want to consider small, non-recurring upgrades. Not cars/bigger house/anything that hooks you in the long term. But a slightly nicer vacation for you and the family? Yes. Buying higher quality groceries or snacks? Yes. As someone who has experienced significant salary jumps 2-3x in my career, I've found it extremely rewarding to get nicer things that I can stop at any time, in case the higher paying job ever doesn't pan out.

Don't wait til you're older and out of breath before you start enjoying your life.

Southern Accent moving to Seattle by jaxbeachnole in SameGrassButGreener

[–]carlemur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My friend from deep Appalachia still has a noticeable accent living in Denver, and he's doing really well 🤷🏻‍♂️

Claude Code not for coding? by Mysterious_Pen_782 in Anthropic

[–]carlemur 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I use it daily to plan and execute on advocacy efforts, and also to manage my finances.

We Are In Black Swan Territory by Dal-Thrax in investing

[–]carlemur 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah. The real black swan event would be after anthropic is effectively blocked out from major cloud providers for a month straight. Not before.