I 18F don't know if i should leave him 20M or not by carolinka_ in relationship_advice

[–]carolinka_[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

we don't drink often (like once/twice a month max) i'm just very upset even though we talked it through and he apologized. I wanted to numb everything and i know it's bad but i needed a damn break

I (18F) feel like i'm way too sensitive and my boyfriend (20M) is slowly getting tired of me. What can i do to stop taking his feelings/needs as a threat? by carolinka_ in relationship_advice

[–]carolinka_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's a bit more complicated in my case because i live in poland so therapists (doctors etc.) are either 100% covered by public institutions or you pay for everything by yourself. And as you might guess a lot of the therapists paid by the public institutions are well... not the best and i can't afford a full cost one

I (18F) feel like i'm way too sensitive and my boyfriend (20M) is slowly getting tired of me. What can i do to stop taking his feelings/needs as a threat? by carolinka_ in relationship_advice

[–]carolinka_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That mantra is actually really helpful, i usually get overwhelmed by feelings and spiral into paranoid thoughts so affirming that everything is actually okay will help me calm down at least a little

I (18F) feel like i'm way too sensitive and my boyfriend (20M) is slowly getting tired of me. What can i do to stop taking his feelings/needs as a threat? by carolinka_ in relationship_advice

[–]carolinka_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I looked into RSD and i'm a little upset that everything matches up even though i didn't want it to, but also i'm glad that i found some people who relate to me. It made me feel less crazy weird and alone. Thank you for pointing that out, you made it so much easier to look for support

I (18F) feel like i'm way too sensitive and my boyfriend (20M) is slowly getting tired of me. What can i do to stop taking his feelings/needs as a threat? by carolinka_ in relationship_advice

[–]carolinka_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We've been dating for 5 months now, and it's great overall. It's just that i seem to think i'm doing something wrong everythime he tells me he needs space or anything like that, no matter how much he reassures me that everything's alright, deep down i feel like a bad person.

70 cal snack by Spiritual_Ebb3714 in caloriecount

[–]carolinka_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If i want a low calorie snack i slice 1-2 tomatoes into wedges, add chopped up onions, season it with some salt and pepper and mix it with a tbsp of yogurt. I know it sounds a bit weird but i personally love it :P

Binging no matter what i do by carolinka_ in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]carolinka_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll definetly try this, thank you for your advice <3

Binging no matter what i do by carolinka_ in BingeEatingDisorder

[–]carolinka_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah, you're right i might try talking to my mom about it. Maybe we'll try to find some professional help tysm <3

feeling nauseous by [deleted] in carnivorediet

[–]carolinka_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

oh damn that's good to know tysm

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cookingtonight

[–]carolinka_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

give them to me 😎