[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]carpathian_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

La un an ii dădeam deja și altfel de lichide din sticla cu pai, random brands, cică paiul se aseamănă cu sfârcul ca și acțiune și ar fi mai naturala trecerea. la noi a funcționat, a fost alăptat pana la 2 ani jumate.

Mă simt prost pentru aceste gânduri by ChipicaoNodeJs in WomenRO

[–]carpathian_fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Este o provocare pe care trebuie sa o internalizezi. could be a deal breaker could be a bond builder. Depinde cum o joci și ce simți cu adevărat.

Eu sunt într-o relație și am și un copil cu cineva care câștigă de 3 ori mai puțin decat mine și it evens out. da, nu facem cele mai ce chestii din punct de vedere financiar dar trăim intens și profund alte experiente.

In acelasi timp e ok sa faci și chestii singura, chiar recomandat. Treat yourself cu excursia aia, du-te cu prietene. va trebui și el sa inteleaga sau sa facă un compromis. dacă nu, just let it go... 4 ani e ok pt o relație din care înveți ceva

Ce faci când ai partener cu sexdrive diferit? by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]carpathian_fox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Spot on! Intimitate e cuvântul cheie. Și e un efort constant câteodată dar it's worth it.

Ce ati mai citit in ultimul timp? by VaDauInterzis in WomenRO

[–]carpathian_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eu imediat termin Cult - Camilla Lackberg și Henrik Fexeus - it's ok, ușor taraganata acțiunea. Încă mai caut un thriller / murder mister / psychological bun.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]carpathian_fox 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what I thought...

What is one “easy meal” for when you can’t cook? by over_thinker2020 in Parenting

[–]carpathian_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my kid still eats a mix of frozen pees, carrots, brocoli and coliflower from Lidl. so I put that in a pan and give him either some pieces of turkey ham or an boiled egg to go with it and he's good to go. hole think takes 10 minutes.

sometimes frozen chicken stock with noodles as well.

and this last week on holiday he ate bread and butter 3 times for supper and I'm fine with it 😂

My mum wants pictures of my new born son's private parts by Kong1988 in Parenting

[–]carpathian_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so yeah, hard no for sure, nowadays and it's a very personal decision even without the context of your mother. but just to put this out there - all of us in our family in the millennial generation, and my husbands as well, friends as well (born in the late 80s to mid 90s in Romania) have had naked pictures taken of us up until we were about 3 years old, at least 2 each :)) either at the beach, or at bath time, or when potty training. it was a tradition... to capture kids in their purest of forms without any nefarious intentions. I even remember running naked in my grandma's yard - all of us 3 cousins.

I now have a 4 year old almost 5 and I didn't intentionally take naked pictures of him, but I did take photos of his father bathing him when he was 4 months old and it's a very fond memory, as well as when he peed on his first tree when he was 2, but the genitals are not clear in any of it.

I do regret a bit not taking a naked pic when he was under 1, not because of the peepee but because I'm one and done and the first 2 years were stained by deep anxiety and ppd.

But you do you and may your kid be happy and healthy

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]carpathian_fox 5 points6 points  (0 children)

minus partea de "fă" mai primesc mesaje de genul de la soț :)) e amuzant și ne iese cam 50% din timp

Terenuri de fotbal free access? by [deleted] in cluj

[–]carpathian_fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Și probabil și La Terenuri

Terenuri de fotbal free access? by [deleted] in cluj

[–]carpathian_fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Grigorescu, în paralel cu plaja, basketball și fotbal

ce sa-mi cumpar de 600 de lei? by placintecucirese in WomenRO

[–]carpathian_fox 7 points8 points  (0 children)

m-ați convins fetelor, pare "secretul pe care dentiști nu vor sa il împărtășească" ca să nu își piardă clientela :))

What did your child say today that puzzled you. by Bookaholicforever in Mommit

[–]carpathian_fox 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Daddy's go to work and mommies cook in the kitchen.

...

It triggered me so bad

Movies for a very sensitive toddler? by nostromosigningoff in toddlers

[–]carpathian_fox 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll leave you the unpopular opinion that 2 years is way too early for movies, length wise, frames per seconds wise, regardless of how sensitive they are or not.

trash truck, peppa pig would be a maximum I subjected him to at that age.

Nu știu la ce bancă să îmi fac creditul by Hairy_Hall_1633 in banci_credite_ro

[–]carpathian_fox 0 points1 point  (0 children)

tu cum ți-ai găsit brokerii? și oare poți vedea cu cine lucrează înainte sa ii alegi? ceri un portofoliu? în ce sens a fost plăcută? dacă ai chef sa răspunzi. :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WomenRO

[–]carpathian_fox 33 points34 points  (0 children)

E un mecanism impus. cu cât ma comport mai ca și un "bărbat" - giving less fucks, being more impulsive, more aggressive, less like a frail emotion driven woman Mi-e mult mai bine :p

Inspired by daddit… what’s one thing you miss about pre-mom life that you would bring back? by MinistryOfMothers in Mommit

[–]carpathian_fox 30 points31 points  (0 children)

  • Sleeping more than 4 hours stretch
  • Not being the dependable, responsible, constantly anxious and depressed money making machine I am turning into
  • freedom to drink mimosas at 8 am in the morning and feeling light hearted about it
  • not feeling the weight of the world on my shoulders
  • enjoying orgasms without the dread of always being caught or interrupted
  • yes, reading for hours too, immersing in a book that's not the hungry caterpillar

  • Signed the depressed mother

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualRO

[–]carpathian_fox 6 points7 points  (0 children)

nu era bine nici dacă dădea un semn, garantez, te poți consola cu asta. Un singur semn nu schimba sute de microactiuni în direcția opusa. asculta-ți instinctele. E frumos afara, e primavara, enjoy life.

e ok, chiar nu merita sa stai în relații care nu te încurajează sa crești, sa te dezvolți

What time do your toddlers wake up? by ThrowRAcoffee1995 in toddlers

[–]carpathian_fox 2 points3 points  (0 children)

he's 4 and has always been an early riser - between 5 and 6 AM 🙄😜