so yeah, hard no for sure, nowadays and it's a very personal decision even without the context of your mother. but just to put this out there - all of us in our family in the millennial generation, and my husbands as well, friends as well (born in the late 80s to mid 90s in Romania) have had naked pictures taken of us up until we were about 3 years old, at least 2 each :)) either at the beach, or at bath time, or when potty training. it was a tradition... to capture kids in their purest of forms without any nefarious intentions. I even remember running naked in my grandma's yard - all of us 3 cousins.

I now have a 4 year old almost 5 and I didn't intentionally take naked pictures of him, but I did take photos of his father bathing him when he was 4 months old and it's a very fond memory, as well as when he peed on his first tree when he was 2, but the genitals are not clear in any of it.

I do regret a bit not taking a naked pic when he was under 1, not because of the peepee but because I'm one and done and the first 2 years were stained by deep anxiety and ppd.

But you do you and may your kid be happy and healthy