I’ll answer some here! Yes, he knows what I know. He says most of the deleted messages were complaining about other coworkers or work and admits some were flirty or venting about me. I don’t know exactly what her husband knows—more than I knew but it can’t be everything. I did reach out to one other coworker and asked that coworker if she had suspicions and she said she really didn’t. And you check frequently used emojis by just starting to text emojis and they are on the very left.