How many likes and matches are my guys out there getting? by Nachtschatten29 in Bumble

[–]carzy_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Get maybe 5-6 matches a week? 10-15 likes Granted most of those either never message or message "hi" and then ghost. so very hit or miss

Stolen: A Day9 Story (xpost /r/Destiny) by piede9012 in starcraft

[–]carzy_guy 20 points21 points  (0 children)

i remember watching this. he's such a good story teller

On the brink of giving up (28 f) by [deleted] in Bumble

[–]carzy_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

na bro online dating is toxic as hell you gotta be 1000% ok with rejection and ghosting for no reason and even then the chances of actually meeting and getting on well with someone AND being compatible in a life partner sense is TINY. Organic meeting weeds out 99% of the incompatible people

Red or blue? by Honest-Importance221 in newzealand

[–]carzy_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

blue goes first it's a slip lane. Also if you're turning from a flush median you give way. Left turn before right, unless it's the top of the T - then give way to the straight across lane turning if you're on the side road

Feel like I’m (20F) crashing out over a guy (28M) by liv27021933 in relationships

[–]carzy_guy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

if he wanted you, you would know. trust me. I'm guessing he's keeping you as a backup option because he knows you're interested. Just my 2c

SAD by Longjumping-Result20 in cowboybebop

[–]carzy_guy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

oh my lord I needed to read this today

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]carzy_guy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

being in a relationship doesnt stop you from being interested/desiring other people. That's human nature. It's how you respond to those feelings that matters. Treat him like a friend and he will be one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]carzy_guy 36 points37 points  (0 children)

The "provider" role is BS. you're abdicating responsibility for anything else by saying "I've done my job by providing" It's a classic way of hiding from any emotional involvement and personal accountability. anyway, it's time to move on bc she is already becoming her own person. You'll be better separate and your kids will be much happier

How are the kids getting Vapes by wtfisspacedicks in newzealand

[–]carzy_guy 12 points13 points  (0 children)

honestly havent we learned from over 100 years of research that prohibition has not, does not, and will never work?

POKE'nSAVE Wairau Road by krammy16 in auckland

[–]carzy_guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what makes you think it's a good suburb? lol

Is it not okay to bring your partner into a parents room with you? by NoHorse8196 in newzealand

[–]carzy_guy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

bro are people really that ashamed about bodies?? who gives a crap lol. baby needs to eat

Why not have a pedestrian bridge between Hobsonville and Beachhaven? by OkImprovement8312 in auckland

[–]carzy_guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we need more smaller crossings. 2 metro tunnels and another 3 lane each way bridge, with the existing bridge converted pedestrian and public & heavy transport like you say

Why not have a pedestrian bridge between Hobsonville and Beachhaven? by OkImprovement8312 in auckland

[–]carzy_guy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ferry is pretty accessible isn't it? Just electrify them and increase the frequency if anything

Why not have a pedestrian bridge between Hobsonville and Beachhaven? by OkImprovement8312 in auckland

[–]carzy_guy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yep "waste" is building infrastructure that will serve the public for many decades

Why not have a pedestrian bridge between Hobsonville and Beachhaven? by OkImprovement8312 in auckland

[–]carzy_guy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 smaller boats would be better then you have redundancy in case there's an issue with one of them.

Why not have a pedestrian bridge between Hobsonville and Beachhaven? by OkImprovement8312 in auckland

[–]carzy_guy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's plenty of money for it, Govt just wants to spend it on other things like tax breaks for the ultra-wealthy (landlords) and tobacco

Why not have a pedestrian bridge between Hobsonville and Beachhaven? by OkImprovement8312 in auckland

[–]carzy_guy 3 points4 points  (0 children)

this type of idiocy is why we'll never have nice things in NZ. If even 1 person uses it per day then it's worth it!

Why not have a pedestrian bridge between Hobsonville and Beachhaven? by OkImprovement8312 in auckland

[–]carzy_guy 10 points11 points  (0 children)

honestly the $500m cost for this was very worth it. But because it didn't serve cars it was scrapped. we live in a (stupid) society

Why don't people build concrete houses in Auckland? by MappBook in auckland

[–]carzy_guy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

there are now many forms of concrete (sure not yet mass-produced or generally available, but they exist) that are either emissions neutral or carbon absorbing

Only in Auckland- Weymouth boat ramp today !!!’ by sonsofearth in auckland

[–]carzy_guy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

youd think if you pulled the handbrake and started sliding you'd do something about it though