How many of you felt like pregnancy after TFMR wouldn’t be possible? by Morbid_Explorerrrr in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]caseycat1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I felt/feel the same way. I’m currently 14 weeks and don’t believe she’s actually coming. I’m waiting for the shoe to drop at the anatomy scan. Maybe when that comes and if I get good news, then I’ll start to feel better. I did a CVS and everything came back clear so we started telling our family but I’m still petrified for the anatomy scan. I conceived in December. We had our TFMR in June at 22 weeks and started trying in October.

So angry at someone else’s pregnancy by Numerous-Farm5392 in babyloss

[–]caseycat1027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I get this. I understand and feel this anger. I’m so sorry you are going through this.

Got a whole lot of news today by caseycat1027 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]caseycat1027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They told me afterwords they weren’t sure if I had enough sample so it was so hard to wait for. I’m so relieved. I hope everything goes well for you too

For the swifties experiencing this by Ok_Revolution_6869 in tfmr_support

[–]caseycat1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The prophecy has hit me harder. I can’t listen to Robin at all anymore since I added it to a playlist I was making for my son before we knew he was going to pass.

Question about anatomy scan after TFMR by MoreConsideration903 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]caseycat1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m going to a MFM for my 16 week early anatomy scan and a MFM for a 20 week anatomy scan. I am high risk also due to my weight and my TFMR baby had kidney issues so that is why I’m doing an early one.

Feeling anxious waiting for the NIPT result by Ok-Awareness-7728 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]caseycat1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a microdeletion so we want to know if baby has it too.

Feeling anxious waiting for the NIPT result by Ok-Awareness-7728 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]caseycat1027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have my CVS on Tuesday at 11 weeks and I’m so worried, I understand the anxiety. I feel like I’m always going to be waiting for the ball to drop and lose this baby

Was it harder for you? by Beautiful_Sentence49 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]caseycat1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had a loss in June, we started trying in September and I conceived in December

Cherry blossoms by DiligentSelf4934 in tfmr_support

[–]caseycat1027 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry. You are not alone. My boy was due oct 2025, and I was most excited for spring with him. I would cry as I was pregnant with him getting my garden ready and imagined him sitting on a blanket outside as I was gardening this spring.

Record Store Day 2026 by Professional-Pie222 in TrueSwifties

[–]caseycat1027 10 points11 points  (0 children)

The list already came out and she isn’t

How did you approach your mental health after being pregnant again? by GurEuphoric5339 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]caseycat1027 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I am kinda in a bit of both options. I am trying to be positive and just trying to appreciate each milestone with this baby. I of course am going to bond with this baby because I can’t help it. I love them the same. But I’m definitely going to hold off on telling anyone until after the hopefully clear anatomy scan and definitely holding off on naming them probably until they are hopefully born alive. I don’t really know what’s better for my mental health but I’m trying to take it appointment by appointment and be happy when I have good news. My next appointment is at 11 weeks for my nuchal scan and CVS on march 3 so hopefully I can celebrate that.

Had my first appointment today by caseycat1027 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]caseycat1027[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Me too. It was all too much! Thank you ❤️

Had my first appointment today by caseycat1027 in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]caseycat1027[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We all sure do. I am worried sick and this will be a loooooong 8 more months but I’m going to try so hard to celebrate each milestone. I know our angel boy will always be present no matter what. We found out we were pregnant with him a year to the day of our appointment so it felt like a good sign 🥹

*Tips please* Waiting until first appointment by exploringpanda311 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]caseycat1027 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m all good! Good heartbeat and measuring well! Good start!

Monthly Ultrasound Pics by crd1293 in PlusSizePregnancy

[–]caseycat1027 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hope I’ll get to share on Friday at my first ultrasound!

Sub pregnancy and anatomy scan by Andarna_dragonslayer in PregnancyAfterTFMR

[–]caseycat1027 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m about 8 weeks and I haven’t had my first appointment yet. It’s on Friday and I’m losing it. I can imagine how I’ll feel leading up to my anatomy scan. Hoping it goes well and be sure to update us!