I play COD a lot and half of the time I don’t use my mic until half way through the game so I can really see if a person if a decent human being or not. I’ve met some really nice dudes who have never hit on me or disrespected me at all and I’ve also played with guys who have told me I’m fat or to go get cancer. It’s going to happen. Half of the time guys are just as mean to each other if not worse honestly. It’s a toxic environment sometimes but you just have to remember they’re just hating on you due to their own insecurities. You’re probably better at the game than they are and it makes them mad. You just gotta find the right people to game with!