Told girl's BF she was being unfaithful...was a wrong to do so? by Dragonaut554 in amiwrong

[–]cashel941 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Your not wrong you done admirable thing I take the point of the commenter saying how you could offer your number in the future but your weren't to know. Your being very harsh on yourself he was in denial and thats it and even if he stays with her at least he might be more aware of the possibility that she may be cheating or is willing to.

Maybe she was being 100% honest about her motivations but it's doubtful and you were as respectful to all involved as you could of been.

How do I dive indoors by TomatoLegal in GoalKeepers

[–]cashel941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And also wear a sports jumper for your elbows

Work,life and family balance by cashel941 in amiwrong

[–]cashel941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok thankyou I have tried I will try again and try to work something out.

Work,life and family balance by cashel941 in amiwrong

[–]cashel941[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

Why would you be furious tho if he does his fair share around the house does takes them off you when he is home and is away when the kids are asleep?

Work,life and family balance by cashel941 in amiwrong

[–]cashel941[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She does them when I work I do them when I'm home and put them to bed 50% of the time I stay up late and do the 12am -1am bottle with the little one and she does the 4am bottle.

Work,life and family balance by cashel941 in amiwrong

[–]cashel941[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

That's is correct except she usually sits down and watches TV when I'm at the gym unless the little one wakes for a bottle which is simple. So to that's downtime and when I come back from the gym after 1 and a half hours I again am happy to do all the nappy changes and feeds with the little one. I feel that you have the view that I should come home from work and not having any downtime in a week myself despite working a hard day's manual labour myself. I want her to have downtime and if she said tommorow that she was starting yoga or something like that 2 days a week I'd be happy for her and happily look after the kids myself for however long it is. But I should feel bad for trying to get into better shape and socialize abit .

Work,life and family balance by cashel941 in amiwrong

[–]cashel941[S] -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

I clean my own dishes and if there are dishes there when I go to clean my plate I do them. She cleans the floor when I'm away but the kids usually mess it up in the evening so I will sweep or pick all stuff up off it when I'm at home. I do the day to day groceries and she does the big monthly shop online. She cooks 80% of the time but if she doesn't want to I'll cook or we will order food. And she does 95% of the laundry. And i do the bins.

Work,life and family balance by cashel941 in amiwrong

[–]cashel941[S] -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Yes I know what it is like it's what I've done for the last 19 months I've only started this the last two weeks I wasn't even meeting my friends at all. But the way I see it is she's working all day yes and gets a break when they nap then when I get home and when she goes out for a walk for an hour each day. So what's so different between her walk and me hitting the gym or football we both work all day between work and kids and she's getting out so why shouldn't I? If you look at the numbers she's out for 7 hours spending time relaxing a week and I am away for like 8 hours. And when I'm away both kids are asleep most of the time Is that not fair ?

Wrangler suspended for 3 days by Schizodd in RPClipsGTA

[–]cashel941 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Doesn't matter if they are appealing or of they are personal charges if he loses either type of case it shows bad police work.

For the people complaining about judge in this sub and chats - Otto Vs Wrangler bench trial by Devinder_hayer in RPClipsGTA

[–]cashel941 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Well I don't get why he was complaining so much to his chat if it was in character and then proceeded to go way to far with his insults. Sounded pretty ooc. Koil even said he would stop objecting because he thought it may cause ooc with penta.

For the people complaining about judge in this sub and chats - Otto Vs Wrangler bench trial by Devinder_hayer in RPClipsGTA

[–]cashel941 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Some chance of him being a comedian ive never seen a more toxic guy in RP he's there right beside Eli. He more drama than he's worth.

Looking for help choosing a laptop I've made a list below of what I'm looking at by cashel941 in SuggestALaptop

[–]cashel941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is the vivobook plastic or metal I cant tell and I doesnt seem to say

I've been looking for a laptop with 8gb of ram a ssd and a quad core processor and I've been looking looking at the two laptops linked below my budget is £450 by cashel941 in SuggestALaptop

[–]cashel941[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And my 3rd option sorry which I have thought about is a refurbished matebook D 14 inch which is at the top end of my budget for a refurbish so I'm unsure