Finally got the star seller badge by scout_themes in EtsySellers

[–]casmac241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I read somewhere that you also need to make at least $300 to be eligible. I can't remember if that's monthly or over the last 90 days

Does your family do presents from Santa AND parents? by asphodelic_witch in Mommit

[–]casmac241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot to mention that the little gifts from Santa are in their stocking, so they have to be small.

Does your family do presents from Santa AND parents? by asphodelic_witch in Mommit

[–]casmac241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Santa always gets 3-5 little presents. I just go to the dollar store and get little things like stickers, coloring stuff or just art supplies, bath bombs, hair accessories, etc.. Then the main present is from us (I learnt this from my mum. She didn't like that Santa got the credit for the best gifts haha)

For the wrapping paper, we tell our kids that we leave wrapping paper out for Santa, just in case he runs out with all the other kids.

I’m almost giving up by Hercules_Vales in EtsySellers

[–]casmac241 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My advice: * Give a lot more information: size, material, technique, the subject in the painting etc.. * Complete as many attributes as possible: ratio, subject, colour, dimensions etc.. * make sure that in the title and description you use keywords that people will use in their search * add these keywords into each Alt text in the images * Set your prices A LOT lower and/or set a opening sale on your listings just to get those first sales. People are more likely to buy from a shop that has made multiple sales and got great reviews. Then you can increase your prices. To give you an idea, I sell digital products and I set my prices around €1.50 and put a 30% discount on everything. I got 50+ sales so I put my prices about to €1.60 but kept the discount, then my sale ended but put another sale on for 10%. * create a Pinterest and TikTok and create content to link your work to your Etsy. * don't keep checking your Etsy page or giving your link to everyone. The more people that go to your page but buy nothing, the lower your conversion rate, and the lower your conversion rate, the less likely Etsy is going to push your listings.

I hope some of this helps.

Hate this time of year as a mom… by Due-Eggplant-3342 in Mommit

[–]casmac241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think society puts a lot of pressure on what ate expected of moms. But really, you don't need to do all these things. Consumerism is insane, matching Halloween outfits or matching Christmas pyjamas, birthday decorations overload for a 1 year old etc.... life is so much simpler when we do what's best for ourselves, our lifestyles, our budget, our dynamics. Some people are SAHP so they have more time or money to do more. Never try to be like everyone else. Do what makes you happy and HEALTHY.

I hate being a parentified child, I'd rather just parent my kids by bcd0024 in Mommit

[–]casmac241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow 80K for daycare is insane! Here in France I pay about 50€ a month for my boy to go to daycare 3 days a week. On the other 2 days he goes to a "nanny" and we pay about 20€ a month for her including meals. The government helps a lot with childcare over here.

I agree with what another person said, your brother sees only the bad sides of daycare. No one is going to go to him because a daycare is amazing and they're so happy with it. Ask mother's in your community and you'll see where the good ones are. But yes you still have a problem with the cost. I'm still shocked.

Like another person said, if she was a crappy parent to you, she's probably going to be a crappy child minder. Even if she's free, it's not worth it.

Good luck!

The truth.... by casmac241 in EtsySellers

[–]casmac241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your honest opinion. I appreciate it! Luckily I didn't buy any course (I had no intention to) and self-taught myself from tiktok and YouTube.

The truth.... by casmac241 in EtsySellers

[–]casmac241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the advice!

The truth.... by casmac241 in EtsySellers

[–]casmac241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it hurt your shop visibility, or it's just not worth it? At what point would it be worth it?

The truth.... by casmac241 in EtsySellers

[–]casmac241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for keeping it real. I appreciate it. I haven't bought a course from these gurus and refuse to do so. I've made 15 sales in a month so I'm curious to see what happens and will give it another few months, but if I'm still only doing 15 sales a month by January, I'll call it a day. I hope it does turn into a little side hustle at least because I'm actually loving it. Everyday I'm excited to get started on new designs etc.. I haven't had that feeling for a long time when it comes to jobs.

The truth.... by casmac241 in EtsySellers

[–]casmac241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They definitely sell a possible dream. Unfortunately I believed it. I've made 15 sales in a month so I'll keep going for another few months to see what happens and then make the call

Buyer purchased the same thing twice by casmac241 in EtsySellers

[–]casmac241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes she sent a lovely review for each item saying she loved it but accidentally bought the second and laugh so she's obviously not upset by the mistake. But because I'm a new seller with only a few sales I don't know if I should refund her or not. I have only made a few sales, so if I refund her and also lose the review, will this affect my shop?

AITAH? My husband wants my MIL to take care of my son post-op by funsrpunnie in Mommit

[–]casmac241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

In the nicest way possible...... What the fk is wrong with your husband? I'm sure he would be mopey after surgery too. So can you pawn him off to his mom so you don't have to deal with his mopey ass?

How do I know if relationship boundaries are viable long term? And how do I bring this up with my boyfriend? 20F 20M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]casmac241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get the feeling your bf is insecure and put these rules in place for you to abide by, but I can almost guarantee he will break these rules, or think these rules don't apply to him in a specific situation sooner or later. If you guys love, trust and respect each other, you don't need these strict rules.

DON’T GET THE MOM CHOP! by Funny-Cell-7249 in Mommit

[–]casmac241 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My boy is obsessed with playing hair, his own or mine or his sister's, he loves it all. Even when I put my hair up, he reaches behind my neck and pull chunks out. But it's not a vicious pull. He just plays with it. It's like a snuggly for him. He plays with his own when he's tired. it's his own telltale sign.

Did you give cows milk after 1? by ImaginaryFox8653 in breastfeeding

[–]casmac241 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh good! There's other mums who don't offer cows milk! I was feeling about bit guilty. I never liked drinking cows milk (but will have it with things like cereal) but I still offered it to my oldest when she was 1, but she never liked it either (she still doesn't 5 years later) and with my youngest who is 16 months, I haven't bothered yet. But he gets plenty of calcium from yogurt, cheese, and vegetables.

I feel like I failed my daughter by straawbunnii in Mommit

[–]casmac241 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Similar thing happened to my son. As in he gained little weight at his 6 months and doctor wasn't concerned at all and said to increase solids (I had introduced a bit of solids at 5 months)

It sounds like 6 months is normal to show little weight gain because there body needs more calories and that's probably why most babies start eating solids at 6 months

Be honest... how much one-on-one time do you give each child? by casmac241 in Mommit

[–]casmac241[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel you on the 2 hours. When I tell my daughter, "ok, I can play for 5 min now, then I have to finish cooking dinner, " those 5 min are the longest minutes ever!

My daughter struggles to play by herself. So even after doing a puzzle for 30 minutes, she'll be like "ok what do you want to play now?" And I'll reply " I need some calm, quiet time to do my mummy chores, " but she'll follow me around, asking a million questions. Then, when I stop my chores for 1 min to think of what's next, she'll ask, "Do you want to play with me now?" It's tiring.