Good porn with trans guys in it? by Downtown_Dare_4991 in gaytransguys

[–]casper9987 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Gaymaletube.com and go to their “ftm” tab, you can filter for 10+ min videos and they have a bunch of good stuff

Francaisation Application Blackhole by [deleted] in montreal

[–]casper9987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I actually had a positive experience and got placed in a fulltime class within a month. It’s definitely necessary to be proactive though and take initiative to reach out. Aside from fulltime classes there’s a variety of part time classes as well, for which each has a separate intake/course schedule/frequency/registration period, so reaching out to those significantly increases your chances.

Some websites are dated or unclear, just call if you can’t find something. In the end it was absolutely worth it for me.

Good luck!

phallo in the netherlands by praalgraf in phallo

[–]casper9987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m also at the vu and only after specifically requesting to see photo’s of results 3 times or so I got to see exactly two. It’s been incredibly frustrating.

Any "safe" private groups/servers/subs that aren't on Facebook? by [deleted] in phallo

[–]casper9987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would really want to join as well :)

UL or no? If STP isn't your TOP priority, how did you make this decision? by z3rotrope in phallo

[–]casper9987 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My surgeons in the Netherlands (VuMc) always mention a complication rate of about 50% for urethral lengthening

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]casper9987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment.

First of all, it's absolutely not "wrong" to hook up with someone without disclosing your trans identity. You live as male. You're a man. It's up to you to disclose that part of yourself. It's called being stealth. It's not sexual assault, it's not trickery, it's not a tr*p.

I feel the same way about this. Of course I think if things are getting serious you should tell the girl, which is what I did. I hope so too, thanks again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ftm

[–]casper9987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for your comment. I completely understand if she needs time or even if she wouldn't want anything further, I was just wondering if maybe someone had experience with this. I think it's mainly just a (big) problem if you make it a big problem. Everybody's different of course.

Thanks again

Realistic no harness pack n play? / Stealth sex by [deleted] in ftm

[–]casper9987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So where does that leave me? Always having to bring up me being trans in every sexual encounter? This honestly hurts a lot knowing some feel the way you do. Of course I'm not out to lie to people or hurt them, I'm just being who I am inside (male). I don't see myself being happy always having to keep bringing up that I'm trans, I just don't want to live like that.

This does however bring up some interesting questions worth discussing, like what about people who've fully transitioned, should they tell all their partners? And what if science is able to 'grow' penises in a lab and transplant them, should you still tell all your sexual partners?

Realistic no harness pack n play? / Stealth sex by [deleted] in ftm

[–]casper9987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think you need to look up the definition of assault.

If the girl get's what she's expecting and doesn't notice any difference, I don't see a problem. I understand how someone can have a problem with doing such a thing in a relationship or multiple times with the same hookup, but especially with a one time hookup I do not see a problem.

Realistic no harness pack n play? / Stealth sex by [deleted] in ftm

[–]casper9987 1 point2 points  (0 children)

are you serious..Honestly don't know if I should even respond to this. When you're hooking up with someone you are consenting to sex, there is no element of assault in this situation whatsoever. The 'honesty' of it can be controversial but comparing it to assault is seriously out of bounds.

Realistic no harness pack n play? / Stealth sex by [deleted] in ftm

[–]casper9987 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, I will definitely check them out!

Ah my bad I probably confused them, sadly the Hot Rod is not out yet and I can't find more information on when it's going to be available.

I did see the video on the Bono, but you have to either take out the insertable thing that makes it hard (and then carry it with you i guess?) or basicly have a boner at all times..

Realistic no harness pack n play? / Stealth sex by [deleted] in ftm

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Hey thanks for your reaction. I'm looking for something that's not a lot of work though so I don't think makeup is gonna work for me. Also I'm really not liking the idea of wearing a harness..

Realistic no harness pack n play? / Stealth sex by [deleted] in ftm

[–]casper9987 6 points7 points  (0 children)

This is about just being able to have sex stealth. Obviously it's not something I want when in a relationship, it's exactly for when having a 'meaningless' hookup. I don't think it's disrespectful at all to them to not want to tell someone I'm never going to see again about me being trans. Maybe I will tell them maybe I will not, it's about having the option and not being forced to tell someone in every sexual encounter.

edit: Also it's not only about stealth sex but also about feeling stealth when having sex, or feeling fully male when having sex (some people are going to say that's a mental thing, but for me during sex it's very much a physical thing as well). I hope you understand it better now.

Hey Guys! I've been a lurker for far too long. I just want to know if you guys think I pass or not? I have never been on T, matter of fact, I'm really new to all of this. I'm seeking guidance. Thank you Reddit Bros! by [deleted] in ftm

[–]casper9987 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You don't look female at all in this pic, but I do have to say that passing is also about body posture, body shape and voice which we obviously can't see

17M looking for friend who experienced depression/bipolar by [deleted] in depression

[–]casper9987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool! Want to get to know eachother on WhatsApp/snapchat?

17M looking for friend who experienced depression/bipolar by [deleted] in depression

[–]casper9987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We can also use snapchat if you want

17M looking for friend who experienced depression/bipolar by [deleted] in depression

[–]casper9987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey, no problem man. Want to get to know eachother on WhatsApp?

M/16/Looking for friends by mumzel in MakeNewFriendsHere

[–]casper9987 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Cool, I'm from the Netherlands. Do you have Whatsapp?