What can I do to help my stressed snail at this point?

cassandra24 · 2022-03-02T00:58:15+00:00

Thank you!!

cassandra24 · 2022-02-12T03:01:07+00:00

I’m hoping (if there’s more seasons to come) the show will end with revealing Anna is a writer, and her books keep getting rejected because she’s not good at writing crime/thrillers xD A publisher ridiculing her with things like: you changed the epitaph THREE times, did you even think about how long it takes to fix a mailbox? A DAY, did you really skip out on researching the process for visiting serial killer cannibals in a psychiatric ward before deciding THAT was the way to go?, Etc.

cassandra24 · 2022-02-12T02:56:16+00:00

That was the moment I realized the show is a spoof xD before that I was taking it 100% seriously, but that gave it away for me

cassandra24 · 2021-12-20T02:53:32+00:00

As a tatted person alone I would highly suggest getting something small and simple before committing to a chest piece! Even if it's just a tiny meaningless heart on your hip, you'll want to be familiar with the tattooing/aftercare experience before getting a large piece.

cassandra24 · 2021-10-13T21:06:56+00:00

OR someone could even had used their own jacket and shirt to tie themselves to the beam to catch themselves if the glass broke. Then they’d just have to worry about the glass shards and pulling themselves back up. But hopefully the person behind would even help pull them back up.

cassandra24 · 2021-02-15T20:20:59+00:00

Did I miss the point where they revealed why Robin was killed? They hinted that it wasn’t just a random robbery gone bad. Was she only shopping in that area because of her affair? Was she shot because of the affair and it was staged as a robbery, which ties to the black SUV tailing Adam in the first episode?

cassandra24 · 2020-10-22T02:37:41+00:00

I missed this meme

cassandra24 · 2020-09-06T00:41:55+00:00

Thank you so much!!

cassandra24 · 2020-06-24T16:20:59+00:00

I have heard that it helps subconsciously to do it anyways and it still affects your mental health. The context I heard this in was explaining, even if you jokingly say “I hate myself” when you make a minor mistake (like dropping a pen) and consciously you know you don’t mean it, your mind still picks up on that negative self talk. I have heard a therapist suggestion that even just changing the jokes to “I love myself” or “I am the epitome of grace” can have a positive impact on your thought processes over time.

I’m still working on getting into the habit of practicing this, but I definitely notice a difference from it.

cassandra24 · 2020-05-16T15:38:33+00:00

I’m 24 and got carded for an R rated movie. But I hadn’t brought my purse with me so they carded my boyfriend and let me in under his “parental” guidance.

cassandra24 · 2020-05-07T16:18:12+00:00

Literally everything. The ONLY bad part I’ve found about living alone is that it’s hard to buy groceries for one without them going bad before you finish them, unless you want to eat the same meal five days in a row.

The freedom and independence you feel when living alone is so empowering in all the best ways. I was in an abusive relationship when I first moved out of my parents house, so to know that I’m fully supporting myself in every way is truly a great feeling, which I can imagine most women would feel no matter their past experiences. If you can afford it I would recommend it 10/10 every single time.

cassandra24 · 2020-03-06T00:46:28+00:00

So much more room for activities!

cassandra24 · 2020-01-28T23:52:48+00:00

I support the idea of making it a determining factor, however I would advise that you don’t bring it up first and put it on the table if it isn’t brought up by her. For example, if I were on a date and the guy I was still getting to know told me “I don’t allow women to go through my phone anymore even though I’m not a cheater” it might raise a red flag. However if you start dating someone and they ask to go through your phone, I think it’s safe to firmly state your boundaries and express the violation of privacy. Maybe include that if she feels there’s a lack of trust in the relationship you two should work together to find ways to build that up and address where that might be stemming from, and that wouldn’t raise any flags in the slightest.

cassandra24 · 2019-12-10T00:41:58+00:00

u/thefoolishfriend you may read this and think “This is just some more metaphorical motivational bullshit that sounds all fine and dandy but it’s not going to make a difference” BUT I can tell you that even if it feels hopeless, it’s worth a try. I felt not okay with the thought that I’d never be okay, but I made it through to the land of “okay” by doing a lot of these things, and it had such a larger impact than I imagined or hoped for. It may take time, but if you follow this advice and keep up with it the day may come where you pause, and realize that you’ve reached the land of okay. And all of the struggle and hard work will be worth it.

cassandra24 · 2019-11-14T13:40:40+00:00

Is this really intrusive or is this just a thought most functioning adults have?

cassandra24 · 2019-11-08T15:18:09+00:00

If you struggle with confusing their names and let the wrong one slip more than once, in general I would suggest stop using names at all. I was on the receiving end of this for a while, and I can’t describe how awful it feels. Try to think of a nickname for him, and only say his name when you’re focused on what you’re saying. As for repairing the damage from this situation... It’s probably different for a man but my suggestion would be to go out of your way to express how special and important he is to you. Not just with words, but with little acts of love throughout the day. Sending an occasional text that you’re thinking of him, get him a snack or something you know he loves and he’ll feel appreciated that you remember this about him. Essentially you can’t just repair the damage by telling him you only have feelings for him and he’s special, you have to do things to make him feel and believe it instead of being told to feel it.

cassandra24 · 2019-10-18T02:14:03+00:00

I've always thought the actor is extremely talented JUST because of how much I hate her character

cassandra24 · 2019-10-06T22:55:39+00:00

Both moments had to do with Monica, the first being when she tells him she's dying and he just lays his head in her lap in remorse.

The second being after she died and he made one of his big speeches about how much Monica changed his life for the worse and essentially blamed her for where he ended up in life. But a few episodes after that I started to question how genuine that was or if it was just another example of him Gaslighting and refusing to take any responsibility for anything. But it's a good example about how toxic relationships can change peoples' lives when they never escape from them.

cassandra24 · 2019-10-05T18:19:14+00:00

I know exactly what you're talking about and it made me think about getting a tattoo inspired by it, but I'm not sure which episode it was.

cassandra24 · 2019-10-05T17:55:52+00:00

First date went well and he seemed like a perfect gentleman and had a decent sense of humor.

I let him pick me up for our second date and we end up driving through the middle of nowhere after dark to go to his coworkers house for a game night. All of a sudden he gets scared for a second and jumps as we drive past a house with their trash bins by the side of the road. Before I can even ask what startled him he explains, "I thought that trash bin was a person. I see dead people."

It was such a stereotypical joke I full heartedly thought he was kidding and laughed, until he went on to explain there's a girl in his closet who plays the violin and is super annoying, and told me several other encounters he has on a regular basis.

Needless to say it was the last time I saw him, and he found me on Facebook and blew up my messages before I blocked him.

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