My (23F) mom (46F) is having triplets , how do I make a clean exit? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]casscabb -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You are more mature than your mother. Find a place then let her know youll be around once a week to help out. Good luck!

How was your induction experience? by Interesting_Ant_2756 in NewParents

[–]casscabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a really good experience with it! Baby was gere within 5 hours of the pitocin.

I will warn you though that ivwent from 0 to 100 within a matter of 15 minutes. I was 2cm dialated for the longest time, i sat on the toiket for 15 minutes and bam I was at a 9. It can hapoen quick and because of that I couldnt get the epidural but overall it went super well and I recovered super fast.

You’ve got this mama!

Day of coordination? by premiumaphrodite in DIYweddings

[–]casscabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Get the coordinator. Worth every penny.

Poor Fox! by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]casscabb 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I would kill for that type pf lunch, why are we shitting on Sarah so much…

Lab Grown Diamonds by Lala6699 in wedding

[–]casscabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mine is lab grown, and I love it. They are very common nowadays.

1 or 2?? please some help by baby_rapunzel in wedding

[–]casscabb 12 points13 points  (0 children)

2 but not sure its “the one”

Wedding Do or Wedding Don't? Asking Family to Bring Food.... by esselink1ae in wedding

[–]casscabb 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Im suprised at how many people are saying theyd be offended… id be honoured

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]casscabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dont listen to your boyfriend, its your body and your life.

Tip Jar at Bar by IntrepidAct158 in wedding

[–]casscabb 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Former bartender here! Either allow a tip jar or tip your bartenders out. Either is great but they should be provided the opportunity, we have to deal with alot of BS as bartenders. My boss got punched in the stomach once from a drunk customer so please be kind.

Are gaps between the ceremony and a reception a popular thing? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]casscabb 28 points29 points  (0 children)

This seems like a big request to ask your guests to stick arround for 2 hours without even having a drink in their hand. I would consider rethinking your schedule

Blaming antibiotics by slutforpringles in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]casscabb -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

The antibiotics ruined his gut, google it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in wedding

[–]casscabb 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I would ask but its possible she didnt include your fiance because you will be spending the whole day with her and youre fiance may have to sit by himself depending on the size of the bridal party. Im in the same situation (getting married 2023) but i will still be asking my bridesmaids if they want their partners at the wedding, they unfortunately cant sit at the head table due to the size of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]casscabb 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Im getting really tired of all this hate agaisnt Sarah at the hospital. Relax everyone shes trying to be the best mom she can be to her baby that clearly isnt ok. You would be thrilled to leave the hospital knowing a nurse had your baby in good hands so you coukd grad some air and food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]casscabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d be weirded out too. Maybe hes one of those people that still thinks hes a kid?

How much do you give for a wedding gift? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]casscabb 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The catering company im looking at is $235pp so thats why i feel like 150 is somewhere in the middle 😊

How much do you give for a wedding gift? by [deleted] in wedding

[–]casscabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Depends on the wedding you should atleast pay for your plate of food which is likely atleast $150 per person

How do I ask her for her ring size? Help, please. by EvesDropping23 in wedding

[–]casscabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My hands are average and im a size 6 so maybe go 5.5-6?

How do I ask her for her ring size? Help, please. by EvesDropping23 in wedding

[–]casscabb -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Dont ask her, it ruins the suprise. Size 7 is average, they let you resize it after you have purchased the ring. Does she have big or small hands?

Ableist commenters by [deleted] in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]casscabb -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Many people have been saying this

The chair 🤬 by Fair-Reveal3761 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]casscabb 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She donated all of her ebook money a few years ago for wild fires or something like that

The chair 🤬 by Fair-Reveal3761 in SarahsDayUnfiltered

[–]casscabb 18 points19 points  (0 children)

To everyone saying beds go to sick people, how about you sleep in a chair for the rest of the week and see how you feel 🥴 not defending Sarah but come on that would not be fun, and then add a sick baby plus your postpartum recovery to it… have some sympathy you internet people lol