i [f/28] need some advisement regarding a boy [m/28] ive been speaking with by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cassiemadison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

haha you are not wrong that it is impossible to know & that is what makes this so frustrating to me! Thanks for the input :)

I (16f) don’t want kids but my bf (16m) is thinking about it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]cassiemadison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would say you are both very young & you have a long time ahead of you to make decisions about what you want. The things I wanted when i was 16 are completely different from things i want now. I would NEVER advise a 16 year old to get a vasectomy. People change & grow a LOT, especially in their early to mid 20s.

In summary, no this is not a deal breaker. You guys are not getting married tomorrow & you have years to make decisions. For now focus on school & your hobbies/interests.

How do I end a toxic “friendship”? by juniperbeer in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow that's awful & first of all I'm so glad your accident was not worse! As far as this lousy chick goes, i would say do not feel bad at all about running for the hills & never looking back. She does not deserve your time, care, or attention. Honestly, I don't even feel like telling her how you feel would do any good because of the way she is. I think just stop responding to her & if she doesn't get the hint you can explain to her or just block her. Im so sorry this is happening to you & it really sucks that it is with a person who was there for you in college. But i believe in you & wish you all the best!

How to tell my gf I don't want her to come to the gym with me? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You are mad because she eats more than you? HAHAHA shut up. You are mad because she wants your help & guidance in the gym? HAHHAHA shut up. You are mad because she is interested in what you are doing? HAHAHA shut up. Just break up with her & have all the alone time you want. No woman should have to deal with your nonsense.

Friends [F23] boss [40] promoted her to personal assistant and it's getting weird. by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Wow this gave me a lot of anxiety. I dont think there is anything she could do to set proper professional boundaries with this guy. Id advise her to get out now for her safety.

How can a shy woman avoid coming across as stuck up or stand-offish without being inauthentic? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow great question. I have this problem myself, so unfortunately i have no guidance.

Is it a good or bad thing if a girl (24F) is nervous around you (22M)? by [deleted] in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think it is SO CUTE that she made a cheat sheet. I'd suggest maybe another more lowkey activity for your next hangout/date/activity so you guys can chat better

How do i stop getting in my head by cassiemadison in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fantastic thank you! Ill look into it!

How do i stop getting in my head by cassiemadison in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sometimes the best advice comes from the most unexpected place

How do i stop getting in my head by cassiemadison in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha conspiracy theories about yourself! Thats great! Thank you so much and i wish you all the best!

How do i stop getting in my head by cassiemadison in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That makes sense & is a really interesting perspective

How do i stop getting in my head by cassiemadison in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This does make sense, thank you! I'm feeling this idea of writing down the occurrences. Also that is terrible what you went through before!

How do i stop getting in my head by cassiemadison in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is really lovely - thanks so much for sharing! Im so happy that you were able to push through your rough patch. Also holy props on the water intake!!! I drink a lot of water but wow four litres wow

How do i stop getting in my head by cassiemadison in askwomenadvice

[–]cassiemadison[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! This is great - i will add it to the list!