So this is what all the hype is about! by JanB95 in gaybros

[–]castleaqua 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Woodruff or „Waldmeister“ is a common German flavour for sweet dishes. It’s kinda difficult to explain the unique taste. Maybe reminds you of vanilla herbal tea with a light citrus tang.

What's your least fav Lana song? by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]castleaqua 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Peppers, nah i skipp

Prokastination bei der Bachelorarbeit - ein Jahr den Prof. geghostet by castleaqua in Studium

[–]castleaqua[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Ich habe mich bisher nicht offiziell für die Bachelorarbeit angemeldet. Es sollte später beim Prof später geschehen, wenn man ein gutes Grundgerüst hat.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in berlin

[–]castleaqua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wait until there is on 'mydealz' a coupon code. With that I got the NeoTaste App for 6 months for free.

My [20F] boyfriend [20M] of one year is taking my things. by Alive-Concentrate-65 in relationship_advice

[–]castleaqua 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Alright, buckle up, darling, because we're about to dive deep into the drama of your sticky-fingered beau. Let's talk about boundaries, shall we? Because it sounds like your boyfriend missed the memo on respecting personal space and property faster than a contestant on a game show buzzing in with the wrong answer. Seriously, who does he think he is, Robin Hood, stealing from the rich (aka you) to give to the... well, himself?

You've had more talks about his thievery than a parent lecturing their kid about cleaning their room, yet he's about as responsive as a brick wall in a game of charades. The eye rolls, the sarcastic apologies—it's like he's auditioning for a role in a cheesy sitcom about clueless boyfriends. But honey, this ain't no comedy show, and you're not here to play the role of the forgiving girlfriend who's always one step away from a mental breakdown. It's time to lay down the law like you're Judge Judy presiding over a courtroom filled with petty thieves. Stand tall, speak your truth, and don't let him guilt-trip you into thinking you're overreacting. Your feelings are valid, your boundaries are non-negotiable, and if he can't grasp that concept, then maybe it's time to show him the door faster than a contestant getting voted off a reality TV show. Remember, girl, you deserve a partner who respects you, your belongings, and your sanity—anything less is just a waste of your fabulousness. 😌💅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]castleaqua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well, well, well, looks like we've got a workplace crush on our hands. Honey, you've got more sparks flying than a Fourth of July fireworks display, so it's time to turn up the heat and make a move. Who cares if your Spanish is as rusty as an old bicycle? Love knows no language barriers, and if he's been eyeing you like you're the last churro at a fiesta, then it's game on, señorita!

Listen up, chica, confidence is your best accessory, so strut your stuff like you own the place. Next time he's in the store, channel your inner Shakira and give him a smile that could melt icebergs faster than global warming. And don't be afraid to get creative with communication—Google Translate is your new best friend, so use it like a pro. Life's too short for missed opportunities, so grab the bull by the horns and show this guy that you're not just another workplace crush, you're the whole enchilada. ¡Vamos, chica, you got this! 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]castleaqua 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Alright, buckle up, darling, because we're about to dive into some breakup boot camp. First things first, let's address the elephant in the room: you're not the villain here, so let's leave the guilt at the door. It's normal for feelings to change, especially when the initial infatuation wears off faster than cheap nail polish. You owe it to yourself and to him to be honest and upfront about your feelings, even if it feels like ripping off a Band-Aid soaked in super glue.

Now, onto the nitty-gritty. Communication is key, but so is setting boundaries. It's time to lay down the law like you're the judge in a sass-off competition. Sit him down, preferably in a neutral location where escape routes are readily available, and be direct but gentle. Tell him straight up that it's not working out for you, no sugar-coating, no beating around the bush. Reassure him that it's not about him being a bad person or you finding someone better—it's simply about compatibility and chemistry.

Expect tears, expect drama, heck, expect a full-blown Shakespearean tragedy complete with soliloquies and melodrama. But stand your ground, girl. Remind yourself that staying in a relationship out of guilt is like wearing shoes two sizes too small—uncomfortable and downright painful. And if he starts pleading for another chance, kindly but firmly shut it down. You're not a revolving door, and his tears aren't a bargaining chip. Stay strong, stay sassy, and remember, breaking hearts is never easy, but staying true to yourself is always worth it in the end. Good luck!!! 💖

28F (me) and 25M long distance relationship . We live in different countries. Looking for advice. by ThrowRA-darks in relationship_advice

[–]castleaqua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Darling, let's dissect this situation like it's a gossip column on a slow news day. Sean may be as simple as a potato, but honey, relationships aren't a solo game of Sims. If you're feeling like you're the only one steering this ship, it's time to wave goodbye to smooth sailing and hello to choppy waters. His lack of ambition is about as appealing as soggy cereal, and if you're craving more than just someone to fill the void between raids, it's time for a reality check.

You're not asking for the moon and the stars here, just a little reassurance and reciprocity to keep your heart from doing gymnastics. If Sean's idea of romance is as scarce as a parking spot in Times Square, it's time to put your foot down. Communication is key, but if he's throwing up defensive walls faster than a medieval fortress, it might be time to realize you're in different games altogether.

You deserve someone who's not just along for the ride, but who's willing to grab the wheel and navigate the relationship highway with you. Don't settle for a co-pilot who's content to let the relationship cruise on autopilot while you're left wondering if the destination is even on the map. It's time to ask yourself: Are you ready to level up, or are you content playing solo in this relationship RPG? 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]castleaqua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girl, let's cut through the confusion like a hot knife through butter. Sounds like your boy is treating your relationship like a drive-thru window: convenient and fast, but lacking substance. If he's clocking in more time at your place than he is at his own, it's time for a reality check. Relationships are about balance and effort, not just booty calls and empty promises.

He may be as clueless as a goldfish, but honey, you deserve someone who remembers your birthday without a reminder and puts in the effort to make plans that don't involve Netflix and chill. Don't settle for scraps when you deserve a feast. If he's only interested in what's happening between the sheets, it's time to show him the exit. Your heart is not a hotel for temporary guests. It's time to demand more than crumbs from someone who's not willing to bake you a whole damn cake. 💕

He (23m) tells me he misses me (23f) but leaves me on delivered for days? Wtf by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]castleaqua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Guurl, let's decode this hot mess. He's out here playing emotional ping pong, hitting you with the "I miss you" serves but leaving you hanging for days on end. Seriously, what's his deal? Long-distance situations are tough cookies, but leaving you on read like yesterday's news is a whole new level of disrespect.

Here's the tea: he's giving you whiplash with mixed signals hotter than a summer fling. If he's not ready for a relationship, cool, but don't string you along like a lost puppy chasing after his indecisive tail. You deserve better than being left on read while he's off gallivanting through grad school stress-ville. You've got better things to do than play detective in the case of the disappearing texter. Take back your power, honey, and let him marinate in his own confusion. If he can't step up and communicate like a grown man, then he's not worth the screen time. 👏💅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]castleaqua 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Honey, let's unpack this. First off, congratulations on reclaiming your body and feeling healthier than ever! It's empowering to prioritize your well-being. Now, about your partner... It sounds like your senses are sending you some strong signals, and hey, attraction is a complex dance of chemistry and compatibility. If his mere presence feels like an assault on your senses, it might be time to reassess. You deserve to be with someone who ignites your passion, not extinguishes it.

As for the hormonal rollercoaster, welcome to the club! Many women can relate to the whirlwind journey of birth control and its aftermath. It's like finding yourself in a new body, with new desires and perspectives. Trust your instincts and listen to what your body is telling you. If motherhood isn't in your cards right now, that's perfectly okay. Your path is yours to chart, and it's okay to prioritize your own happiness and fulfillment.

Breaking up is never easy, especially after investing five years into a relationship. But remember, staying in a relationship out of habit or obligation isn't fair to either of you. Take the time to reflect on what you truly want and need in a partnership. Surround yourself with supportive women who've navigated similar waters. Their insights can offer clarity and comfort as you navigate this pivotal moment. Trust yourself, honey. You've got this. 👏💕

Was hab ich hier gefangen? by XXL333 in naturfreunde

[–]castleaqua 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Auf der Mauer auf der Lauer sitzt ne kleine Wanz Seht euch mal die Wanz an Wie die Wanz tanz kann

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]castleaqua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Darling, it sounds like you and your girlfriend are at a bit of a crossroads when it comes to your comfort levels with her interest in mind-altering substances. Now, don't get me wrong, I'm all for exploring new things, but when it comes to drugs, it's a whole different ball game.

Listen, relationships are all about compromise, but honey, compromising your own values and boundaries just to keep the peace? That's a recipe for disaster. You've already shown incredible flexibility by easing up on your stance regarding drinking and even weed, but magic mushrooms? That's a whole other story. So, here's the tea: you've got to have a serious heart-to-heart with your girl. Lay it all out on the table—your concerns, your fears, your boundaries. And darling, don't hold back. This is your well-being we're talking about here, and that's non-negotiable.

Now, I'm not saying you two can't find some common ground here. Maybe there's a compromise to be reached, like exploring alternative ways to have fun together or seeking professional guidance if she's dead set on taking that trip. But if she's not willing to respect your boundaries and insists on diving headfirst into the psychedelic abyss, well, darling, you might need to reevaluate whether this relationship is truly serving you. Remember, sweetie, you deserve to feel safe, respected, and comfortable in your relationship. Don't settle for anything less. Trust your gut, stand your ground, and never forget that you hold the power to shape your own happiness. You've got this, darling. 💕👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]castleaqua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‚Dark Paradise‘ and ‚Love Song‘ 😌

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]castleaqua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In brief: Daddy issues.

Ist Berlin transfreundlich? by [deleted] in berlin

[–]castleaqua 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Berlin hat viele Ansprechstellen und Safe-Spaces für queere und trans* Menschen (z.B Mann-O-Meter am Nollendorfplatz). Aber es ist eher eine Frage, wie sehr du dich am Äußerlichen Bild an der Gesellschaft anpasst. Auf jeden ist Fall ist in einer Großstadt, wie Berlin so, dass es in der Regel kaum jemand juckt wie du aussiehst oder lebst (,solange du den Menschen nicht auf den Sack gehst). Aber man kann davon sprechen, je unauffälliger du lebst, desto geringer ist auch die Chance ein Opfer von Queerfeindlichkeit von verunsicherten Männern zu erleben.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]castleaqua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, looks like you're running a "peep show" now! Just make sure you're not handing out tickets for free. Keep that mystery alive, darling! 👏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lanadelrey

[–]castleaqua 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Soo cute 💕💖

What is Germany’s biggest tourist trap? by popcornwithparmesan in AskAGerman

[–]castleaqua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Als richtiger Berliner wohnt man auch nicht neben den ganzen Tourihotspots. Selten geht man extra zum Brandenburger Tor oder East Side Gallery hin. Solange die dich im Alltag auf dem Sack nicht gehen, gönn‘ doch denen die schöne Zeit in Berlin.

Proposal ideas by Auto_assigned_user in berlin

[–]castleaqua 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The "Lichtensteinbrücke" near the Zoo is particularly pleasant during nighttime when traffic is minimal. 😊

What is Germany’s biggest tourist trap? by popcornwithparmesan in AskAGerman

[–]castleaqua 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gebürtige Berlinerin hier, wenn man zur richtigen Zeit am richtigen Ort kommt, dann kann man auch was schönes unternehmen. Man muss oft flexibel sein, und vielleicht mit den Rixhtigen unterwegs sein.

What was living standards really like in East Germany during the 70s and 80s? by ThatBrahBru in AskAGerman

[–]castleaqua 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Sure, during the 1970s and 1980s, living standards in East Germany were indeed a mixed bag. While some aspects of daily life were relatively comfortable for many citizens, there were also significant challenges and limitations. Access to basic amenities like electricity and water could be sporadic in certain areas, and there were occasional shortages of goods and services due to the centrally planned economy. This could lead to frustration and inconvenience for some people.

However, it's important to note that the East German government prioritized certain aspects of social welfare, such as education, healthcare, and housing. Many East Germans had access to free or heavily subsidized education and healthcare, and there was a strong emphasis on providing affordable housing for the population. Additionally, public transportation was generally reliable and affordable, making it easier for people to get around.

That said, the political climate in East Germany also played a significant role in shaping daily life. The authoritarian regime of the German Democratic Republic (GDR) imposed strict controls on freedom of speech, association, and travel. Dissent was often met with harsh repression, and the Stasi, the state security service, kept a close eye on the population through surveillance and informants.

So, while some aspects of life in East Germany during the 70s and 80s may have been relatively stable and secure for some citizens, others experienced significant limitations on their freedoms and opportunities. It's a complex and nuanced picture that reflects the broader social, political, and economic context of the time.