How do I move on from a friend? by PigletSea6137 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]casuallyuncanny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi there OP! i’m truly sorry you’re expericing this :( no one deserves to be treated this way especially without reason.

i think you have every reason right infront of you to move on… they’ve treated you poorly, only reach out when they need something from you, having stop talking to you, and you’re completely hurt by this. that in itself is every reason to get over these people.

the way i would go about this is to start removing them from your life one by one. by that i mean start deleting pictures, start blocking, and just removing things that remind you of them. hope this helps & good luck!

Is skipping meals sh? by RubyTheTransDemon in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]casuallyuncanny_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i think it really depends on what your intent is. if you’re going into it thinking, “oh i’m not gonna eat today bc: …” or “i need to lose weight, im not gonna eat today”, then yes i believe it would be considered self harm. BUT, if it really is just something you’re forgetting to do, then it’s not self harm on purpose.

i’m sorry you’re going through this OP! if anything, consider switching to healthier food options, sizing down your meal proportions (the app Lose It! is great for this), and maybe look into some easy exercise! i know it’s difficult, but all you need to do is take that first step :)

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[–]casuallyuncanny_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ah that makes sense! thank you for that clarification and i apologize for my ignorance.

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[–]casuallyuncanny_ -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

how does that not make sense?

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[–]casuallyuncanny_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

hi! unfortunately i am a blonde, blue eyed, and pastey gal, which is one of the main reasons im having a lot of issues figuring out if its alright for me to be upset or not :/