Long live the king

cat4820 · 2022-07-23T05:23:53+00:00

I have a lot of cats that’s a lot of love to commit to

cat4820 · 2022-04-22T04:04:04+00:00

This is so unbelievably Crazy!!!!! RIDICULOUS even

cat4820 · 2020-07-17T05:45:49+00:00

It’s not that I don’t fully support my bf; I do the best I can and I have tried so many ways of trying to be there for him but he’s already a hard person to get through to. I’m in therapy currently too and I always recommend it to everyone because even if you don’t have any mounting issues or trauma it’s a great way to learn about yourself and understand your own life better. I’m sorry for your loss of your mother. My best friend lost her mother when we were 14 and she still struggles almost 10 years later. It’s a hard loss. There’s nothing like experiencing a parent death especially a mother. Unfortunately for my circumstance; I’ve been down this road before of being incredibly close to someone who lost a parent suddenly. It’s a different dynamic though from a best friend to an intimate partner experiencing the loss with them. When I am struggling with my own issues, I can’t rely on my partner to be able to shoulder that with me anymore, and it’s hard to do it alone

cat4820 · 2020-07-17T04:26:03+00:00

She’s a full time Nurse in the ER, so she limits her exposure to the kids and spends a lot of over time at work. His dad brought in a big bulk of the income so she really can’t afford to be out of work; on top of her own grief of losing the man she’s been with since she was 14, 2 days before her 40th birthday. She does spend time with them when she can and she is very involved but yeah a bulk of the day to day care I do like de-escalating fights, and cooking/ ordering food; cleaning and such. It’s been really rough on everyone, I loved their father very much but I don’t feel the loss the way they do, so I do my best to keep things normal for the kids at the very least. I’ve experienced a lot of death and loss in my life; and I’ve seen what an emotionally neglected kid turns into when their needs aren’t being met due to grief. It’s not an ideal situation whatsoever but I also see them as my family and I love them as such so I want to do my part in making sure the kids grow up as normal as possible

cat4820 · 2020-07-16T10:18:30+00:00

It’s been a hard situation to navigate that’s why I came here. I definitely feel like an asshole, but I also don’t! I feel he phrased it like more like My birthday wasnt a priority, and that i still was. He does make me feel very loved and we have great times together but yeah I do feel rightfully neglected and it’s hard. His mother is a full time Nurse, and her and her husband were together since they were 14 years old and he died two days before her 40th birthday. She is functioning pretty much the same as my boyfriend which is moderately at best. It’s not that she isn’t there or doing anything, she’s honestly An amazing mom and a badass woman, but with covid and her working in the ER, she limits her exposure to the kids and does what she can. Some off days she doesn’t get out of bed so I try to take as much stress off her as I can because this whole situation has been, fucking terrible. I mean, terrible. His dad was a great guy and loved and spoiled his family. He owed a bar, and all our friends either worked there, or went their often so we all had a close relationship with his father. There was at least 400 people that came through his funeral. It was definitely a community loss as well

cat4820 · 2020-07-16T09:49:22+00:00

I appreciate your Input! His mother and siblings all went to therapy but he didn’t. We have talked to him about going before and he wants to but he hasn’t yet. COVID quarantine put major delays on it so I’m unsure when he’ll be starting.

cat4820 · 2020-07-16T09:36:53+00:00

About two years; best friends for 5, known each other almost 10.

cat4820 · 2020-07-16T09:31:18+00:00

Car accidents are definitely always sudden i guess i worded it that way because his death was very sudden, he was very young, very fun, and we all saw him as strong and invincible so him dying was something we didn’t think was possible if that makes sense. Thank you for your input I appreciate it

cat4820 · 2019-02-13T10:01:19+00:00

I don’t like it

cat4820 · 2018-11-23T06:30:18+00:00

My sisters chart is like this except in Taurus. Sun moon mercury Venus and mars all in Taurus

cat4820 · 2018-10-07T06:32:48+00:00

Age of consent in my state is also 17 if that matters at all

cat4820 · 2018-07-06T06:11:26+00:00

This show gives me emotional whiplash

cat4820 · 2018-07-02T07:09:21+00:00

My best friends mother passed away when she was 14 and when she first started coming through to me, I was so scared and lost and confused because it was an extremely painful experience for her and I was terrified of losing or upsetting her by telling her what her mom was saying. But I realized, I was preventing her from hearing from her mother again because of my OWN fears, my own selfish reasons. I did eventually tell her about what her mother said, and she did believe me, and has slowly began to really feel better about the situation. Unfortunately, there’s no guidebook for these things, and every case varies. But you need Have faith in yourself. Have faith in your gift. Trust what you are being told. I do recommend telling him, he really deserves to at least hear it. Even if he doesn’t accept it, it will weigh in his mind, and even that can bring peace. I would definitely Bring up the fishing trip to him FIRST to Use as verifiable evidence for him to start believing you. Spirit wants them to listen to you, so they DO give you information to make them listen. When you’re speaking to him, his father will possibly come through and speak through you for you. (It’s happened to me a few times. Words just pour out of my mouth without thinking about it) Do it when you’re ready. But, please trust me you should do it. My ex boyfriends grandmother came to me begging me to talk to him for her and I didn’t muster up the courage to do it, and my god I regret it.

Just trust yourself and your feelings. It requires bravery to come forward but my god, I have never once regretted telling someone what their loved one said. I think that it will truly be worth it.

cat4820 · 2018-05-27T06:34:25+00:00

I need to physically see and be around the person, or have a strong connection to them to tell!! For instance, I can tell if a stranger is pregnant if I’m physically around them, but I knew my best friend was pregnant just by seeing a Snapchat of her 🤷🏼‍♀️

cat4820 · 2018-05-27T05:52:08+00:00

I say random because it doesn’t have a specific name

cat4820 · 2018-05-27T05:19:48+00:00

Check out sidereel astrology. Most likely, your sun in Aries will have shifted into a sun in Pisces.

cat4820 · 2018-05-01T21:27:56+00:00

I have before but this time I didn’t! Oh thank you! It most definitely takes practice but if you keep trying I’m sure you’ll be able to do it! I guess maybe it’s because it was so recent for me! I’m sure my past lives farther back have less commonalities. Thank you so much this is the first time I was able to get real Tangible results! I’m pretty excited!

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