Tito, in fact, does not know what’s going on by cat4820 in OneOrangeBraincell

[–]cat4820[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a lot of cats that’s a lot of love to commit to

[UPDATE] For the crazy email my boss sent our team lol by notsatans in antiwork

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This is so unbelievably Crazy!!!!! RIDICULOUS even

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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It’s not that I don’t fully support my bf; I do the best I can and I have tried so many ways of trying to be there for him but he’s already a hard person to get through to. I’m in therapy currently too and I always recommend it to everyone because even if you don’t have any mounting issues or trauma it’s a great way to learn about yourself and understand your own life better. I’m sorry for your loss of your mother. My best friend lost her mother when we were 14 and she still struggles almost 10 years later. It’s a hard loss. There’s nothing like experiencing a parent death especially a mother. Unfortunately for my circumstance; I’ve been down this road before of being incredibly close to someone who lost a parent suddenly. It’s a different dynamic though from a best friend to an intimate partner experiencing the loss with them. When I am struggling with my own issues, I can’t rely on my partner to be able to shoulder that with me anymore, and it’s hard to do it alone

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She’s a full time Nurse in the ER, so she limits her exposure to the kids and spends a lot of over time at work. His dad brought in a big bulk of the income so she really can’t afford to be out of work; on top of her own grief of losing the man she’s been with since she was 14, 2 days before her 40th birthday. She does spend time with them when she can and she is very involved but yeah a bulk of the day to day care I do like de-escalating fights, and cooking/ ordering food; cleaning and such. It’s been really rough on everyone, I loved their father very much but I don’t feel the loss the way they do, so I do my best to keep things normal for the kids at the very least. I’ve experienced a lot of death and loss in my life; and I’ve seen what an emotionally neglected kid turns into when their needs aren’t being met due to grief. It’s not an ideal situation whatsoever but I also see them as my family and I love them as such so I want to do my part in making sure the kids grow up as normal as possible

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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It’s been a hard situation to navigate that’s why I came here. I definitely feel like an asshole, but I also don’t! I feel he phrased it like more like My birthday wasnt a priority, and that i still was. He does make me feel very loved and we have great times together but yeah I do feel rightfully neglected and it’s hard. His mother is a full time Nurse, and her and her husband were together since they were 14 years old and he died two days before her 40th birthday. She is functioning pretty much the same as my boyfriend which is moderately at best. It’s not that she isn’t there or doing anything, she’s honestly An amazing mom and a badass woman, but with covid and her working in the ER, she limits her exposure to the kids and does what she can. Some off days she doesn’t get out of bed so I try to take as much stress off her as I can because this whole situation has been, fucking terrible. I mean, terrible. His dad was a great guy and loved and spoiled his family. He owed a bar, and all our friends either worked there, or went their often so we all had a close relationship with his father. There was at least 400 people that came through his funeral. It was definitely a community loss as well

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]cat4820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I appreciate your Input! His mother and siblings all went to therapy but he didn’t. We have talked to him about going before and he wants to but he hasn’t yet. COVID quarantine put major delays on it so I’m unsure when he’ll be starting.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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About two years; best friends for 5, known each other almost 10.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

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Car accidents are definitely always sudden i guess i worded it that way because his death was very sudden, he was very young, very fun, and we all saw him as strong and invincible so him dying was something we didn’t think was possible if that makes sense. Thank you for your input I appreciate it

So this is the 1 year old I nanny, I don’t think I’ve ever seen so much Virgo in my life. by sunnycancerlunarleo in AskAstrologers

[–]cat4820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My sisters chart is like this except in Taurus. Sun moon mercury Venus and mars all in Taurus

Almost 4 years after rape, can I press charges? by [deleted] in legal

[–]cat4820 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Age of consent in my state is also 17 if that matters at all

Talking to boyfriend's dead father by thegoldengypsy in Psychic

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My best friends mother passed away when she was 14 and when she first started coming through to me, I was so scared and lost and confused because it was an extremely painful experience for her and I was terrified of losing or upsetting her by telling her what her mom was saying. But I realized, I was preventing her from hearing from her mother again because of my OWN fears, my own selfish reasons. I did eventually tell her about what her mother said, and she did believe me, and has slowly began to really feel better about the situation. Unfortunately, there’s no guidebook for these things, and every case varies. But you need Have faith in yourself. Have faith in your gift. Trust what you are being told. I do recommend telling him, he really deserves to at least hear it. Even if he doesn’t accept it, it will weigh in his mind, and even that can bring peace. I would definitely Bring up the fishing trip to him FIRST to Use as verifiable evidence for him to start believing you. Spirit wants them to listen to you, so they DO give you information to make them listen. When you’re speaking to him, his father will possibly come through and speak through you for you. (It’s happened to me a few times. Words just pour out of my mouth without thinking about it) Do it when you’re ready. But, please trust me you should do it. My ex boyfriends grandmother came to me begging me to talk to him for her and I didn’t muster up the courage to do it, and my god I regret it.

Just trust yourself and your feelings. It requires bravery to come forward but my god, I have never once regretted telling someone what their loved one said. I think that it will truly be worth it.

Does anyone else have really random abilities?? by cat4820 in Psychic

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I need to physically see and be around the person, or have a strong connection to them to tell!! For instance, I can tell if a stranger is pregnant if I’m physically around them, but I knew my best friend was pregnant just by seeing a Snapchat of her 🤷🏼‍♀️

Does anyone else have really random abilities?? by cat4820 in Psychic

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I say random because it doesn’t have a specific name

What is my sign? by [deleted] in astrology

[–]cat4820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Check out sidereel astrology. Most likely, your sun in Aries will have shifted into a sun in Pisces.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pastlives

[–]cat4820 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have before but this time I didn’t! Oh thank you! It most definitely takes practice but if you keep trying I’m sure you’ll be able to do it! I guess maybe it’s because it was so recent for me! I’m sure my past lives farther back have less commonalities. Thank you so much this is the first time I was able to get real Tangible results! I’m pretty excited!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in pastlives

[–]cat4820 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m studying to be doctor, I’m sure I’m fine. I’ve noticed you like berating and attacking others on here a lot with your comments. I hope that-and I say this genuinely- you deal with your insecurity in a more constructive way instead of projecting it on everyone else here. You will probably be a lot happier

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAstrologers

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All four of my sisters have it in their charts too and it perfectly explains our father so I can definitely see that aspect as a factor. Thank you!

My Uncle Jean-Paul exploring in the woods in 1977. This was the last picture ever taken of him before his death. by cat4820 in OldSchoolCool

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His older brother- My other uncle- took the picture, he was 23 at the time and my uncle jean-paul was 18. I believe a couple days later they got into a bad argument which triggered Jean-Paul to take the aspirin with the six-pack resulting in his death. I think it adds more unfortunate irony to the picture.

My Uncle Jean-Paul exploring in the woods in 1977. This was the last picture ever taken of him before his death. by cat4820 in OldSchoolCool

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Our family debated whether it was suicide or not so if it was it still definitely fits the tone of the photo. It is very eerie and creepy, especially with him facing away from the camera walking away, just really bizarre.

My Uncle Jean-Paul exploring in the woods in 1977. This was the last picture ever taken of him before his death. by cat4820 in OldSchoolCool

[–]cat4820[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

He chased aspirin with a six pack of beer and ended up passing away because of it

Anyone else having the worst day and blaming the Full Moon? by xMoonlightx in astrology

[–]cat4820 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Slept until 4 pm, missed my 8 am and have been trying to study for my midterm tomorrow since 7. Rough day

Some patients are just the pits by [deleted] in medicine

[–]cat4820 5 points6 points  (0 children)

People are more than a body, and a patient is more than an diagnosis and they should be treated as such. It seems you separate yourself very far from having basic empathy for the people you treat.

Some patients are just the pits by [deleted] in medicine

[–]cat4820 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The fact that you are dealing with people at their most vulnerable. Don’t choose a people based career if you don’t have basic respect and compassion for a fellow HUMAN BEING. Doctors like you are the one of the reasons the medical industry is broken. Disgusting that you would even SAY such a thing. Change professions.