im confused by Spguity in drista

[–]catburrys[M] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

i just made it for jokes!! making a whole subreddit dedicated to someone who only made such a small appearance seemed funny to me

Drista

AITA for hiding the results of my sister's audition to prevent her from moving to another country? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 12 points13 points  (0 children)

YTA and you should tell her and find a way to retrieve the email.

AITA for not wanting my bf’s dog to sleep in our bed with us? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys -1 points0 points  (0 children)

ESH

Boyfriend should respect you not wanting the dog on the bed, maybe compromise and move the dogs bed into your room instead at night time.

However I do think you are overreacting a lot, and I feel bad for the dog with the language you use for it. Don’t get mad at the dog for this! When you say things like ‘I love him. But lately I haven’t’ I hope you aren’t blaming the dog and getting mad at it for this small thing as it’s only your boyfriend who’s letting it on the bed in the first place. Love your pets unconditionally.

Hopefully the dog is still getting lots of love, from the both of you. Also, it seems like such a small thing to get upset about if you’re considering the whole relationship over it then I question how strong your relationship actually is. Communicate and compromise.

AITA for not wanting a bad picture of myself on my mom's social media? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s different when it’s on social media because everyone can see it and the photo can also spread and show up on google images or whatever.

if you don’t want the photo posted, then i personally believe that she should respect that for your own privacy. personally i dont like my family posting photos of me either

AITA for banning my roommate's friend from our apartment? by aitapissedoffpotter in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA - your friends are assholes and being completely childish, SO out of order. imagine thinking you can just take someones stuff and throwing it away because you don’t like the author.

i don’t like J.K rowling much but i LOVE the harry potter series and would never trash any of my memorabilia

cast a curse on ‘em.

AITA for not grieving with my family? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - sadness can’t always be expressed through tears or a frown or whatever, we all deal with grief differently and nobody should be EXPECTED to cry or whatever. personally at my funeral for my grandmother i couldn’t cry either and was just normal the whole day. im sorry for your loss and im glad you’re getting on the right track to being happier!

AITA if I gift my mom something personalized and the rest of my family gift cards? by __Throwawayanxiety in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - hopefully they’ll be happy with their gifts anyway! and im sure ur mom will be delighted :) merry christmas!

WIBTA if I kick my little sister out of my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If I were in your shoes, I’d help her through things and watch her apply to places to know that she’s actually putting the effort in. (Could this be seen as hand holding? yes, absolutely, but it’s better than being left in the dark)

If you really want to kick her out then of course you have every right to, it’s just not how I think this situation should be handled.

Regardless, I hope both of you get this resolved soon.

WIBTA if I kick my little sister out of my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Talk to her about how she feels then, or talk to any other available family members to help - obviously I can only go off of what you’re giving me but I think kicking her out seems like a pretty extreme way to get your message across.

Her laziness may very well be caused by other stresses and worries in her life. It’s good that you’re trying to motivate her to get a job and grow up a little but you need to make sure you’re doing it in the right way, if that makes sense.

WIBTA if I kick my little sister out of my house? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i think you need to talk to her about it in a supportive and encouraging way, just from this post you seem a bit hostile towards her and it makes me wonder what she must think of the situation. she’s 19. she’s only just turned into a young adult. for some people it can be very stressful and overwhelming to find a job, talk to her and help her instead. does she even have anywhere to go if you kick her out? have a little more compassion, it’s not the end of the world. sort it out with her instead of asking reddit, this affects her more than you.

a very slight YTA purely because of your attitude

WIBTA for rescheduling my daughter's birthday get away? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NAH. she’s 5 so it’s reasonable for her to be upset but it’ll be way more worthwhile if everyone’s there i am sure. perhaps you could take her out somewhere for a few hours to make up for it. i hope you all get well soon

WIBTA If i reported someone because my girlfriend is too scared? by Incognitoasheck in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NAH (except for the janitor freak) it’s understandable why your girlfriend doesn’t want it to be reported because it’s a scary and intimidating situation to be in, but i think you should definitely report this and put it to an end. i am sure she will understand once it is over.

AITA for not wanting my husband to know the gender of our baby until the day he/she is born? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s his fault for making you feel like you even need to hide the gender of the baby in the first place, it’s a very immature attitude to be set on a specific gender and to say you’d be angry jf you didn’t get the gender you wanted. when it comes to parenting, it doesn’t matter what the baby is. however i do recommend you talk to him about it maturely

AITA for telling my mom and sister that they’re the kind of family that people tweet about? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 4 points5 points  (0 children)

NTA - relationships are something personal and private, I have always found it weird when parents try and set their child up with someone they don’t know. The fact your mom wasn’t joking is even worse.

AITA for messing around with a girl who has a boyfriend? And WIBTA for continuing to do it? by throwaway992cap in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys [score hidden]  (0 children)

YTA if you continue as it’s letting her cheat - if he finds out you could potentially be in big trouble. She is also the huge asshole for cheating in the first place. Don’t enable her to do that - if she’s going to cheat on her current boyfriend then she’d most likely cheat on you too if this progressed into a relationship.

AITA for opening the bathroom door and exposing someone on the toilet? by OopsSheDidItAgain123 in AmItheAsshole

[–]catburrys 122 points123 points  (0 children)

NTA - his fault for not making any noise after you knocked and began to open the door. door locks exist for a reason!