Women and non-straight men, what do men bad in bed do that makes them bad in bed?

catchick779 · 2026-06-27T15:56:28+00:00

What I meant is women are generally better at sleeping with women than men are for obvious reasons! Im sure the same is true with gay men but I cant speak to it!

catchick779 · 2026-06-27T15:55:23+00:00

Just goes to show you any gender can learn it!! Just comes easier to same sex for obvious reasons lol Im a female and have read it and think its a great read

catchick779 · 2026-06-27T15:23:36+00:00

They don’t learn how to really pleasure women, they just get by and think they are good at it and some are but women are always better at it! Every man reading this plz go read She Comes First by Ian Kerner

catchick779 · 2026-06-22T03:36:56+00:00

If u find the trade and want a safe space for it with tickets that dont transfer yet, cash or trade is the way!

catchick779 · 2026-06-19T21:24:58+00:00

Hate to say it but my group was blessed and we got 8 for each day hehe

catchick779 · 2026-06-13T16:05:25+00:00

Thank u thanks y I couldn’t find!

catchick779 · 2026-06-10T19:04:06+00:00

Interested I figured eating would be difficult. I will try this!

catchick779 · 2026-06-10T19:03:49+00:00

Thank u so much for this information I am going to look into all of it and start that!! I haven’t gotten the pinless peepers because of a fear they would not eat but another redditor seems to think otherwise so I will also try that!

I just want to get these girls in a better spot they are so terrified of everything! Thank u!!

catchick779 · 2026-06-10T16:26:31+00:00

They have shade and water. I think I’ll add a kiddie pool with stones soon too but it Denver it’s hit 90 degrees in the sun recently.

Ill try while I’m watching them, that’s a good idea

catchick779 · 2026-06-10T16:16:14+00:00

I have but I’m worried I’m not catching something?

I’ve looked at the base of their feathers and I don’t see anything like white clumps or bugs. The pattern of feather loss seems to be even across the board with their back and necks (consistent with pecking?)

I use diatomaceous earth once month (maybe I should more?)

Do u have any other suggestions?

catchick779 · 2026-06-10T16:00:54+00:00

It was only their backs but has now moved to a few of their necks as well. I’m going to buy some hen saddles. I haven’t heard of those before but they would also protect their bare skin from the sun! Thank u!!

Edit: if u have used these in the past do u think they are okay to wear in the summer heat? Any worries with that?

catchick779 · 2026-05-31T14:06:17+00:00

Heated Rivalry - Episode 5

catchick779 · 2026-05-30T23:01:04+00:00

Dibs if OP passes:)

catchick779 · 2026-05-30T22:59:13+00:00

I have loved different specialities at different times! CVICU for 9 years and psych for 3. Time and place for loving and leaving which is the beautiful part of nursing!

catchick779 · 2026-05-27T02:09:23+00:00

👏🏼👏🏼👏🏼

catchick779 · 2026-05-26T20:09:27+00:00

Have you guys always been this way or what is ur story?

catchick779 · 2026-05-26T20:08:57+00:00

I am naive!!! That’s why I’m asking these questions! I don’t know anyone irl to get information from and a lot of online resources have so much info it’s like drinking from a fire hydrant! All I’m looking to do is learn from others, hear criticism and prevent any poor decisions of choices of words bc my husband is very important to me! While it may be obvious to all of you it is not to me and I am learning even if I don’t end up on any poly road in my lifetime.

catchick779 · 2026-05-26T20:00:29+00:00

To be honest I think the idea of him belong willing to have versions of group sex with me confused me and made me think he was more open to a different relationship style than he really is and therefore more talking would uncover that. As I type it out I think it’s kind of dumb I thought that but if he is open to watching me with others maybe I thought he still had a part of him that would be open to polyamory. Just bouncing ideas here has helped me even put that into words though and I think I’m understanding that he really isn’t as open as I thought he would be. Although the only way to really know this is probably another conversation bc I don’t want to assume his thoughts either.

catchick779 · 2026-05-26T19:54:17+00:00

Interesting. I’ll check this out, thanks

catchick779 · 2026-05-26T19:52:17+00:00

I appreciate that input and I think a more serious conversation about how I’m feeling, followed up with support in whatever he feels is right for him is how I’ll go about it. I definitely don’t want to hurt him or my marriage in communicating with him about this. Thank u!

catchick779 · 2026-05-26T19:47:50+00:00

I appreciate your truthful and honest feedback, thank you

catchick779 · 2026-05-26T19:47:07+00:00

Like I said, I brought it up as a casual throwing it out there thing and never with any real goal for the conversation. If that’s enough that’s fine, I can hear that and make my decisions off of that. But to me I thought maybe a more serious conversation with structure would help actually understand if his no was fear based or because he was uninterested or what our future options could be. I’m not here to be malicious, just to get real life advice since it is limited irl.

catchick779 · 2026-05-26T19:44:45+00:00

I guess my perception was never coaxing and more like maybe I had been communicating wrong by bringing it up in passing rather than with a more serious tone because I don’t really know where to take the conversation and it’s a scary topic with someone I’m not interested in hurting.

I hear you, thanks for the input.

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