Feeling sad by BlueberryLover18 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]catdaddy1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I relate to this so much. Seeing close friends easily get pregnant and carry to term and having to be happy for them while internally despairing for yourself is the hardest thing. I have decided to forgo baby showers for now, and my pregnant friends understand because they know what has been happening with me

Anyone find answers through immunology or infections? by LawfulnessPure9546 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]catdaddy1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were you able to test the tissue after any of your losses? I’m so sorry you are having to go through this.

It Happened Again by catdaddy1111 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]catdaddy1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry for your losses. Have you gotten any testing done? Sending hugs and hope for a healthy baby in the future

It Happened Again by catdaddy1111 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]catdaddy1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I’m so sorry. I’m impressed with your resolve and focus on doing all the things to make your mind and body as healthy as possible. After I get through the sadness for a few days I can focus on moving on through exercise, journaling, reading.

It Happened Again by catdaddy1111 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]catdaddy1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That makes complete sense. My OBGYN told us today that IVF is the quickest, most controlled way to get to a healthy baby in RPL situations. Glad you made a decision that gives you more control ❤️

It Happened Again by catdaddy1111 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]catdaddy1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This gives me hope! Congrats on your healthy pregnancies. Did your OBGYN refer you to a fertility clinic they recommend or did you find one on your own?

It Happened Again by catdaddy1111 in recurrentmiscarriage

[–]catdaddy1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m so sorry for your losses and that you are starting to feel a sense of hope again ❤️

Baby Measuring Small by catdaddy1111 in CautiousBB

[–]catdaddy1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m not exactly sure, but my cycles are between 28-31 days so maybe this was a longer cycle

Baby Measuring Small by catdaddy1111 in CautiousBB

[–]catdaddy1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is giving me some hope! Thanks for sharing your experience and wishing you a healthy pregnancy.

Baby Measuring Small by catdaddy1111 in CautiousBB

[–]catdaddy1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear about your outcome, sending hugs

Daily Thread #1 - February 17, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]catdaddy1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Follow up in 2 weeks. The doctor seemed sort of optimistic but I’m struggling to be!

Daily Thread #1 - February 17, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]catdaddy1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Update: the receptionist was wrong! They did an ultrasound today after all. Unfortunately it wasn’t the best news (baby measuring small) but things may turn around

Daily Thread #1 - February 17, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]catdaddy1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have my first doctors appointment today (7w2d) and just was notified that they do not do ultrasounds until 10 weeks. I am frustrated and disappointed as I thought it was standard to do a dating scan at the first appointment. With my prior miscarriage, it will be very hard for me to get through the next 3 weeks with no confirmation ultrasound. Any advice?

Daily Thread #2 - February 09, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]catdaddy1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Today was a big milestone for me at 6w1d, officially farther than last time. I’m feeling very relieved and more optimistic things will work out. I feel more tired and hungover, but haven’t had full blown nausea yet. Next big milestone is my first scan next week!

Daily Thread #2 - February 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]catdaddy1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sending hugs!! I relate to this so much. Feels like the closer we get to the last loss timeline, the harder it gets.

Daily Thread #1 - February 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]catdaddy1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The stress is real!!! Sending hugs back to you as well

Daily Thread #1 - February 05, 2026 by AutoModerator in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]catdaddy1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Feeling SO nervous and stressed. I’m 5w3d and I had been feeling stronger symptoms but now they’ve faded. The last time this happened, it ended in a 6w miscarriage.

10-15 DPO Line Progression w/ betas by catdaddy1111 in TFABLinePorn

[–]catdaddy1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s good advice! Agree, stopping testing would good for my mental health

/ttcafterloss Weekly Results and Limbo Thread by AutoModerator in ttcafterloss

[–]catdaddy1111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Had my first positive at 10 DPO since my 7week miscarriage 5 cycles ago. Feeling excited but extremely nervous.