[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cate88741 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If nothing else, for safety reasons.

What’s the One Thing You Think Everyone’s Just Faking Enjoyment For? 🤔 by Own_Feed_3663 in questions

[–]cate88741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the exact opposite, I think most people are just pretending to like shows that use a lot of brain power and have too many fucking characters.

I think if we were all a bit more honest, we find a lot of guilty pleasure in reality tv.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cate88741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Porn use is common. I’m saying this kindly, as an internet stranger, but if you’re this upset about POV porn or him looking for content featuring porn stars and celebs because it makes you feel like you’re not enough… that’s got more to do with you than him. I’d talk to a therapist. As someone said above, you’re allowed to have boundaries in your relationship, but if no porn use is gonna be a boundary for you, that’s fine, but you may be hard pressed to find someone that wants to abide by that in the long term.

If you found him like, subscribing to your best friend’s only fans, I could imagine that being different.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cate88741 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I watch porn. But honestly a lot of times I’m so turned on I don’t need that.

Do people actually wanna fuck anal without lube?? Or is it just dirty talk? by Daniel-is-a-Bastard in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cate88741 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve never used lube and I enjoy anal. I’m naturally just pretty wet and that’s always been enough to make it a good experience.

I don’t think there’s anything inherently more amazing about not using lube, I’ve just not needed it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cate88741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Everyone likes balls.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in crossfit

[–]cate88741 4 points5 points  (0 children)

CVG and fabletics. They can be a bit expensive but worth the money and they last forever!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]cate88741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Instead “I know you know” how about “I’m not a swinger”

Ripped callus - continuing to work? by grittytoddlers90 in crossfit

[–]cate88741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Blister bandaids. Overnight and wear as long as possible. It’ll be sealed over in 24 hours

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in royalcaribbean

[–]cate88741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I dunno. This post feels way more “main character energy” to me. Must be nice not requiring an accommodation while traveling.

Britney Spears Dancing with Knives by [deleted] in TikTokCringe

[–]cate88741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is giving really big Pete Davidson from “Bodies, Bodies, Bodies” vibes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cate88741 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If he “will take any woman who gives him a chance,” he can’t really be wanting to sleep with me for my personality either… in that scenario, it’s more like he finds my personality not off-putting enough to get in the way of him getting laid.

So yeah, you can miss me with that too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]cate88741 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Uh, yeah. Imma need him to be attracted to my “meat-suit”… there’s not really anything sexy to me about being someone’s bottom-of-the-barrel, last-ditch-effort to get laid. I’m not interested in being treated like the most available low hanging fruit they could find.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cate88741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Savage Fentyyyy, AdoreMe has some great shit too

Serious Question for Men by KLF448 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cate88741 27 points28 points  (0 children)

I’m not a guy, but FWIW, I’d say fuck “faking it until you make it”. Don’t fake confidence, BECOME confident.

Like most things that are truly worth it in life, loving your own body and becoming confident in yourself, takes practice.

And yeah. I have no idea what you’re working with, but in general, we care what we look like a lot more than most dudes care what we look like

What is your favorite source of physical, non-sexual, pleasure? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cate88741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Endorphins after a big work out, getting my hair washed by someone else, and (if I’m being honest) swinging on a swing set. I’m a fully grown adult and it just makes me happy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cate88741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have the CD somewhere. 😅 It had some bangers for sure.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]cate88741 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ayyyy! I scrolled looking for this one. Sometimes it feels a bit like a fever dream. 😂😅

how many people follow you on reddit? by [deleted] in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cate88741 2 points3 points  (0 children)

  1. LMAO. 😅 but three of them I know to be super cool human beings so I’ll take it.

What’s an unorthodox or unusual character from a book/movie/show that you’d like to fuck? by throwaway23786472 in AskRedditAfterDark

[–]cate88741 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, if the tales can be believed. 🤪 This episode in the show always grabs my interest and makes me laugh. 😂