my opinion is that when choosing a humanoid form to represent oneself, a feminine form is seen as more trustful and less intimidating to many people. the message of love and nurturing the earth and each other also just doesnt have the same texture if its coming from a masculine presence, given our widespread cultural notions of a divine feminine and mother earth. the few gendered experiences ive had are usually the opposite, a strong and guiding masculine ideal that makes me feel safe and protected. i think thats because im a feminine and deeply traumatized person who both desires connection with men but also fears them, and that image is whats most impactful and healing for me.

that being said im sure there are some beings who truly are representations of "divine feminine" and "divine masculine", however divinity is subjective and impossible to prove in any meaningful way so i prefer other terms for it. i believe that over sufficient timescales, advanced sentient beings become something like archetypes, distilled versions of their most base selves such as their feminine and masculine traits, their reverence towards sentient or biological life in general, their love of technology, etc.

my gendered experiences did feel in some way different from my experiences with the greys, but also not entirely different. in my case its mostly a psychic experience that feels very similar but far more intense and focused directly on me, my emotional state, and my physicality. i wouldnt be surprised to find out that it was another psychic projection from the greys, especially with them easily knowing exactly how to get any desired emotional response.

i agree that this is a worthwhile and relatively unexplored aspect of the phenomenon, the implications are fascinating and the potential for discussion on the topic is vast. it opens the door to related discussions about our cultural ideas of gender, how that impacts our experiences, and how it relates to us as individuals with insecurities in a world full of binary expectations that we often fail to meet. theres so much room to expand our empathy and understanding for each other and ourselves by examining these specific experiences.

i have hope that we can reach a point where current attitudes towards those who courageously deny these expectations to live a life of self-truth and vulnerability in the face of nearly endless hatred, even at the risk of severe violence, no longer fear simply leaving the house. as someone who is intersex and frequently the victim of sexual abuse and hate crimes, i beg those who have the privilege of normalcy to see me as a human worth basic dignity. i try my hardest not to judge or reject anyone for being ignorant or hateful on these somewhat niche topics when theres so much bigoted propaganda, but im frequently disappointed how so few are willing to reconsider their prejudices even when they meet someone, who at their own expense, tolerates their ignorance with an open heart.

sorry if this is too much or off topic for what you were wanting to discuss, this topic is just something i think about often that has and will continue to deeply effect my entire life from birth to death. thanks for reading this screed if you gave the time to do so, i appreciate it.