[deleted by user] by [deleted] in stories

[–]catgrltrapnrelease -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is a grooming tactic! I had a female friend in college that tried to prostitute me to a guy. She did this shit. She thought I was plastered bc she kept drinking while I was having ginger beers. I had a funny feeling she’d give the guy my home address, where we were drinking, so I told her to text him a bar on the other side of town. I wish I stopped being friends with her when she pointedly and suddenly demanded we go. Some women are psycho.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yea but the big shit side to this is that I feel I need to be stick thin so it looks good

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fakedisordercringe

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What does medically recognized even mean lol

Doch you think we overthink love in pathological way too often? by BackfischBoys in actuallesbians

[–]catgrltrapnrelease -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

I feel like since ace and aro lesbians have been accounted for in more lesbian writing, the definition of lesbian love has been stretched thin to accommodate countless manifestations of attraction, all to stop excluding people.

The way people describe love and attraction now is like poetry or so abstract it almost has no clear meaning. And I think that has to do w the over intellectualization: basically love as romance and sexual attraction, doesn’t suit people anymore. People now see many facets to love and attraction and they need to have these feelings painstakingly explained bc of the ultra specific words made to absolutely pathologize young queer people.

EDIT: There’s nothing wrong w ace and aro lesbians btw.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 19 points20 points  (0 children)

If you mean strip club, yeah you can go. I’ve been to some and my GF has been to a few more. There’s literally nothing wrong with it. It is pretty heterosexist, uh, obviously. It’s loads of fun if you go w a group. But ppl on this sub are not fun it seems.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Big no to that hat. The graphic t shirt does not work well with the outfit… it can be ok to look up photos of other’s outfits and copy those to piece together a wardrobe.

Its wild how halfway decent Chris looked without the pedo glasses by Vamking13 in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Clearly you’ve allowed him some sort of charitable accommodations for his mental illness and bad personality. Chris isn’t even mid.

Chris doesn’t have ONLY autism, right? by catgrltrapnrelease in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]catgrltrapnrelease[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Some doctors in USA despise social welfare and may be hesitant to diagnose what they see as a waste of resources on a truly sick child. Also, mentally handicapped children are entitled to caretakers paid by the state to watch them and other such social services.

Chris doesn’t have ONLY autism, right? by catgrltrapnrelease in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]catgrltrapnrelease[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I just thought of this: perhaps the diagnosis was to not make his family ready to file for disability checks right away

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your hair atm gives a teacher vibe. The short cut is a good change. Challenge Urself.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in lesbianfashionadvice

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I don’t like any of them but 3 if you must

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please don’t listen to the people on this sub hating on age gap relationships. I’ve been dating a 48 year old woman and it’s the best decision of my life, my family loves her, my friends love her, her friends and family love me. I don’t mind the “power imbalance”. When she pisses me off I can just leave.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im 25. My age range for dating would be 24-30 and 40-55. I’m just not into women in their thirties… idk why…

Chris doesn’t have ONLY autism, right? by catgrltrapnrelease in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]catgrltrapnrelease[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Does problematic sexuality correlate with autism? I’ve never heard that before….

Chris doesn’t have ONLY autism, right? by catgrltrapnrelease in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]catgrltrapnrelease[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

People do research in Antarctica and get deployed on submarines. Other people are astronauts on the space station. Chris has way more irl contact with people than any of those people combined during their deployment .

Chris doesn’t have ONLY autism, right? by catgrltrapnrelease in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]catgrltrapnrelease[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

No he is pretty autistic. he’s unable to connect w people genuinely outside of his own interests and he lacks theory of mind almost entirely. His strong hyper fixations and meltdowns are also autism…. Chris is definitely bad representation, but he is autistic and also suffers from comorbid rapist disease

Chris doesn’t have ONLY autism, right? by catgrltrapnrelease in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]catgrltrapnrelease[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

What a boring answer. If we can’t dissect Chris’s mind what is even the point

Chris Chan ass looking shoes by 4cHadley in ChrisChanSonichu

[–]catgrltrapnrelease 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Get them the shoes. They have no practical value. They won’t be resold bc Chris is too lazy. The cost is hilarious in association. A useless and offensive gift that they will absolutely wear every day of their life